Alot of People think i can be mean at times, which yes, i can. But I only speak the truth. I do not sugarcoat anything so I hope you do not take it personally. If you ask a stupid question, I'm going to give you a stupid answer. You can rate me 1's all your heart desires, but I don't care. Sometimes people need to hear the truth, instead of just, "Oh yeah..everything will be OK."
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im 15 and if i went to planned parenthood to get birth control would i have to pay for it? also, since you have to get that pelvic exam too does that cost anything? and could i just walk in or do i need an appointment? oh yeah, lol could i have my boyfriend come in the room with me or should i have him stay in the car? (link)
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I don't think you have to pay for any of it. I think you get a limited amount of birth control and I think all the exams are free. Chances are, if you and your boyfriend are going to have sex, he should be going in and getting involved in it too. Unless he's like 18 or older, then he might get arrested.
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Me and my cousin have so much in common and we get along great. But he drops hints that makes me think he wants to be more.
1. He always invites me to party's with his friends and we play spin the bottle. IDK how he does it but he always gets it to land on me.(Which is awkward)
2. Its normal for us to sleepover but I have to sleep in his room and he sometimes comes to the floor to sleep next to (or sometimes on top) of me
3. We are both 16 and IDK what to say to him since we go to the same school, play the same sports, and shop at the same places. It;s weird
NEED GOOD ADVICE PLEASE!!!! (link)
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Are you that same person who said that your uncle had the hots for you? Just wondering, because your question is in the exact same format with the numbering. And if you are, geez! Do you think every family member likes you? If you ask me, you're doing this all for attention and its starting to really annoy the people on Advicenators. You are totally overreacting about your cousin- he does not like you. My cousins do the exact same thing and flirt with me in a friendly, non creepy way. Honestly, not everyone in the world has the hots for you.
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My b/f got me a promise ring ( a ring that promises you will marry them) well anyways we got in this fight and we broke up well I gave back the ring and now he is going out with this new girl named kerisa well today i was talking to her and she was wearing the ring and she started showing it off to me what should i do? (link)
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No offense but are you like 13-16? If you are then you are soooo overreacting about this. He's just trying to make you jealous. I would get another boyfriend and make HIM jealous. It works. ♥
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im not just here for the rating. Wehn you ask a question and you give the honest answer and you answer the question they asked. Why do they rate you a one.? Is there anything to do about them rating you a one when you deserved something like a four or a five? (link)
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I hate when people do that. I answered this one girl's question accurately and she rated me a one because that's not what she wanted people to tell her. Then I got banned once because I was being "abusive" by telling the girl she was lazy and rude. Basically Advicenators has really started pissing me off, I'm looking for a new advice site, or I'll make my own.
To delete an answer, go to "Edit Answers" on the sidebar and backspace it all out and click EDIT.
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alright man, listen. I gave most advicenators a 5, except I gave one 2 (To a person who basically said..I don't know, I'm sorry" and I explained it to the person in the feedback, and I gave one person a 3, because she answered, and she tried..BUT she gave me the wrong answer. Í gave her one point for trying, one for being friendly about it..and one just because I wanted to be nice, but truth is, what she said..was wrong. So I couldn't give her more than that, and she was rude about it..which proves she's not doing this to help, but to get high ratings. And then I gave another 3, 1 point for trying, and 2 because a 1 is mean, so I wanted o give her/him a 3. But the rest of the advicenators, the ones who really tried, and gave me an answer..I gave 5's. I'm guessing you were talking about Johanna when you said "friends" and the thing is I know for a fact that carbohydrates make it worse, so in fact..if it would have been someone else, who didnt know this, she would have not only given the wrong answer, but also made it harder for the person to reach her/his goal, is that really worth a 5? I gave her a 3 to be nice, but at the same time make sure she doesn't answer questions when she doesnt know what she's talking about..so that's my fault, I admit that..I should have been more clear about it to her. But still it's not worth a 5. You're advice on the other hand would have been worth a 4 or 5 /without the whole attack at the end/
Hope his explains it, and please dont assume that I give low rating because I didnt get what I wanted to hear, or because I'm lazy/mean, I did it because I have my own system of rating people fairly, you know..sympathy, just for trying, and so on..
Have a good one. (link)
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Alright. Do you actually know Johanna? I was just wondering because you knew her name. Well you could of just looked on her advice column. Well thanks. =P
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my subject basically says it all.
Does anyone know what foods to eat when you're trying to eat healthy and need to eat stuff that increases your metabolism? I've heard grape fruit and green tea, but what more? (link)
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There's no foods that increase your metabolism. it's a myth. Packages on foods may say "This increases metabolism," but it is a general prediction, and actually does not increase your metabolism.The only thing that might increase it are dangerous pills, that you should tlak to your doctor about before taking.
