Howdy my name is Shelby, and I am seventeen years old. Im blonde blue eyed and really short. I am great at giving advice, because I have had to take so much of it. I will answer ANY questions you need me to answer. I can give teens better advice than anybody. So come on ask me for some advice, Ill help you! =]]]]
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Location: Texas
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 17
Member Since: March 19, 2009
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alright well, this is about my boyfriend and im not him so i will just state the problem to you as well as i can haha well me and my boyfriend have never had sex. we were dating for 3 months then broke up. we are back together now but the week after we broke up he said he wasnt attracted to hot girls anymore. like he said a girl could have been naked in front of him and he wouldnt have got hard. and this is not like him at all because he has had sex plenty of times before we started dating. then the other day when he was eating me out he said all he wanted to do was have sex but he couldnt get hard. this has never happened before and it started all of a sudden right after we broke up. could he have Erectile dysphunction? or an STD? or is it because he was having so much sex before but had none for 3 months? i dont know what it could be but im trying to help him out here (link)
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He may be gay.
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Hi, im 16/f
i know theres cute things guys do for girls every now and then to make them feel good like flowers or sweet notes and stuff. but what can a girl do thats cute for a guy? just to show she loves him
if it helps my bf is 15, captain of the varsity football and lacrosse team. have been dating for 6 months. thanx! (link)
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Hmm... What I did for my guy, I got a bag of Hersheys kisses and I spelt out I LOVE YOU in the kisses. I also bought him a little balloon that said I love you on it. And also a cup with his favorite football teams logo on it. Well I layed it out on his bed and when he walked in he was like so grateful for it...
This may work for you.
Goodluck
Shelby
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kso,
im 13/f, and i have some acne
i've tryed everyhting
proactive, nutrigina, prescribed medication.
but nothing seems too work.
i want to know how i can get rid of my acne in time for grad.
plase help me (link)
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Ive got it!
Just go to your local pharmacy and get a "Vitamin A"
Trust me it works. I use it.
Shelby
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okay so i have naturally curly hair and i think its beautiful its like taylor swifts hair just shorter and not blonde i want to hear mostly from guys what hair you guys like better and girls you too
i'm just curious to see who's the winner! (link)
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Im not a guy either, but I have heard from most guys that they like curly hair more than straight.
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My boyfriend is in debt, Today we recieved a bill that he owes a bank 890 dollars...He has other medical bills and doctor appointment bills that he hasn't paid off. However, For awhile he kept on ignoring them because he is unemployed and is unable to pay off all the bills. This bill we recieved today was a bank bill from a law office. I suggested that he should go to a debt settlement office but it turns out that he will need a lawyer and we can not afford it. We are scared and we do not know what to do...He has tried calling them and exsplaining his situation that he is currently unemployed and is unable to pay off the bills at this time but they didn't seem to want to hear it and threatned to keep hounding him if he doesn't pay it off... We do not want this matter to become a court problem.
Any advice would be great!
Thanks (link)
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Hmmm..... well then try this.
http://www.jobsinri.com/
look here!
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My bangs are comepletely uneven I Would have a stylist cut them so their even but if i had her do that, by bangs would probably be about an inch long. They are very short in the midle and then get longer as you get further from the center.
1.) How can I grow my bangs?
2.) I really like side swept bangs. Can I do that now? Or do I have to wait till they grow out? (link)
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The side swept bangs is a good way to hide the uneveness LOL. This will definitly work.
Shelby
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I'm a freshman in high school. theres ths guy that i like but he's a Junior. We see each other in the halls all the time and ive seen his checking me out before more than once haha. How can I get him to notice me more and even talk to me? (link)
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I'll actually give you a real answer to this question. When walking down the hallways, if you see this guy looking at you... Smile and say hey! Eventually after a few weeks of saying Hey to each other, you'll be known as acquaintances. This will give you an opportunity to talk to him.
A little tip, my boyfriend just told me guys like it when girls make the first move in anything.
Goodluck,
Shelby
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I've been trying to lose weight lately and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what i could eat for lunches at work...preferably something i could buy there.. I work at a walmart supercenter thing... But i also need something inexpensive.. so if you have any ideas let me know please.. thanks in advance :) (link)
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If you're busy, you might want to eat a thing of yorgurt for lunch. It's healthy, has no fats and is totally affordable. It's little but it fills me up!
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16/m
Hi well my problem is that I can't ever keep a relationship going every time we breek up within the few weeks or days I can't ever be happy, the other week I asked a girl out I thought we were doing well I was doing everything living it up enjoying my time with her, berly a week and she broke up with me... Why would this happen to me everytime especially this time I really like her I did everything differnt yet I failed, I was once told that I'm the type of guy who usually in those chick flicks gets the girl in the end I never believed it but now I think I'm beginning to understand it, it meant for me to last with a girl I would have had to been through a breakup with her meaning that this would be our second time going out, sounds dumb but I'm willing to try it, the one thing that scares me is that if she don't like me I'm going to end up waiting for years just for nothing,
When I asked why? she told me it was because she was confused and did not know if she liked me the same way as I like her, I gave her a letter and a drawing and a hug and a kiss before I walked away
I don't know what to do (link)
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Hey guy!
