My name is Holly, and I live in Minnesota. I am 19 years old but everyone says I look young for my age lol. I laugh a lot but if people are hurt, confused, scared, etc. I will always help them out. I work for sex education which means I go to schools and help girls learn about...well, you know. I am in tennis, softabll, and I'm going to start cross country in August. Also I love to bellydance (you could call it my part-time job lol!) And last but not least, I give great advice! So ask me.
E-mail: sarahlongtine@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Minnesota
Occupation: Sex Education
Age: 19
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MSN: sarahlongtine@hotmail.com
Member Since: March 19, 2005
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My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be? (link)
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There is a chance that you could be pregnet. Some signs that you are are:
*You'll getting sick
*You may be eating a lot more
*You'll start getting bigger especially around the stomach and breat area
*Or you skip your period
Hope I helped
:.:Holly:.:
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My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME! (link)
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Explain to your mom that your old enough where you need some privacy in your life. Besides, she shouldn't be watching you and lecturing you on every wrong thing you do!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!! (link)
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You should really tell your step mother. You shouldn't be scared. Even if you arn't cloe, she needs to know these things because she can help!
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ok im 13 and a virgin im male and what is the age most people have sex if their not sluts or whores? and is it late for me not to have sex or early whats the deel i mean i really wanna have sex i meen realy bad and i mastrbate like 3 times a day.. (link)
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There's no perfect age where you could have sex. Just make sure that you feel safe and comfortable having sex. I think that you should wait a couple of years still, but if your ready then go and do it!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss! (link)
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If he's asking you if you love him and stuff,a nd you say you do, then he's just making sure that you won't lave him. So don't worry.
A way to show him that you love him more than anything is to do things that he adores. Like his favorite things to do and take him out to eat and stuff like that. And when you have a chance, tell him that you love him more than anything in the world!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do (link)
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Tell this guy that you don't feel comfortable dong things like that. If it happens again, tell him that you have to go and just walk away.
Hope I helped!
P.S: Don't lie to your parents becasue that won't help things either!
:.:Holly:.:
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Hey Everyone. Well i went to someone with this same question on a different site.. but i wanted to see what others thought too.Um before i start..My name is Katie,im a girl lol, & im 14. Okay, well..My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over a year now. Well i have a friend we used to be like best friends, but kinda grew apart. Somewhere along the way.. my friend lets say her name isssss..um..Jane.Anyway like i was saying, somewhere along the way Jane & my boyfriend started being "best friends". Well he calls her everyday & stuff. It sorta makes me feel bad. Now i duno whats the real story behind this.. but ive asked them before if they had a little more something going on.. but they both said no. i wana believe them.. i really do. But for some reason i have a little bit of doubt.And once i even heard he asked her out when we broke up but of course we got back together. I feel like a jealous girlfriend. Am i over-reacting? Soo what do you guys think.. do they like each other & if you think so..what should i do?? im so confused.PLEASE HELP!Thanks so much!!! (link)
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If it bugs you, then tell your boyfriend and your friend, then maybe they would stop. But if it doesn't stop, dump your boyfriend and let your friend and him get together. I know, it will make you heartbroken to move on, but they are other fish in the sea!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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Ok soo my name is Ashlee and i have a boyfriend and i love him very much but also i think i love a nother kid 2! should i dump my boyfriend or just forget about the other kid witch is hard! can u help me?! (link)
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One idea is that you could stay with your real boyfriend and if things don't work out then you always have a second choice!
Another idea is, if you love this other boy more than your boyfriend, dump him and go for the other guy. Just remember that there are other fish in the sea!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing
I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee
Always
Mee (link)
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You should probably tell your friend becasue if she finds out for herself, there will be trouble!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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ok i got a boyfriend that i love with all my heart. we talk on the phone everynight.. we talk from 10:30 until 1 sometimes 3 in the mornin and when we talk we basically talk about nothin but i love doing it except my mom doesnt like. last night she took the phone away from me and wouldnt even let me say bye. and i need to figure out how i can still talk to him at that time of night without gettin in trouble?? it isnt because i dont i call waiting on my phone and i dont know why she complains.. it shouldnt bother her she is usually sleepin during that time.. and plus it is summer and i dont have school the next day.. i would like to know some way so that i can get the phone and talk to my boyfriend without gettin in trouble?? thanks. (link)
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Some ideas are:
*You could wait until your mother is asleep and call your bf and talk QUIETLY
*If you have a cellphone, go out somewhere and talk to him where your mom isn't around (or go out with him lol
*Or simply ask your mom when you can call you bf so you won't get in trouble with her.
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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okay i still love my x boyfriend but everytime i talk to him i always seem to have some reason to fight w/him..but i love him with all my heart? is it because i'm jealous that some other girl is going to come into his life and steal him away? i really need help because for the past 4 months i can't seem to get over him..we've dated 2 times but it never worked out..cause we fight all the time..he used to start the fight but now it's me who does..i love him so much! and i just wish that i could understand why i start fights with him..i've told him before that i'd rather have bad times with him than good times with anyone else..and we've both admited that we love fighting with each other because we ALWAYS make up. i can't understand why i like it though..please help me!! thanks
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Maybe the reason you like fighting is because you and your x have done so many times. If you want to get back together with him, then that's fine. But just remember:
*The fights could get worse
*Your love for him might die out after a while since he is/was your x-boyfriend
Don't just take him back because you're scared that another girl will come into his life because other boys are going to come into yours.
