do guys ( in general ) prefer small thin and petite girls or tall model type girls ?
harhar, im small and thin but no guys actually looked at me. so i dun think thats true.
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okay here is what is going on..me and this guy ben have been going out for about 2 weeks or so and i really like the kid and he says that he likes me to, but it really dont show..we have only hung out once and the first time i tryed to kiss him he gave me a hug so i was waiting for him to kiss me n he hasent..we go to the same school and everything, we dont talk at school n when i call him not all the time he calls me back..i understand he has football everyday but i mean on the weekends he says he has to do something n then he goes n hangs out wit his boys..but yah i seem like im sounding like a 10 year old about this but we dont ever talk or hang out and your suppose to be wit your special someone alot and everything...what should i do?? please help.thanks
2weeks is a pretty short time, maybe hes unsure about everything and his feelings for ya. perhaps he found this relationship going a bit too fast for him that hes unable to catch up? the next time u manage to get him on the phone or at school make ur thoughts and feelings known to him. listen to what he has to say, and from there, we shall see what do to next..
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okay guys or girls this might be long but i dont know!!!! for you guys if you knew me liek as a friend would you ever go out with me(pic in profile).....Okay im very selfconsious about myself for a lot of reasons. Im 15 years old and havent had a serious boyfriend, hadnt had my first kiss yet...some of my friends treat me like shyt!!! and i really want a boyfriend!! like i had people like me before but none that i like in that way! and i liked plenty guys and they knew i liked them but hadnt done anything about it...so ovousily something is wrong me...i be my self all the time and i dont care what people think about me but i was just wondering why anyone wouldnt want to go out with me or why i hadnt have a serious boyfriend.I dont think there is anything the matter with me but ovousily guys do!!! Help Me please cause i sriously hate my life, and i cry myself to sleep everynite because of so many things thats going on in it!!
look deary, im 15 too and i havent had a serious boyfriend nor my first kiss. so whats wrong with that? does that make me and you an alien? we still eat and sleep like every normal human being. heck to those friends who treat u like shyt, they dun deserve to be called 'friends'. the more u feel the need to have a bf, ask ur self is it really neccessary? im glad to know that u do not think theres anything wrong with you, and how do u know guys obviously have? have u asked them? or is because u were too shy to approach a guy. u cant always expect a guy to make the first move on you, that way no guys will see the good substance in you. crying is good way to let things out, but deary its not worth it. thinking too much of problems creates all these tensions in ur mind and makes u feel hatred all the time. seriously trust me, its unhealthy and bad for complexion. lol i hope everything goes well for you.
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Alright well, my friend C and K fake make ouut and kiss all the time. You know where you put your hand over there mouth and kiss it? Well, the other day C kept doing it to K. And put her legs all over her and was all into it. She kept touching K. K looked really uncomfortable. I'm thinking C is lezbo-curious or bi-curious whatever you want to call it. By the way she is only 12.!. What do you think?? I would love to hear your comments. I just think it's wrong 'cause she is only 12.
being 12 is the time when everything feels so weird, ur hormones range and u change physically maybe C is just going through a tough time. it hard to say whether shes les or not.. but lets not jump to conclusions and assume that just becoz she acts like that, shes a les.
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hey everyone ok im gay for starters and i have been made fun of my whole life for it and now people at work are starting too and i think im going to kill myself so please talk to me.:(
nonono! if ure gonna kill urself then nobodys gonna talk to u up "there". firstly all those emotional scars from the past that has been inflicted on you should have healed over the years, look at the past incidents and tell urself ur different and very unique. they can make fun for all u care, but what they say isnt important. never ever ever let their comments get into ur head. its worrying becoz some people who get laughed at actually accept the fact that they are items made to laugh at and in the end they suffer emotionally. ending ur life doesnt mean it will end ur troubles. there is always a way out, if only u'll look for it. and u noe what? i believe that u can find that way to overcome people's jokes about ya. all the best
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my cousin is in my school, he made it so easy for me to fit in there and im soo happy for it..he has so much going for him and now he smokes pot like alotttt he didnt as much before..but i really want him to stop b.c my mom and sister are messed up like that and i dont want it to happen to him, hes an amazing soccer player and everything...how can i talk to him or get him to stop w.o sounding like a health freak?
why not take him out to catch a soccer match or something? do some stuff u he used to like to do when he was younger. like take him on a walk down memory-lane kinda thing? voice out to him that ur not the only one whos worried about him (during the walk) his family is probably just as worried about his health too. to stop sounding like a health freak, go easy on him. dun be too harsh on him when he starts acting weird and smoking pot again. besides it wouldnt take overnight to change him and stop him from smoking pot. maybe u can approach a family member to help ya along with it. hoped i helped a little, take care!
