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Well Im Katie.I do gymanstics,cheering,and do dance.I have a boyfriend Tyler.Im a very out going person,I love making new friends.I love helping people out as much as I can.I love going to the beach,like swimming,learning how to skateboard.I love learning new things like anything.I love tubing,hanging with friends,going to the movies,partying,going to dance clubs,shopping(my number one fav thing to do),on the fone with ppl,talking on aol and stuff like that.Yea and I have many people that come to me asking questions what they should do with boyfriend or girlfriends or its just friends problems.Im a very outgoing girl,easy going and a very good listener and helper.I love giving advice to ppl bcuz it works all the time and ppl always come to me for anything.So Ask Ah Question And Ill Help You:)The Best That I Can
-xOxO katie

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I have a friend who I like very much, but who has a habbit of asking me to call her because she's feeling low at really incovenient times. I want to be there for her, but it becomes problematic when I feel I can't fairly say no when she asks me to call for a few minutes because she's feeling low, even it's like 1am. If it really was a few minutes, it would be fine, but once she has me on the phone she's impossible to let go, because every time I talk about having to be up in the morning she talks about how people always seem to let her down when she needs them. I do want to be there for her, but I do need to sleep too, and I simply can't survive on talking till 2am or later every night to get up at 7am. How can I be firm about needing to get off the phone without offending her?

If she feels low at times,try to put a smile on her face and cheer her up.Girls have there times sometimes when they feel low.You need to explain to her if you have to be up in the morning and tell her that your there for her and that you care,but you have to wake up in the morning.What you should do is tell her that your tired and you need to go to sleep,but tell her that you would call her in the morning.And tell her that you still care though.Goodluck and hoped I helped.
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

That isnt a longgg time to go out with anyone I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years and I started dating at 14:)Heheh so no worries;)
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Hey its me again...nikki the gurl with the b/f problem how u said that u and your b/f were going out 4 2 years and did it...well like did it hurt alot and stuff..i know these r stupied questions but ya...

thankz again
nikki

Hey Nikki...Okay well if you are a virgin and having sex for the first time it will hurt a little bit because its popping your cherry.But the first time I had sex it did hurt and after your cherry is popped you bleed blood for down there intill you go pee and it goes away.So dont freak out if that happens.If your not a virgin it might or might not hurt depends on how big his dick is.But yea the first time I did it hurt for like a minute and then I was fine.But if you reallie want to do it I think you should just got right straight for it,if you want to do it.They arent stupid questions.But anyways I hope you make the right descion and I helped.Goodluck Nikki!

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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated

I would think about it first,and talk with him a little bit more when where you can sit down and pick a day and stuff to do it.That happened with me and my bf and we have been dating two years and we decided to do it.If your scaried tell him and he will understand but you said you wanted to do it as well so decide what you want to do just keep calm and keep your head up high.Goodluck!
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me n ma mates keep arguing and it really upsets me. i dont no wot to do about it can ne 1 help

If you keep on fighting you should try and advoid fights just stay away from him/her and try not to think of things to fight about.Try talking the fights out before they really get worse,and make sure your nice and calm when you do it.Just keep your head up high and e verything will get better!Goodluck!
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i know this gurl who is really tall thin and beautiful.. she could so make it as a run-way model.. got any advice to help her get started? thnx

Well call up a local modeling adgent that is near you and say you know a girl that is beautiful and you think she should model.That might help a little bit if you did that.Most girls get into modeling bussiness I know that I did modeling and I still am,but its for nothing big just stuff for around where I live and comercials and all.Hoped I help.
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together?

Go out to dinner,maybe a walk along the beach,chill at each other house and watch some movies,walk along the beach at night and look at the stars,have a pinic,try stuff like that.Goodluck!
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I like this guy at camp. My friend is his good friend and she likes him too. In a matter of fact so does my step sister...alot of people do. Hes nice though. Not like a jock er anything. I want to ask him out, but knowing myself, I wont. I might invite him to voluunteer with me and my sister at the pet shelter. Hey ill get to be his closer friend. What else could I do to get closer to him? Or how should I ask him out?