You know what? Go ahead and rate me a 3 or a 1. You rated alot of my friends 3s and they gave great advice. If you ask me, you're pretty lazy because why can't you just google it? Rate me a 3 because I admit my advice wasn't that great, but do not ever again rate some of these great columnists below a 3 because they did not give you the "exact answer you wanted."
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okay well. i`m 13/f and have never had a boyfriend. i don`t wanna be mean, but even some pretty ugly girls in my grade have boyfriends. and i want one..that i like. i dont just want one because its "cool". i want someone to like me for who i am and such. i dont know ? i guess what i`m asking is how do you think i can get one and find someone who likes me ? i`m athletic, pretty tall, outgoing, skinny, and nice. and i don`t know what else i shoud do ? please give me some advice -- some real advice and if your just going to bad talk, dont even bother..thanks (link)
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You just gotta wait. I mean, you don't want to throw yourself at guys, or try and make them like you. You just gotta be modest about yourself and a guy will come along. Reach out, make new friends, meet new people, that might help.
Please don't tell me you're 12 or 13 writing this, because believe me, you have alooooot of time to get a boyfriend.
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ok...well i like this guy(im 13/f)and i barely see him, but when i do there is a major connection. Last wedsday, one of my friends pushed him and i grabbed his hand to help him and we just kinda stood there for a while holding hands...and then later when he saw me again we hugged, but he left his arm around me and it wasnt what he normally does...some of my friends say that hes going to ask me out but i dont think so, what can i do to make him do more stuff like that to me, and to show him that i like him. i dont want to look slutty though.
i rate high (link)
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People to seem to ask things like this alot. Well firstly, you can't make a boy like you, ask you out, do things to you, etc, etc. Unfortunately, these days most girls put on shirts that look more like lingerie and little mini skirts because thats how some guys notice girls. Not all guys, but a good share of them. Obviously if you don't want to be slutty, just keep being yourself and act really comfortable around him. Suprise him by holding his hand or something. Be sweet and make him want you, but not in a slutty way.
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so yea, on AIM every1 has a cute profile w/ cute quotes and designs and i wanted to know if anybody knew any websites i can go to to gte cute stuff like that. some cute away messages too. i rate 5's for links =] (link)
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And if everyone jumped off a bridge, would you do that too? Just making a point.
Try www.getyourownorigionality.com
Or why don't you just try and think of some things by yourself? It's not that hard. If you were giving someone advice on life, what would you say to them? You just gotta find your own origionality.
**EDIT** Yeah, thanks for the essay of feedback, but see, you're the ignorant one. Advicenators isn't for people to ask "How can I make my profile look cute?" Stupid questions get stupid answers. It's as simple as that.
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so me and my now BF just started going out. I really do like him alot and I believe that he likes me to. I haven`t seen him in over a week and I wanted him to come over today but i havent heard from him. My parents dont really want me going out many places because of something that happend but if she knows im perfectly safe shell let me. How can I get him to come over or be able to see him!? I need help so despritaly.
I could fall inlove with this kid so easly (link)
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Well, that's just swell...? That you can fall in love with him....Uh, here's an idea. It might sound crazy, so brace yourself: Talk to your mom! If something happened to your mom when she was younger, it doesn't mean the same thing is going to happen to you! You need to tell her you're not the same person as her, and that you desserve to be able to see your boyfriend because you are mature, respectful, and modest.
But if you're like 12 or 13, I can see why your mom might not want him at your house. That is a really young age, but anywho, don't know how old you are, but either way, you have to talk to your mom.
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i've never made out bbefore . go ahead laugh i dont care. but im like gonna be really bad at it and i really wanna make out. so can you tell me exaaaactly. not like oh well you put your lips together and smooch. no i wanna know exactly step by step what you do.
please and thank you
i'll rate high! xo
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I exactly agree with the person under me. Okay, and here's something else to consider, maybe if you don't know how to make out, you shouldn't be making out! There's no exact way to "make out." Noone on this site can tell you how to do it because there is no specific way to do it.
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Okay my question is when you get your vagina popped is that a bad thing? Will you still have your period? When you stick a finger up your cherry how would you know when it pops?Will you still be able to get pregnant and have your period?? (link)
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Jeez, how old are you? Are you like 12? I don't understand why all of you keep referring to a part of your body as a cherry, it really has no connection at all if you think about it. To answer your question, yes, you can still have kids and you will have your period.
Again, are you like 12?
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Is it true that if you don't wear a bra, your boobs get saggy? THanks. Ill rate. Sorry if its in the wrong category. (link)
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NO!!! It will just look bad. I know though, bras are a real bitch, aren't they?
[EDIT: And apparently you're a bitch too. I gave you an answer and you gave me a 3. Well, what do you want?! A PARADE to go with it?]
