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Well Yo Dogs... yea... i don't think i'm black i just always say that. Its liek my trademark. Ask me whatever... i'll give ya straight up answer or a sarcastic answer... depending on my mood. But i'm usually brutally honest especailly since i don't knwo you peopel and your feelings won't get hurt and i don't care what you think of me. And thats that
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My friend asked the guy I like what he thought about me.

He didn't really know her, he recognized her as my friend but didn't even know her name. But she was trying to talk to him and he just told her he needed his space and pushed her back saying "back up, we need to be this apart" and telling her not to get close, and she asked what he thought about me he didn't answer and just went with that "your getting to close" crap. So could someone tell me what this means???

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it means he knew what she was tying to do. It's pretty freakin obvisou when someone you barely know comes up to you and asks if you like a specific person that they are trying to find otu so that they can tell you. i mean how freakin often do you walk up to a random persona dn ask what they think of your friend?

all it meant was he knew what was up and wasn't willign to spill the beans yet.


if a gurl had sex w/ a guy who she wasnt goin out w/ would u call her a whore (link)
I would probably consider her kind of whorish... but thats just me... not everyone would think taht... unless she was doing it with a bunch of random people


i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc. (link)
1st, kissing.. tounge and what not
2nd, up the shirt action.. possibly shirt off/topless
3rd, dipsy-doodling down the pants, optional pants off/bottomless
4th... well we all know that one


i got my period in june and now its almost september and my breasts havaent started developing is that normal? (link)
Puberty stricks different areas of your body at different times. I started developing before i started having my period. it's different for every girl... and i am sure it will kick in within the next year. Good luck.


hi, i'm 15 yrs old..i have had the same boyfriend for about a year, and we recently started having sex. I dont know how to tell my mom that i need birth control...how can i break this to her? (link)
if your not mature enough to have a conversation with your mom abotu protecting yourself... then you are not mature enough to have sex. Plain and simple. Hate me if you want but its the cold hard truth


ok im not trying to be mean and this may not be true but when you say waht up yo or doggs or whatever you said in your profile no one got the impression you were black. but you saying dont think im black just sortof stated to all that only black people say that. im not saying your racist but it sortof sounds like it. you dont have to post this or anything i just wanted to say that much. (link)
i've gotten this question before and i only put that there because my friends make fun of me and tell me i'm a whigger and what not. it wasn't meant to stereotype or whatever. I'm sorry if it offended you... i truely am. Sorry abotu that.


m a virgin and its like im supposed to lose my virginity to my boyfriend back home... everything is so perfect and we haved talked about it having sex. before i left for vacations we talked about it and agreed that if it would happen, it had to be after i went back home ... i couldnt be happier with him but now ive been gone a month and i have been dating a guy here.. im with my friends and he even came to have diner with my parents. i already met his and his friends; everyone is so happy that we are together and we see each other everyday. his friends tell me and my friends that they havent seen his so happy with anyone and the truth is that im happy with him. here is the dilema, do i sleep with him or not? i want to but i have a bf back home and if i dont tell him that im not a virgin, can he find out physically? like what other ways can i break my hymen? advise plis ..
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if you ever question having sex with soemone... then you obviously aren't ready for it;. I say don't do it


I use the words: incredible, awesome, beautiful and amazing all the time. I was wondering if you knew any words that mean basically the same thing, but are different? (link)
scrumptrillecent


i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something? (link)
she's your mother... she won't be mean abotu it. Just ask her.


hey ummm..everytime i shave down there it grows back really quickly..seriously..can i do anythin so it stays smooth for longer..thanks x (link)
Um... hair down there does grow pretty fast. I haven't ever really dealt with it other than shaving it often. Maybe try a Nair-like product that chemically burns the hair off so that you get a deeper shave. I know my sister uses a lotion for her legs that slows growth and keeps hair thin so it's less noticable. Maybe look into that. I'm sorry i'm not much help on this subject. Maybe make it a public question and you'll get better results.



well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!

i rate well =] hailey* (link)
If they really like you and want to have a meanigful relationship with you they won't even ask for sex. They will wait til you are ready. If they pressure you then the relationship is pointless. You should feel comfortable with the person you are with... not pressured.


okay so theirs this kid i like..and he likes me, and when we hang out we're gonna "hook up" i've only made out with some one once, and it was last year.. i'm kind of scared, but i want to do it. I know their really is nothing to making out, but what if i'm bad at it, or idk how he's going to approach doing it. Have any advice?
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Well if this kid wants to do it so bad he probably won't care whether you are good or bad. He's going to be so damn excited to be having a girl he won't care. If he's a little more experienced however, follow his lead. Open your mouth when he opens his, stuff liek that. It's fairly easy and if you just go with the flow you should be fine/ But honestly, it sounds liek you two should have a better relationships going before you go jamming your tounge down his throat.