I have met a lot of guys in your situation.
They're so sweet but in the end they are "TOO" sweet. Girls want a guy that isn't afraid to show his feelings, but also wants a guy that plays hard to get.
Im going to be very blunt with you. You can't keep a girl either because you are way too clingy or you are way to sensitive or maybe too feminine.
When you had said that you gave her a "drawing,kiss and a hug." I know that if some guy would have drawn me something it would've kinda thrown me off. It's sweet but its just not something a guy would do.
What you need to do is get some manly guy friends and learn how they handle it with a chick.
Then go from there.
Goodluck,
Shelby
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I need some unique ideas on ways to ask a girl to prom! Please help ASAP! (link)
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Hey guy!
I know I would LOVE this go to the store and buy a bag of those little candles that you put in candle holders. And spell out the word Prom with a question mark, have this lit up somewhere special. After a "special" dinner.
Hope this helps a little.
Goodluck,
Shelby
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Okay so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is too. And I absolutely love him ! He makes me so happy and I never felt this way about a guy before. Like he's the first guy I lasted half a year with and I'm planning to stay with him longer. But we promised each other to stay together forever but I'm just scared that it won't last. I mean everything is perfect and we did have several arguments but we came through. But does forever really happen? I'm the type of girl who can stay faithful to a guy for a long time. And he is too but do you think forever is ever going to happen? (link)
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It's hard to tell, because guys aren't always the most faithful. Hope is all you need. Maybe your guy is a better than most, but I wouldn't get your hopes up if it doesn't last "forever".
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i have an iphone but i don't have a cable to transfer files. is there another way to tranfer music and pictures without the cable to my laptop. my laptop doesnt have bluetooth either. is there another way? (link)
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You're iphone charger is the cable.
If you don't have a charger, you've got a problem your phone will die without that cable.
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I don't know what to do with my friend!
I've been friends with this girl, lets call her Abbey, for a few years now. In year 8 we became close because I had no one else to talk to. She was always a big girl so the guys we'd sit with used to pick on her a lot and make her cry so I'd always comfort her and make her feel better. She never wanted to move away from them though, mostly because they were the only guys that gave her attention, which is pretty sad.
Anyway through year 8 she was just a real backstabber, like convincing one of our other friends that i was very close to that i was trying to get with her boyfriend (of course i was not) which led to me and this other girl growing distant, and just not a nice person to me so one time i said to her "look i don't want to be friends with someone like you" and hung out with my guy friends. Eventually after she'd spent 3 weeks staring at me giving me sad 'puppy dog' looks her friend spent an hour trying to convince us to be friends and I said "Whatever, i don't care." By this point i wasn't intending on being best friends with her and I didn't care if she associated herself with me.
In year 9 and 10 she was just a rude person in various ways, ditching me on occasions and things so i just learned to not trust her and found everything went along a lot smoother, particularly as she had her own 'best friend' that she'd spend more time with.
In year 11, her best friend left and now she clings to me and two other friends of mine. By this time I was over everything that had happened and didn't mind her as she had become a funny person to be around that made me laugh. Through year 11 and now into year 12 though, she's just returned to her formal bitchy state.
It's hard to describe the kind of person she is without sounding like I'm just discriminating against her.
I have no problems with how people look, but constantly she refers to how ugly she is and is always telling me things her mother says to her as a way to make me tell her shes the opposite and beautiful and lovely. At first i thought she was just reaching out, so I would do all i could to make her feel better, but then she started repeating things. Over and over again. The same scenarios with her mother, day after day, and she'd sit there and wait for me to tell her the same things. She started telling other friends and basically everyone in her classes the same things and they'd say the same things I'd say. I know this Abbey has a low self-esteem and I've done so much for her ever since year 8 but she doesn't appreciate any of it and it's all just become a ploy for attention.
When i have a serious conversation with her she always makes a hypocritical evaluation that's completely unsophisticated or educated. I know everyone learns differently and some are smart in their own ways but when she speaks it just sounds so rude and ridiculous. Example "I hate how Americans always stereotype Australians, I mean, they're all a bunch of Rednecks" Also if me or my best-friend make a simple mistake that she corrects, she spends weeks reminding us and telling everyone she comes into contact with about it, and in a very mean and insulting way.
I know this girl has issues that cut deep and I still try to help her out, i give her advice and things like that, I try to be nice to her even though pretty much my entire group hates her, telling them it's mean when they make 'fat' jokes about her behind her back (as childish as that sounds) but it's just come to the point where i can't defend her anymore because i feel like I'm doing all this for her and shes being a terrible friend back.