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yes..well he always wants to hang out with friends..and he always wants to go the moviess..and he always wants me there..this been goin on since june i guess..1st he asked me..and out other best friend..who lives around the corner from me..not the one who lived down the street from him..was over..and after i told him she was over..he changed it so it would be 4 of us..and the 2 of us r talkin 2 each other..since we r talkin 2 him online and i said its gonna look a double date..exactly...and then once he didnt want to go bc he was affaird his little sisters would make fun of him or w/e saying he has a gf..so he didnt show up..when i was waitin 4 him for 1/2 hour..then i got home and he was on-line n all i said was "whats up"...and all he said "nothing"..then few mins after that he signned off w/o no bye or w/e..so im lost.. on whats goin on..its all soo confusing..the one who was with me over my house..when he asked me on-line is as lost am i am too...so idk...-thx again
ahha i smell a bad mood day in him. i mean hes being a little unreasonable for not turning up. and the reason why he signed off if becoz maybe he didnt know how to explain to you?
yeah ur situation indeed sounds confusing. but deary, all those will settle down and soon u shall see the light (well not literally of course *coughs* lol but yeah.. *winks*) besides u have that other friend whos just as lost as ya, maybe u two can work it out together? two heads are always better then one ;)
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okay, i have this REALLY good guy friend named "jon"..hes in my grade we have 3 classes together, hes totalllly gorgeous..he just got outta a 9 month relationship about a month agO..he was inlove with that girl and naturally he prolly isnt over her yet and still is inlove with her..she lives like 45 mins away from where we live though..anywayz so me and jon ALWAYS flirt with eachother, act like brother and sister, punch eachother, etc, ya know like flirty stuff like that..we ALWAYS talk bout our problems with eachother, etc..i never ever thought that he would eveer like me cause we are so close friends but then his cousins gf told me that she asked him if he liked me and he said, "yeah i do actually..but im not gunna do anything about it cause i dont want our friendship to get ruined"..i thought that was so sweet of him to say...im kinda stuck cause i like him too..should i just continue on being really good friends? or should i bring out that i like him?
aww ur good friend jon is such a sweetie, he actually knew that by going into a relationship it might get ur friendship ruined. firstly i think hes really thoughtful to let u know the truth about how he felt, he was honest about it and maybe hes even speaking from experience. who knows how his previous relationship ended, but nobody wants to be a busybody so i'll keep my nose outta there. and also he also insisted that u two stay as friends meaning even if u said u liked him, will he like u back more then just friends? and of course u should continue being good friends with him! im sure there is another guy whos willing to accept ya.
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ileant my mum 40 pounds and she wont give me it back cause she think i stole it out of her purse I DIDNT
geez u know what? my mom's like that too. cool it off deary, she might have forgotten. prove to her that u didnt take her money. besides why would u take 40 pounds from her for?? no reason right? takes a little patience to explain it to her, but i hope she'll get the message and finally remember who leant her cash in the first place.
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Hi everyone,
I came to USA 4 years back because of job and now in the attempt of earning and saving more money, I am stuck up here. My family( My wife and my kids) was with me for last 2 years and they went back recently to my home country because of certain family problems. I am missing my family too much. I dont know, how american/european/russian/asian people feel if they undergo in the same situation. Let me know what and how you feel. Thanks. MACHADS
hey there, coming from an asian backgroud here it certainly is no different actually what ever background u come from. we all tend to miss our loved ones dearly when we dun get to see them everyday. why not call them up like once every week to check on them (or ure doing that already?) or how about get a webcam? of course ur wife's home should have a webcam too then u guys can see each other still! lol i know im not much of a help.. but i hope everything goes fine for ya.. take care!
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haha thx..i guess..well the whole thing of y i just want him to end the question thing..is bc i guess i kinda have to amitt i like im a little as well..hes one of the 2 that i like..the other is basically one of my other best friends who ive known since august...so idk...im wondering what happened last night..bc guy #1 went to his school dance..and im wondering what ever happened there since i wasnt there since i go to public school..thx
ahha its a dilemma u are in then.. well indeed it might be natural that u like ur bestfriend. since hes comfortable around ya, and u feel that way too yeah i guess that explains the crush for him.
as for the dance he went too, lol stop wondering so much already! if it bothers u so much give him a call. or asking him the next time u guys meet up.