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My best freind likes this kid. He likes her back. Well, me and him argue about stupid things alot and he bugs the heck out of me! He's just so annoying and will yell at me online and stuff. He's a year younger then us. He is considered "gay" in his grade. Well, I also think he is two timing her for this girl in his grade. There was this dance last night and he was with her dancing with her the whole time! My freind likes him so much though. Should I talk to her about it or should I talk to the guy about it.. but I know he will tell my freind. Should I keep it to myself?? Plese help! (link)
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You should talk to the guy about it. Talking about it to your friend might get her upset. After you talk to the guy, tell your friend if you found anything out. Hoenstly, I can't even understand why she would want to go out with someone younger than her, it just seems weird. But she'll do what she wants, and eventually, I hope she realizes that that kid obviously isn't worth it.
[EDIT:] Just ask him if he's going out with anyone, then ask him how he feels about your friend, and if he even likes her back. And you could tell him if he ever hurts her in any way, you'll cream him! Haha. Well hope I helped.
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has any one else noticed that most of the things asked on this site are not people seeking actual advice, it is just a bunch of people who are too um i guess "lazy" to type in google.com and search for the lyrics to a song, or where they can find a good website etc.,so they have to ask a bunch of people who want to give them advice and who may not even be right...hmm...
yes, i know i may be being a little hypocritical right now by asking a question, but i am just um.."upset" that young people these days just cant simply go to the lovely site of google..o well does anyone agree with me on this one? (link)
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Totally. But this is more of a discussion for the moderators board if you are one.
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this sounds really really silly..but i hate my boobs. they are huge, and it makes me feel out of shape. they`ve always bothered me, but just recently they`ve seemed a lot bigger than normal. does anybody know if theres an way to "decrease" the size of them? like does exercise work? or what you eat or w/e? (link)
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No. Actually none of that works. You're stuck with them, I'm sorry, but it's true. The only way you could possibly make them smaller is plastic surgery but I don't reccomend that. Talk to your doctor about it and try wearing a sports bra, they are more comfortable and they do not have that extra padding.
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hi my dear friends iwant to know that is she loves me or not.i dont have any friend except her we study in same class.how can i know her feelings and her love for me e-g how she talk with me how she behave with me.in what situation i can figure out about her love for me .please. (link)
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I could barely understand what you just said. You make no sense at all and apparently you never paid attention in English class as for your horrible grammar. Honestly, I really can't help you because all you did was ramble on gibberish. Maybe you could give a little more details next time. Like actually HOW she behaves? Or maybe you could go back to 4th grade and learn some proper grammar.
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I have a male friend who has this annoying habit. Well everytime that I phone him, if I start talking to him he'll always cut me off about 5 minutes into the converstation and say "my ears are getting wet". What does that mean, and is it some mean way of him saying he doesnt want to listen to me? Other times I've phoned him and he sounds happy to hear from me at first, but then if I tell him a story about another guy he'll say in a huff that he has to go. What's up with this? (link)
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Bad bad bad idea! He is alot older than you and alot more experienced, he could easily take advantage of you and if his girlfriend ever found out, well it be hell for ya, honey. So I sugguest you have Only a friendly relationship with him unless you want to be a teen mother....
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I go to a school thats about.. 40% black/minority. I'm a 17 y/o senior in highschool and many of my friends are black (I'm white).. and many of tha guys I've dated are black. I listen to mainly "black" music, but I don't discriminate, its just what I know. But my uncle is soo racist and ALWAYS harrasses me. He calls me n-lover (you know) and does tha dumbest things like knocking on tha front door and saying "Chelsie, its an N, better come get tha door!"..hes so immature. My mom always yells at him when shes around (a lot of her friends are black too), but I dont live w/ her and shes hardly ever around.. I live w/ my grandparents and they dont say anything to him about it. He just makes me so angry b/c he comes around a lot and acts like hes better than black folks but hes NOT.. he doesnt take care of his kids and he has a 6-year old daughter who hasnt even started school yet which is ILLEGAL! Ugh, hes gay. I cant stand him. I just dont know what to do about him. He always says stuff like "I know this girl who would kick your ass for $20".. thats hilarious to me. One time I told my (black) friends cousin about it (hes 27) and he ended up coming to my house when my uncle was here and trying to get him to come outside so he could fight him.. and what did my uncle do.. NADA! Stayed inside like a little -----! well.. yea, what should I do about him.. I just feel like shooting him. LOL. Sorry.. long rant.
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Honestly, your uncle is a retard and needs to die. Now you probably shouldn't have used "N-word lover" for a title because that makes you sound a little racist but I understand that you were quoting your uncle. My opinion is that you and your mom need to do something. Kick your uncle out, don't even try talking to him, he's not going to listen no matter what you say. He seriously needs a life and he needs to grow up. If he lives with you, throw him out on the street and see just how good he can do when he's all alone.
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I'm reading Julius Caesar by Shakespeare. Does anyone know a website that has a free MODERN version translation of the book? Thanks! (link)
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That would be cheating. You're supposed to interpret it by the real thing.
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