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i just gave birth 5 weeks ago and my disposible stiches are irrating me so much, the dr said it was normal but id like to hear other opinions...also my discharge is really goopy, i think its the disposable-ness of the stiches??? im not sure...help...

If I knew more, I would tell you, but I don't. The best thing I can say it to check with another doctor, and to ask other women who gave birth if they had the same problem/s.

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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!!

It's less likely for a teen to have breast cancer, but if you think you have it, you should see a doctor right away. I once had two tomatoes. One had just a litle rotton piece, i cut it off and ate the rest, but the other one was even more rotton. More than half was rotton, I bet. So you see, the sooner you see a doctor, the less danger you will be in..or your breast.

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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

No, it's actually cool. =)

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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?

It depends how well the know and trust you, and if they are a pain. =/ No one will ever stand my little cousins. Ever. But most kids are not like that, and if your mature, it should not be much of a problem.

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For Christmas I may get my belly button peirced, I need to know a few things. Does it hurt? How long until you can change the belly ring. How much do belly button rings cost? Thats it... thanks in advance.

It depeneds on how much pain you can handle. I'm not so sure how much is costs, though. Sorry about that. Some people said 20 dollers, and others 100. =/ It might be the kind of ring it was, or where they got pierced.

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Hey I recently dyed my hair black and I was wondering if it will look good with red highlights. I have brown skin. if you have anyother colors that might look good please tell me. not blonde everyone has blonde i wand something different.

Yes. But I would pick pink over red. Red is WAY overused. Some girl at my school has green highlights, and it looks great. I would used purple, though.

Have fun.

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Okay i had my winter dance tonight and this guy asked me to dance. I was speechless and i couldn't say anything. Then he goes "you know what fine, whatever" and i'm like "no come back! Okay i will dance with you i will i'm so sorry!" but, he just ignored me. I had my friends go and ask him to dance for me but he ignored them. I went over and said "Okay i am really sorry and i wish i could take it back but will you dance with me?" He walked away and i knew i had really hurt him. My other friend went over and asked him why he was being like this. He said " you want me to just say okay and dance with her?" and she goes "yea just please she feels like crap come on. And he just screamed a her saying "TOO BAD!" Then i felt it the pain he had felt. I was so sorry but he wouldn't let me tell him. He just ran back into the croud. I looked for him all over but couldn't find him. Then the last dance came and i started to cry. He saw me and sad "now you know how i feel" and went away. Now i feel like CRAP!! i am so sad, and mad and i should have said yes. I am so sorry i need to tell him that but i dont have him # or his e-mail or anyother thing i could reach him by. I feel bad but i dont know why. If it was just a regular guy i would have been okay but its not it was one of my friends and i am so sad. Do i like him? What can i do for him to forgive me? Will he forgive me? Should i ask him to dance at our new dance coming up? i have no idea! Please Help!!!! I'll rate high!!!!! Thanks alot! xoxoxoxo HunnieBuns (even the advice columnist needs help) Just like me!

You shouldn't feel that way. I mean...you were speechless and he was just acting like an ass =/ Kick him in the balls, and you will feel much better. (joking).

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In drama class I have to do a mimeing skit thats at least 45 seconds long...but I'm not sure what do, if any of you have good ideas or some websites it would be very helpful!

***I rate 5's for GOOD answers not joke ones***

Thanks

You can search "mining skit" on google. Or you can search for just "skit."

You can find something from a movie you like or TV show. You can also find one from a book.

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Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks

Stores like Target and WalMart. There are also breast cancer magazines, so you can order one. Try Amazon or Ebay.

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What are somethings you can add to coffee to make it taste better. I hate coffee with nothing in it, and I need ideas on what to add.

**I Rate High**

I hate coffee as well, so I add whipped cream and drink it with bread. It's tastes so good that way. The other day I saw vanilla coffee at the store, so you can also buy different kinds of coffee taste too.

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I’m female, 15, and I hate everything about my family, I’ve always been rejected and pushed aside and neglected, my brother is the center of everyone’s life because he is such an asshole, my parents give him whatever he wants because they can’t stand to hear him rage and scream and say everything bad and hateful he could possibly say. I think they give him such free rein because he has turrets or however the hell you spell it and they just blame his bad behavior on it. They have always been too focused on trying to help my lying, trouble making, hates-the-world, asshole of a brother, so I can never feel anything- they can’t deal with me being sick, or sad, or angry, because they can’t help me, they’ve stopped trying because as soon as their attention would switch over my brother would do something and start screaming and saying shit about me, and how much he hated me and my parents and that everyone else does everything wrong, not him. My parents won’t get him help, they now take their anger at him out on me, they yell and scream at me when I tell them what I think of my brother and how I think they’re doing stuff wrong with him and how he needs help, my dad always punishes him at the wrong time when he’s actually calm, he can never say anything right to my brother, and then they ask me to go give him food or ask him stuff and my brother takes shit out on me. I hate everything about my family, I’m tired of being pushed around and neglected, and they’re making me into a person I hate, what can I do that doesn’t involve anything that costs money? because I’m not that rich. Plz help me, I’m honestly ready to kill myself.

