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Hey everyone! We're Mary n Giuliana and we're best friends! With all the drama in our lives we give tons of advice to our friends everyday! Now we decided to stop bein so selfish n share it with everyone! We're 13 n we know everything about everthing! Sports, School, Bisnotches @ school(we had our own experiences), and more! Enjoy our site!
Website: Giuliana n Mary's Awesome Advice
Gender: Female
Occupation: Students
Age: 13
Member Since: September 1, 2005
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Last Update: October 23, 2005
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks (link)
um...i'm not sure, just follow your heart and do whatever feels right. I guess telling him the truth is best but i know you don't wanna risk ur relationship. I think you should just wait til the time is right and tell him..
hope this helps


ok well i think i have social anxiety disorder because when ever people whisper i always thnk there talking bad about me and i always think that im getting negativly judged everywhere i go its weird then i get all self concioncion and then now i never go out and i always think my friends are mad at me and i dont know whats wrong with me...HELP!!

if you give good advice then i rate fives no smart alecs and

also im 13/f (link)
ok before assuming somethings wrong with you just take my adivce...first you need to get some self-confidence, i think when i was a little younger i used to be kinda self-concious but then i just started being myself and i dont give a damn wut anyone thinks about me. If your really that self-soncious talk to your friends about it. And if they're really your true friends then they wouldn't be whispering about you. Just be yourself and have fun with life...you only have one life but if you live it right once is enough.

hope this helps


does anyone know how to make icons?? especially the flashing ones....like on iconator.com with using paint or microsoft picture it! photo premium 9?? will rate 5s for everything!! (link)
I'm not sure how to make really good ones but i make some on icondressup.com and it works really well.



Ummm for Halloween I am going to be a Gothic Fariy but I am not sure what I should wear as far as accseires or make-up! Could you help me out? Pictures would be really great too!Thanks I will rate high for good answers! (link)
last year i was a gothic faire, i wore black lipstick and painted my nails black. i also scrunched my hair and of course i looked super cute!

hope this helps


ok well I am 14 and when I am around guys any guys i tend to go in look in the mirrior alot it is weird I don't have a boyfriend but I want one but know one I know is my type I like a few guys at school thats it
My question is why do I act so weird around the guys and why can't I get a boyfriend and I am not ugly but I guess I have a preppy personallitie]

well i hope i get helped (link)
you're not ugly...and its so natural for you to act weird around guys...i go to an all girls school and when i first started hanging around guys it was weird, but i just learned that i have to be myslef and they'll like u for who you are. And for the boyfriend thing...just giv it sum time....every1 gets a boyfrend, its just a matter of who gets one first.


ok when i answer some peoples questions i answer them to the best of my abilities, but they end up rating me really bad because i say one bad thing liek these recent ones i put bf for boyfriend and she rated me a two and said that i should spell everything out next time and i will get a higher rating and another one i answered and just becuase i said what ever floats your boat they said its not about them and they rated me bad

this is really killing my ratings ill rate you good (link)
u jus suck a giving advice....take these's people advice and maybe you'll get better ratings.


Well I like my bff (im m/14 my bestfriend is also m/14) and well he's unfourtunealtley strait, well i want to be able to go out with him. But i odn't want ppl knowing i'm Bi, anyways I found a way to get him to like me... well my friend used to do wicca stuff(spells) and she's finding me a love spell. I've seen stuff like this work before(she's done it) so i want to do it on him but i don't know if i should because I don't want to force him into this but i want to have him love me... what should i do should i use it or not?
I rate high...unlesss youre ignorant (link)
ur just a really weird person...


what is a good way to start talking to someone who you like and you think that person likes you too. im sometimes really shy. (link)
Just start with the basics-"hey!" "wuts up" "wut r u doing tonite"-just don't sound like a dork. Hope this helps


I read one of your answers about the gossip girls book. Right now I'm reading the 5th book. I really don't get it, lol because I'm only on the 2nd page. Do I have to start reading from book #1 to get the whole thing? My library doesn't have 1-3. & who is Nate? One of the charecters? Thanks! (link)
Hey! sorry i havent answered your question sooner...so anywayz, i think it helps if you read the first 4 books because they are soo good and giv you all the info and stuff but the author doesnt do a bad job of informing you in all the books. Like everytime i read a new book she always mentions things that happened in previous books...and Nate is a toally gorgeous guy who was Blair's boyfriend but then sumthin happens (dont wanna giv it away) so i think you shud read the first 4 books!!!



