Ok i'll try not too many this really long but if u wanna help me out and know the whole story than e-mail or IM...but anyways I still wanna be with my ex-b/f sooo bad!!! We've been broken up for 3 months now and the break up was pure hell!!! I went through the hardest time of my life and i'm still struggeling but gettin better..anways he has gotten a new g/f he he is so inlove with but I still care about him so much....I dunno if I still love him if I should just wait and hope that maybe 3 or 4 months from now he will realize that he made a big mistake or realize that he ain't commin back that it wasn't meant to be. I was with him for 2 years...he was my first love...I dunno wut to do....Please if you HAD experience w/this reply *Natalie* /17/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OxKHoneyxO answered Friday July 9 2004, 9:23 am: Well I had the same kind of problem but we didnt break up we need are space.Dont wait around look out towards other opputunies in the world bcuz I knew that he wasnt coming back bcuz he was in love with his new gf.So now Im dating tyler that I have been with for almost three years and things are wonderful with us.Anyways but dont wait for him maybe he wasnt worth it because evening though he was your first love you will have more loves in your love tyler is my second love and I know that we wont break up.Just keep your head up high,try and talk to him and find out what his feelings are for you if he still loves you or not and if he doesnt you have to let him go.I hoped I helped.I know how hard it is but just keep yourself busy and try and not think of him.Goodluck girlie!
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Parlance answered Friday July 9 2004, 7:25 am: Hey there, I had the same problem a couple months back. I was with this absolutely amazing girl for 9 months, and then one day she told me that she wanted to be with someone else. Actually, she was with the two of us for 3 days at once, but that's besides the point. I know you're hurting and I know it's hard to move on, but you have to. It took me six months to get over this girl and one of the only cures for a broken heart is time. What you need to understand is that it's difficult when things don't go the way you'd like them to, but sometimes there's nothing you can do about it but get on with your life (sorry if that seemed harsh). You can't be in love with this guy for the rest of your life. Hopefully someone will come along sometime soon and make you forget about how much he hurt you. For the time being, I wouldn't recommend contacting him at all. Distancing yourself from him as much as you possibly can is the way to go. Once you get accustomed to no longer seeing him/associating him (as heartbreaking as this may sound), then you can emotionally detach yourself from him and progress ahead. Hope I've helped. [ Parlance's advice column | Ask Parlance A Question ]
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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Thursday July 8 2004, 1:57 pm: Aww hun! I'm going through the same thing!!! I know how hard that is, it hurts a lot I know. But, try writting him a letter, try talking to him. The only way is by talking to him. Just don't get involved in his and his g/f's relationship though because I'm sure you wouldn't want anyone doing that with you two. I've answered a question like this before and I told her to listen to this quote "If you love something, let it go, if it returns, it was ment to be" And 2 years is a long time to be together, there is no way he has stopped loving you. Maybe he wants you two to experience NEW things, have fun in life. But you'll never know what he is thinking until you ask him and talk to him about things. Find out everything you want to know. And if its easier to talk to him through AIM/AOL and he has that then tell him to get on. Or you can simply write him a letter or just call him up! If you're thinking of him 24/7 and you can't imagine being with anyone else besides this boy, you possibly could still be in love with him. But you can only decide if you REALLY are in love with this boy. I hope everything works out and if you need ANYTHING else just post back because I know how this feels. I'm sorry you have to go through this. GOOD LUCK HUN!!!
NikNik answered Thursday July 8 2004, 2:47 am: Hey Sweetie, listen everyone goes through this, i went through it myself and its very very hard but think of it like this, hes the one who lost you, its his loss...try to forget about him and move on, i know its hard believe me, but you will find someone new just like he has and if you and him may get back together then it was ment to be, i'm going to tell you a saying i read from somewhere and its "If you love someone let the go, If they come back it was ment to be, but If they dont then it never was" i hope that helps you, it helped me out when whats going on with you happened to me, but just try to stay strong, you will get over him sooner or later and find someone new, it may take a while but it will happen, just know that everything happens for a reason, thanks for reading i hope i helped you! [ NikNik's advice column | Ask NikNik A Question ]
hYpNoTiC1510 answered Thursday July 8 2004, 2:14 am: Hey hunny, in my opinion you should really move on and realize that he isn't coming back. You should be happy that he's happy. I've been through this and it's so hard but you have to know that you'll never forget your first love, but there will be many other men out there that make you feel so amazing and happy. Please e-mail me the full story so I could give you a little better advice, it'll be great! thanks hunny!
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