You shouldn't kill yourself for what THEY are doing. It's not right of them. I bet you are a good person, but you should tell them how you feel. Even if it means to yell at them...they HAVE to listen to you. You can talk to a teacher or school councilor. Your older than your brother, he should respect you and your parents. Why does he have the attitude that he has? He should get help one way or the other. You can live with a friend, aunt, or grandparent while that is going on at your house. You can go to school activities to get away, and you should get help. Hope all turns out well for you.

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I'm 14 / f .. I currently reside in PA. Well, the past 5 weeks have been the best weeks of my life because I haven't had to go to piano lessons. I know its a stupid theory but here goes. I hate PIANO! SO MUCH, i wasn't forced to start, but when i was 11 my best friend did it, and i wanted to be exactly like her, so i joined it. my grades have been suffering, and i think its because of piano, on sundays-wednesdays i worry about my piano lesson because my teacher is so mean. i wanna quit so bad, but how should i tell my mom, i think she knows i want to, but. i don't want her getting disapointed because i already quit band this yr because i didn't like it, she spent 1,000 dollars on a piano and shes been payin 12 dollars a week to let me go for like 3 years, what should i tell her? any help will get 5!

Speanding all that money, you should really give it your best shot at it. But since you hate it so much, just tell her how sorry you are, that it was a mistake to take those classes. And next time pick a class that you ARE interested in. I don't think that piano hurts your grades that badly, through.

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What are some ways to make money? Im only 14. And I have 2 ways so far, baby sitting and team read. You get paid for reading to elementary kids. What are some jobs for 15 year olds though? ( Im tunring 15 in 2 months ) thanks.

Music shop.

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Does anyone have a tattoo on there lower back? I really want to get one when im 18. Or does anyone have one on their ankle. If so can you tell me how bad it hurt ect. Thanks.

Some people like the pain, others barely feel it and other feel a lot more. So it depends on how much pain you can handle. If you do get one, don't get it where the skin stretches because that will look ugly as time goes by as you get older. I hear you can't give blood donations after you get a tattoo, but I am not sure if that is true. You should also get a tattoo that has meaning to you... like, if you get one of your boyfriends name, and you two break up later on, then that tattoo won't have meaning to you later on.

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Ok, my friend had been having a tough time, and I was wondering if any one knew any cute, memorable, and short little quotes or sayings I could tell her to brighten her days? Please help, I hate to see her sad and love to see her smile! I will give a 5 if it makes her smile!

Why is she feeling that way? It depends... You can relate one thing to another. One time my friend lost her digital camera at the school during P.E. and we were all looking for it. We couldn't find it but I had found a cookie and I told her, which made her smile. But anyway, I'm so glad that you decided to come
Go ahead make yourself comfortable darlin'
I've got a proposition for you
There's a room available inside of my heart
And I hope it will be taken by you,
See the cookie jar, I've got my hand caught in it. You know I've been a good girl, but I hit a limit. I know there's not a lot of logic in it...(Like lemon) Sometimes it tastes so bitter, (Like lemon) I've gotta make it sweeter. A little more like lemon meringue.

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i've been really fed up with everyone -- for no reason at all. i can barely stand one of my best friends and i have the urge to scream at my family all the time for the smallest things. i'm not a bxtch or anything, and i'm not pmsing. i've also felt really anxious lately. and i have gotten two white hairs in the past few months, and i'm just a teenager. does anyone know what the frick is going on? thanks.

I felt like that once. I was all "Oh people suck." Usually it's because something is bugging me and I don't know how to deal with it. You should talk to someone, or do something you like to forget about it. Music helps.

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Hey I've got this faker stealing my pictures and pretending to be me, and its really getting on my nerves. How do I go about telling her about it without lashing out too much?

If she is using the same link, then you can delete those pictures and host them somewhere else. You should also tell her that it annoys you and she should be her own person. It's nice to know that she wants to be like you, but really she is just lying to herself and should show her own pictures.

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Why is giving others mean advice actually considered ***FUN***, yes, it's not a typo, some people considers it fun. However sick and disgusting that is, I would like to know why?

Something that gives them pride... Sometimes seeing others get hurt makes the feel more powerful and superior. Ignore them, it's not like they have something else better to do.

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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.

I didn't want to respond, because I can't really help you, and I tried to put myself in your situation, but I am confused as well.

You can try to think about something else...and there is a saying that chocolate helps. Your doing the right thing, and when YOU feel it's time, then just do it. Otherwise, it won't feel as good.

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what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes?

My aunt tried blue and green together and it was so beautiful. You can also try as many colors on until you find one that you like best.

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