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okay so i had sex with my boyfriend last night and ever since then i have been throwing up and i keep needing the toilet i no im not pregnant and there is no chance i could be cuase im on the pill and he used a condom, ive had sex before and never felt like this whats wrong with me have i got a desease or something im gettin really worried please help i will rate high (link)
i doubt the two things are corallated... your probably just sick and you coincidentally had sex last night... i wouldn't worry


Do you prefer a bikini line wax, everything gone wax or shaving? (link)
i shave just for convience... but i want to try like Nair... i dunno... i gotta talk and see how it works... but abotu the clean or not


GO CLEAN!!



no matter what guys say, they prefer it...


and like a girl said earlier... you just feel cleaner down their because the hair isn't messing things up...


if ya got more questions or i confused you... ask me again and i will try better


Ok well im a 17/f and me and my boyfriend have sexand everything but like 4 months ago his condom broke and we didnt know it and now im pregnant. Well i want to keep the baby and my parents are all for me and any choice i make about the baby. Well my boyfriend and me are decieding if we should keep the baby and he wants to help raise the child if we decide to keep it. well i dont know if i should keep the baby. you see i will be able too because i act very mature for my age, i already moved out of my house when i was 16 because of family issues and i already have 1 child( i was raped when i 14 and i didnt give her up for adoption) what should i do should i keep the baby or give it up? (link)
I don't really have an answer but i give you major props for taking such good contorl of your life. Not many peopel could do that and still be around to talk abotu it. Keep it up!


hi. Ive got a boyfriend and i luv him to bits but should i be worried about the age gap? im 15 and he is 12. Do you think its wrong or what?
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Seeing as boys mature much slower... i think it would be hard to date a younger guy at that age. Especailly when he's 12. I mean he's still in MS and you are in HS. Two completly different lifestyles and priorities at your age. For him its about having fun and goofing off and for you its abotu working hard to get good grades and start thinking abotu your furture. I think it's a bad idea but who am i to say because i'm 16 dating a 19 year old.


okay this miht be a bit wierd but like wen ever i get my period i feel all wierd like its leaking thru my pants or something at skool and i really worry that it might be leaking! idk what to do? i mean if some one saw that there were blood stains on the back of my pants and especially if it was a guy i liked wat would i do? thats like sooo embarassing!
help!
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i wear my back pack really low during my period just in case so it kind of covers my ass and then also make sure you bring a long sweatshirt to school or if desperate... i knwo its not fashionable... something to tie aroudn your waist


Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do? (link)
if you are leaking through a tampon you probably need aheavier absorbancy is all. Get one of those playtex variety packs or whatever... and use the heavy ones on the days you are heavy, and i don't knwo hwo your cycle runs... but if your anythign liek me you will have a lighter flow by saturday and a regular tampon shoudl work for you or even a light... but if you still have a heavy flow just go for the heavy tampon...


i mean. what if your stomach is fat! but the rest is skinny i mean my stomach is not super fat but yeah ok im 13 and 5,5 is 130 the avrage weight?! yeah and what do guys look for. im so sick of every guy talking to me trying to get me in there car. i dont kno ok ill stop that was kinda random i rate high! (link)
Maybe you need to find more quality guyz. You don't sound overweight to me. Hell, i'm in great shape and i have some belly pudge. It's not abnormal. Crunches, or sit ups will get rid of it if your that worried.


Hey! Skool is about to start and i have a problem! Well I started dating this guy um.. 7-12-05 well he goes to a different skool and well i dont like long distance rel. b/c i always think they will cheat! Also now that we have been together for a couple of weeks he acts different then he did when we first started goin out like he dont care as much! And well i sorda never got over my ex like a year ago and i miss him i need to know what to do like i wanna break up with this guy but i dont know what to tell him! please help!!
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Love Kayla (link)
i think your biggest concern is learning how to spell before school starts... not some guy you seem to have trust issues with




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