I've tried telling her about things but she just gets upset and makes it worse. I've tried telling her to leave me alone but she comes back the next day as if nothing has happened. I don't want to kick her out of the group because she has no other friends.
I only have about a term left of school so i figured she can just hang around us until school finishes but we have schoolies coming up.
After that essay, here is my question.
Me and about 4 other girls are renting a house for schoolies, and because none of them like Abbey, she's not invited. Abbey hasn't said anything about schoolies yet so i don't know if she'd even want to go but i have a feeling she will eventually. I feel mean not inviting her but I don't want her to go at the same time. A few of my friends hate her because she's always rude to them so i know they'll talk about it in front of her because they don't care. I know if I was her that I'd feel horrible if people did that to me.
I just don't know what to do about her. The only thing i used to like about her was she was just an easy person to laugh with and make stupid jokes, but more recently she's just become annoying and immature.
Can anyone just give me some advice!? (link)
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Find someone new, she's not a true friend. If she were she would care enough about you to not do those things to you.
Shelby
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my best guy friend i think he likes me
but i dont know cuase he has a girlfirend and stuff
but he always wants to be arouind me and all
and he calls me his BEST friend
and tells me he loves me like every 5 minutes
but then he talks about his girlfriend kinda alot
and stuff
and whenever i come to talk about a boy he jus goes "lol" or " ok " or something like that
like idont know what do you guys thiink?
is it possible he may like his girlfriend and me at the same time?? (link)
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Definitly! But don't misconstrude the situation, he may find only a friend in you, because you're the girl he can tell everything to and you'll understand and he can't always go to his girlfriend or his guyfriends because he doesn't think they would understand as much.
But guys are kind of mysterious, I would suggest asking him if he does. That way you can clear the water.
Goodluck
Shelby
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Me and my bf have been dating for almost 9months now and the sex just isnt working out the way we want it and im trying to make it work but i dont know what to do its so hard for me to turn him on he said if i talk dirty to him and other things it might help what are other things i can do and how do you talk dirty haha i wouldnt know the first thing to say id feel stupid what do i do?? help please (link)
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Try making out with him, then nibbling on his ear.
It's worked with a few guys ive been with, maybe it'll work on yours.
Goodluck
Shelby
ps. let me know how it turns out.
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What day does school end for the summer in Texas (USA). (link)
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Depends where do you live?
If you live in like Austin its going to be in June.
If you live in west texas you'll be getting out in May
Shelby
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Hey!
So yesterday i randomly friend requested this guy who is friends with my guy friend because i thought he was really cute lol and he seemed familiar. turns out we know eachother through some people and I have met him like once (but i dont really remember haha)
anyways we talked over messaging for like 2 hours and he seems really cool. I know this is a stretch but i maybe want to possibly go to prom with him or see if something happens (i know this probablly wont happen im not getting my hopes up) but i dont know if i should message him again tonight or wait? or how i should approach this? (link)
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I think you should just send him a friendly but flirty message. Just say like hey whats up? or something, then as you talk more with this conversation say hey we should hangout sometime.
This should work
Goodluck
Shelby
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So I'm only halfway through higschool and I've been with this guy for a while. We are both getting really serious. I like being serious, and I can't stand the fact that we could possibly break up, but everyone tells me not to get so serious, because there's PLENTY of guys out there, especially when I get older! I agree with this, but I don't ever want to break up with him! I'm afraid though, that if we don't break up, I'll never get to experience the things I wanted to in highschool and beyond! Any help? Thanks. =)
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Ive had a boyfriend like yours. I wouldn't get too serious, he may change his personality some if you get more and more into the relationship.
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my mom wont let me dye my hair.
im 16 years old and i can think for myself
and she doesnt get that. everyone dyes there hair these days and i still cant.
i dont understand why i cant. i get highlights
and my mom dies her hair. so i dont understand why i cant.
she keeps telling me its the biggest mistake. and youre gonna have to keep redoing it. blahblahblah
i have blonde hair. but my hair used to be sooooo much blonder. that my hair is like practically like brown. and i hate it.
i want to go like one shade lighter and she wont let me.
any suggestions? (link)
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If your mom is anything like mine, just go do your hair and see what she says.
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Ok. So im Around an age where About all the kids at my middle school have already amde out. Well im the only person that hasnt. I feel so stupid. I mean i know my bf wants to but i seriously dont know how! If someone could atleast explian to me How. I mean I know thres tounge and Stuff. Ha(; Thansk! (link)
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Hahaha, oh those days I remember. Girl it is absolutely amazing. There's not really a way to explain how. Other than that you start just kissing his lips and then start using your tongue (kinda like you're going to like a lollipop) LOL. Now every now and then you're prolly going to get mixed signals with the guy, but don't be embarassed it happens. It will more then likely come to you when you get there.
Now remember just use your lips then your tongue.
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