Okay just hang out with him more and talk to him more and drop hints on saying that you like him and all and everything should work out fine and when you feel that it is the right time ask him out.Hope I helped!
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Okay well I like this boy and he likes me but Im waiting for him to ask me out.We havent talked for a week so Im trying to get him to notice me how do i get him to notice me.
sum body u dunt kno

I think I know who this is:)Teehee anyways well if you want him to notice you call him and tell him how you feel instead of holding it back sweethart.I know he likes you:)Hes been waiting for you to call him,so he can ask you out.Ive been waiting for you to ask that=p.Anyways yea just tell him how you feel,and spend time with him,talk to him on the fone and tell him you miss him that always make a guy feel good:)Teehee goodluck girlie!
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Okay well I have this friend Casey that is reallie jealous of me bcuz I know alot of guys and I have a bf and all.Casey goes around calling me the worse names in the book like c*nt and sl*t and a whore and all.ANd the funny thing is I only have one bf and she likes spreading rumor to everyone so now my bestfriend is mad at me bcuz Casey said I fucked her bf and now I dont know what to do and evening Stephaine bf told her that we didnt have sex which we didnt and now I dont know how for her not to be mad at me:(So please help what should I do:(
-Kimmy

Kimmy I think what you should do is keep your head up high and get your other friends that hangout with you to tell Steph that it wasnt you.And those are just some of the whore names to call a girl,you shouldnt evening be friends with her that isnt a true friend if she calls you names like that and also spreads rumor what I think is just talk to Steph and her bf all three of you together and tell her that you didnt.But be calm when you do it and keep your head up high things will turn out fine.Goodluck!
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I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.I have never seen my present boyfrend in my dreams.The more I have dreams about my ex the more I wanna get back with him.What should I do?

Well if your still having dreams about your ex-boyfriend I think you should call your ex-boyfriend and see what his feelings are for you still.But if you love your bf right now then I would stay with him,evening though your still having dreams about your ex-bf.I know how it feels it happens to my friends all of the time,but in the end they dream of there bf.I hope everything works out fine.good luck girlie!
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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help

I wouldn't worry to much boys like to have fun.Also likes girls.Like my bf doesnt always call on time bcuz he is having fun with his friends.You s houldnt be to worried,he will most likley call you tommarow and be like Im sorry.You can text him if you want to but just keep yourself occupied,its not a big deal if he doesnt call one nite but if it conts. to happen then it is.goodluck!
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Ok i'll try not too many this really long but if u wanna help me out and know the whole story than e-mail or IM...but anyways I still wanna be with my ex-b/f sooo bad!!! We've been broken up for 3 months now and the break up was pure hell!!! I went through the hardest time of my life and i'm still struggeling but gettin better..anways he has gotten a new g/f he he is so inlove with but I still care about him so much....I dunno if I still love him if I should just wait and hope that maybe 3 or 4 months from now he will realize that he made a big mistake or realize that he ain't commin back that it wasn't meant to be. I was with him for 2 years...he was my first love...I dunno wut to do....Please if you HAD experience w/this reply *Natalie* /17/

Well I had the same kind of problem but we didnt break up we need are space.Dont wait around look out towards other opputunies in the world bcuz I knew that he wasnt coming back bcuz he was in love with his new gf.So now Im dating tyler that I have been with for almost three years and things are wonderful with us.Anyways but dont wait for him maybe he wasnt worth it because evening though he was your first love you will have more loves in your love tyler is my second love and I know that we wont break up.Just keep your head up high,try and talk to him and find out what his feelings are for you if he still loves you or not and if he doesnt you have to let him go.I hoped I helped.I know how hard it is but just keep yourself busy and try and not think of him.Goodluck girlie!
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how do i get a girl 2 like me (and iv already told her i like her please help) and were both 14

What I think that you should do is hang out with her more,talk to her on the phone and drop hints like flirt with her and let her know she likes you.I hoped I helped:)GoodLuck!
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Hey. Does anyone know how to get music and a background from a site onto my advice column?