Is there any way I can read The Gossip Girls series online? (link)
OMG! i don't really hav an answer to your question but i love the gossip girls series!!! I need to start reading the sixth book! Nate is sooo hot!!! brb, im gonna see if i can answer your question.....ok i can't rlly asnwer your question...really sorry, but hope u like the books they are sooo good! Just don't let your mom know you're reading them cuz then she's gonna read them and that's not good. They're cumin out with a movie for it n the writing for Gilmore Girls is writing the script. Lindsay Lohan is gonna play Blair tho...ugggh i hate her! o well ttyl!


okay, so me and three of my best friends are like really close. we even have a "group". well, im closest with this one girl "Patty" and then "Meghan" and "Karen" are close. patty and i talk about everything and have such a good time together, and we never really get in fights. meghan and karen expect us to invite them everywhere and we invite them a lot of places, but they dont invite us places. they are also rude and bail out on us a lot. they totally take us for granted and act like we have no feelings! what should me and patty do?

ps - me and patty have a lot more friends thatn karen and megahn, so if we took a " break " from them, theyd probably be sitting at home alone or just with each other alot. (link)
If u dont wanna be friends with them then don't be. Let them realize they're own mistakes. You n patty shud stay tight and don't let anything cum between u.


my hair is just plain poofy hair! the underpart is really bad and the top is kinda wavy...i want to be able to scrunch it but i cant because of the underpart. and blwodrying sucks on my hair. what to do!? (link)
Omg i go throught the same exact thing! It's soo annoying. Anywayz...try using Frizz Ease products, they help a lot. And there's this other stuff i use, it from bed head, its like this greenish color n it supposed to help make it straight and less frizzy. Then put in some mousse and start to scrunch it. Afterwards flip ur head down n put it in a messy bun. Leave it in for about 15 minutes and then spray some extra hold spray in it.

Hope this helps


My face is always kind of shiny. Are there any products or anything I could do to get rid of this? (link)
Try to use oil free make-up like powders instead of liquids. Oil free face wash helps too.

hope this helps


okay...i just got out of a relationship and it ended very badly. i fell in love with him and hes been saying very mean things to me and im finally over him completely. theres this other guy that im friends with and ive been thinking about him a whole lot and im really starting to like him and hes really nice and hes got such a great personality. im just scared to fall for someone like i did last time and get hurt and go through all this again..even though i do trust this guy that i like. should i go for it or keep waiting? (link)
Go for the guy you like. jus remember....even tho they're really hard to find, there are sum hot sweet funny rich guys out there....and not all guys are the same...

hope this helps


okay well i have a biiggg problem. i kinda have 2 boyfriends. ik befor you start telling me imma skank or w.e just listen. so i have been going out with this kid for almost 4 months.. hes 17 *im 13 and we dont care about the age difference* but im in ny and hes in fl. so yeuh there is problem number 1. so i was at the movies with my friend her bf and his friend and my friends bf's friend asked me out and i said yes because i was SOOO mad at my other bf because that day he hung up on me THREE times and he was calling me liek an asshole or w.e and this other kid who just asked me out is reallly cool and stuff. so now that i sit here and actually say i have 2 boyfriends ik i have to dump one. but i do not kno who. its tearing me apart inside nobody knos how bad this is hurting me. if my bf from florida lived in ny i would deff dump the other guy.. but i REALLY love him. ugh i do not kno who to chose. puhlesz no smart ass answers. puhlesz hurry. i rate high! (link)
ok your bf in FL is an asshole for callin you an asshole n it seems lik you lik this other guy better so i say dump florida and go out with new york....n dont worry, you're not a skank...i (giuliana) hav 2 boyfrends too....long story dont ask
hope this helps


hey alright me and my 2 friends are going to the greenday concert on friday..what are some good things to wear to that concert..and makeup and stuff?? please no stupid answers i just don't know what to wear! (link)
ok u shud mo deff wear loads of eye liner and prolly a rlly cute top with jeans or a jean skirt...the top shud prolly be either black, red or green...n dont mismatch

hope this helps


i have a friend that is really into drugs. i've always known hes smoked and drank and i was a little uncomforatable but now i found out hes done things like oxycotten and that he drives drunk. if i were to tell anybody the WHOLE SCHOOL would hate me but if something were to happen to him or if he hurts anyone else i dont know if i could live with myself. i cant tell an adult in my school because they'll turn him in. who can i tell and what could i do to help him? (link)
ok first of all you shouldnt even be thinking about what you're goin to do...theres no question about it....tell some1....your best bet is prolly your guidence counsler...jus tell the counsler to make ypu annoyomous. and the whole smoking thing isnt kool either...he needs help n thats where you cum in
hope this helps


okay so i dumped my boyfriend because i like this other guy a little bit. Although i dont know who i like better, my boyfriend or my crush..its like 50% boyfriend, 50% crush..i am so cought up in this i have tried killing myself..please help! (link)
Ok first of all calm down. Killing yourself way way over the top extreme for this situation. Maybe you should try to take a break and see if you really miss your boyfrend. Sumtimes you never realize how much you love sum1 until there gone.

Really hope this helps


im 13 and i dont have my period yet. its been like 3 years since my breats stared developing and like 1 since ive developed pubic hair. my cousin had her period when she was 12. so i think there might be something wrong with me. please help. and dont say see a doctor, i cant. (link)
Don't worry at all. It's normal...I know some people who got it when they're 13. It's perfectly normal so don't worry at all.


i'm a girl and i had a dream i kissed girls am i like a lesbian im really kinda freaked out!!


HELP I RATE HIGH!! (link)
http://dreamgate.com/dream/library/idx_dreamwork_meaning.htm

go to this website to see if it helps


hope it helps




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