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hey its X Lissa X ..Okay ive felt like crap all day. you know that feeling you get in your stomach when you havent ate anything all day or your really really hungry? well ive had it all day, even now and ive ate stuff too but it still wont go away and it HURTS! idk what could be wrong. does anyone know? and how cani stop it cuz i wont be able to sleep.. thanks a lot.
hey lissa, darn that stomach ache thingy sucks!! its a gastic pain u have deary, dun worry it will go away soon enough! in the meantime go lie down on ur bed and take loads of rest. by the time u wake up, that crappy feeling should be gone. if not go to the doc's! hoped i helped!
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OK, Before me and my boyfriend were going out we were bestfriends. We've been going out for a week and I have realized that I like being just friends with him. I can talk to him better if we were friends. How do I break up with him without hurting our friendship?
since hes ur bf and even ur bestfriend once, im sure he understands ur plight and will still continue to be bestfriends with ya. explain to him why u should rather be friends with him instead of a relationship. make sure he is totally cool about it and try not to go on too harsh. guys are usually scared of rejection. let him cool off and in a few days time, approach him and ask him how he feels about ur decision.
i hope i helped a little and may everything work out between u and ur bestfriend.
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ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate*
well since ur meeting him later, why not pluck up some courage, ask him who this gurl is? in the meantime, dont think so much about this gurl ur bestfriend likes. as a friend, maybe u should share with him. ditch that 'i dun care' thinking cause in the end u wouldnt get any results or answers from him. harhar hoped i helped a little.
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how do i get my gf from cutting herself?
usually cutters dun like it when people like us tell her to stop, chances are she wouldnt listen to ya. as her bf, u should stand by her. make sure to keep all sharp objects aways from her. she could be going through a tough time, thats why as her bf u should find out whats the problem and help her through this period in her life. make her feel loved and appreciated. -Rei
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Hey friend is really thin and she has her hip bones sticking out is that ok bc i always tell her to eat more bc she think shes fat *shes 5'5 108 pounds* is that ok?
lol thats kinda underweight, but usually she could be suffering from fast metabolism, of course theres nothing wrong with fast metabolism, im quite thin myself lol. by telling her to eat more doesnt mean she will put on weight (if she has fast metabolism), if she continues to say shes fat, please keep a look out on her, she might be turning aneorexic (not that i wanna scare ya, but reality does catch on you sometimes) take care and hoped i helped a litte =P -Rei
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i have lots of black heads on my nose..nd well i guess its like dry skin?...or maybe dry puss...nd wen the little white stuff sticks out from the skin in my nose...i pull it out wit tweazers!..nd well it leaves like wholes in my nose!..please help me!!..or if so..can u im me?!....princessmoe2o9
i think the white stuff are something like white heads? lol im not really sure though, try not to pull it out with tweezers and it might leave scars behind, clean ur face regularly with facial foaming stuff. if it gets worse, see a doc about it. -Rei
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If you never have or are new to the whole kissing scene....is there a way to tell your doing it right or if your good at it?
lol i dun think theres anyway to tell, besides kissing is something that comes naturally, besides different people have different views on how good is a cetain kisser.
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nun of mi friendz r cheeleaders and i wanna b 1. idk if i should try out wut if they make fun of me or say its not like hott n stuff. wut do i do?? nd plz dont say dont care wut they think. my friendz r very open nd honest.
hey gurl, im glad that u wanna be different for a change. so theres nothing wrong with be trying out for cheerleading! wat matters is u enjoy being a cheerleader, besides none of them are cheerleaders right? they probably duno how fun being a cheerleader is. and wad do u know, u could probably drag them along to join cheerleading with ya! lol hoped i help, much appreciated if u could rate me. thanx and good luck! -Rei
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I need GOOD grades to get into a certain group, and be consistent about it. Does anyone have study tips or ways I can pull off a good grade by the end of the year?
im not a good student myself, always trying my best to scrape all my subjects. but seriously i feel that Time Management is really important. leave urself sometime to study and some time to play. listen up in class, make little cards for ur notes and read through them wherever u go. and dun forget to drink loads of water!! avoid caffeine drinks like coke and coffee, although they do keep u awake (for late night studying), the content aint really good for ur body system.
hoped i helped and good luck for the exams! -Rei
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