I have no idea how to do that but if I did I would help you.But I dont know how too:(
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i always here ppl talk about a dildos, condoms, vibraters, blow jobs, hand jobs... what is all that stuff??

Well dildos are for lesbian/bi sexuals/gay ppl who like to masterbate.Condoms are when u have sex.Virbraters are for girls.Blow jobs are when u give a guy a blowjob when u put ur mouth over there dick and go up and down and a hand job is when u put ur hand around it and move it up and down.
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My best friend "Cara" is honest. A little too honest. In that sort of brutal way. She tells everyone the truth, but she does it in such a mean way. Me, Cara, & our other friend "Kandi" all went shopping one weekend for swimsuits. I tried on a bikini, & Kandi said I looked great, but that I should get a blue one instead of a pink one. Cara, on the other hand, said that it made me look chubby (even though I'm super thin) & that I should get a one-piece, like she is. Later that day, she criticized me & Kandi bcuz we were pigging out on pizza, while she only ate a salad. Another weekend, me, Kandi, & Cara went to see The Stepford Wives. On our way to Kandi's house, Cara was whining the whole way there. Even Kandi's mom agreed that Cara is a pain in the @$$. I have to see Cara again on Friday. What should I do if she's bitchy to me & Kandi again?

Well then maybee she Cara isnt a true friend at all if she always bitchy towards you and kandi.I mean a true friend would be nice accept if she is PMSing i know my friends can get bitchy during that week but if its a thing that keeps going on and on and she is always bitchy I think that you should comfront her and be like your have been really mean to us lately and I dont like it at all because we havent evening done anything.I think personally she is kinda of jealous of you and kandi because you guys are closer friends then you and cara maybe.I think you all should talk as in a group and see if everything works out perfectly fine.I hope i helped.GOodluck girlie!
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Hey everyone 15/m here. Well as you can tell from my title, I just lost a special friend of mine. We used to go out for 3 1/2 months 'til she broke up with me and we've been pretty good friends since then, 'til today. All of this started cause I sent her a text message saying I had sex with another girl, but I really didnt. I just wanted to get an honest reaction from her. And of course she got mad...real mad this time. *sigh* If I knew this would have happened, I would never had done it. I talked to her about it tonight and the end result was that she didn't want anything to do with me, ANYTHING. So I told her if she really wanted it to be that way, I would get rid of all my contacts with her, and I did. I went from maybe getting back together with her(heavy emphasis on maybe), to being absolutely nothing in her life. She just means so much to me that I don't want to lose her, I still wanna marry her if I could. I love her, but I don't think she has any for me anymore. I basically cried my heart out again. Does anybody know what I could do to get her back? I don't wanna lose my angel. ='( Help me please...Life is meaningless to me right now without her.

Well I know a little bit about boys things like that because I have a best guy friend and all.Hmm your story is sad,but what I think you should do is call her but first plan out a reason and tell her how sorry you are,and that u dunt want to loose her and all of the stuff you said to your question to her that she means so much to you.IF she reallie loves you,she will give you another chance.But dont be mean or anything but just give her a call or just maybe go to her house and tell her how you feel.Trust me if you pour your heart out to her she will truly understand that you love her and that you never reallie ment to hurt her.So just follow what your heart tells you to do it everything should work out fine.Goodluck!I hope I helped a little bit.
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i really like this guy and we r kinda friends and i want him to know that i like him but whenever i talk to him i get really shy and im not myself...wut can i do?

I think what you should do is try and be yourself around him.Dont be shy because you will never know he might like you.Just dont wait intill the last minute to tell him how you feel because he might fall for another chick or something.So dont wait intill the last minute to tell him.Hope I helped.
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Is it ok to eat once a day? That's about the the meals I eat a day.

I think that isnt good at all you should eat three meals a day because your body wont function correctly because that is what happened to my friend its okay to skip one meal but not two meals you at least need to eat three meals a day to get all the nutrention your bones need.I hope it helps.
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