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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ok a few days ago my boyfriend was messing around down there, and he asked what these weird, almost square-like things are inside the hole. i never noticed before, but do you know what i'm talking about? kinda like ridges, but yea. i was just wondering if that's normal; i don't really know why it wouldn't be, but just incase. thanx! (link)
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The reason it has those ridges is because all viginas are muscles. Don't worry, it's normal!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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i really want a dog. but we're renting a house and the rules are you can only have one pet. and we already have a cat. i really want a dog but i love my cat and i dont want to give him up. what should i do? (link)
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What you could do is:
*WAit until your cat "Moves On"
*Give your cat to someone you trust so then you could still go and see it time to time.
*Set your cat up for adoption, but just remember: if you do this, your at is gone.
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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if you eat alot in a short amount of time whats a good way to burn the calories off faster?
please help
i rate high (link)
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Good ways to lose weight is:
*drink a glass of cool ice water before you eat meals; this causes the stomach to shrink so you'll get full faster.
*exercise 3-5 times a week or go to the fym at least 3 times a week.
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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this is probably not under the right catagory, but latley like this clear stuff has been comming out of me and it makes my underwear went and sometimes is so much it feels like i peed my pants.i am 13/f and have been on my period for like 2 years.i am scared to tell anyone.do you kno what it is? (link)
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It's discgarge. Don't worry, it's very natural. Don't listen to those people that tell you you are going to die. They're just LOSERS WHO CAN'T GIVE ADVICE! Just keep calm and where pads or tampons.
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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s (link)
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It could be allergies. What you COULD do is:
*Go to the doctor and get prescription eyedrops.
*Change or check contacts
Just do not rub or itch your eye even though it is tempting!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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..alright so this has been bugging me forever, and i cant really ask my friends this question because they are going to support me of course but here it goes. In the past, i've had really cruddy relationships with guys. I've been in relationship where i've been used & gotten really hurt from it. But recently i meet this new boy. The one thing that completely seperates him from the rest of the boys i've had interest in is that he's not all bout getting in the pants. I meet him thru a friend at the movies, and there was sparks.. so the next night he came over. && meet my family. They all adored him. And like we didnt even do nething. He didnt like have the urge to leave the family and be alone, which i totally liked because no parents were home & we could have easily gotten away with "gettin with eachother" the next night.. he came over and we layed on my couch and cuddled. And nothing happened. And we were alone. No one was home. He didnt even try anything. The next day he came over. We just made out and i called him a tease because he always tickled me by my pants line and never went down. && thats just what im used to.. boy just goin straight in. Soo when he didnt i was like wow, even tho i wanted him to. So the next day he came over again, and we were all aloneeee for about 4 hours. We didnt do anything til the last hour, and he asked me why i called him a tease, and i explained. And then he ended up fingering me. Because i wanted it. And i was all happy with it or wateva. Then lator i realized, wow maybe i relaly fucked this up. because he wasnt like that, and i provoked him to be. I told him how i felt and he felt bad and said that he wudnt do it ever again and thought i didnt mind. Not to mention while he was doing it he kept asking if i was okay with it. And i said yeha, cuz i was. And hes been over every night after that.. for the past 3 nights and he hasnt tried it again. Do you think he likes me, or just wants to "get iwht me" HELPPP please..sorry sooo longg.. but i will rate 5's for sure! (link)
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He likes you a lot. The signs that he likes you is that he asks if it's all right before he "does anything". Just take your time and don't rush anything, and it might happen!
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Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this? (link)
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Don't think you're stupid or weird that you feel this way. Your absoultly right that the problem is never going to change. You should really not tell him, becasue that won't do to good on the relationship!
Hope I helped!
:.:Holly:.:
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see well i have this friend i've known for about 3 years going on 4. we use to like each other when i was in grade 6 and he was in grade five. i stoped liking him after grade 6 and that continued through grade 7. but as grade 8 came i started to like him again. now im going into grade 9 and i still feel the same way. he knows it but i dont think he'll tell me if he likes me back streight up or not. what should i do? (link)
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Well, if he won't come and tell you if he likes you, go and ask him yourself!
Simply write a note or talk to him face to face and ask him if he likes you! If you have both liked each other before, then this should be a piece of cake!
Hope I helped!
-Holly
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ok so i went to vermont this weekend and i met these guys. i really like this guys named pat. hes 16. theres this other guy named joe and hes more like a friend to me.hes 16 too. i heard that joe likes me, but im not completely sure he does.
so here what i need help with.
1. do i confront joe?
2. should i tell pat how i feel?
3. how do you tell if someone really likes you?
thank you sooo much! (link)
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1: You should confront Joe and tell him that you don't want a relationship, but you want to be his friend.
2: Go ahead and tell Pat how you feel about him. Because if you don't, you'll never have a relationship!
3: There are lots of ways you can tell people liek you. First of all, they'll flirt with you. Also, they'll stare at you directly or from the corner of their eye. Or they might say good things about you to their friends!
Hope I helped!
-Holly
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