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birth control
hi, i'm 15 yrs old..i have had the same boyfriend for about a year, and we recently started having sex. I dont know how to tell my mom that i need birth control...how can i break this to her?
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hey, i kno this is a old question but i saw it and i am 15 too, i havent had sex yet but my sisters do and they have unregular periods.. there for they have to take birth control to control that.. so tell your mom that your periods are all messed up and that you think you need birth control.. like jus be like hey mom i had my period for a really long time or i keep stoppin and going bak to it.. so yah i would use that excuse!
hoped i helped
dreamin4now
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you dont have to tell her if you dont want, you can get a friend to take you to the doctor so you can get the prescription, and insurance should cover the cost of it.
but you should tell her. if you are mature enough to have sex you should be mature enough to tell your mom that you dont want to have a baby at fifteen so you need protection.
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tell her the truth
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If your not ready to tell her you can go to planned parenthood and get it.. but just basically say mom you know i been with ***his name*** for a year now well we recently have had sex and i want to be safe and be on birth control.. tell her you know its your responsibility to take the pill or shot or change your patch but tell her you want her to trust you.. ♥ Dez
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if your not mature enough to have a conversation with your mom abotu protecting yourself... then you are not mature enough to have sex. Plain and simple. Hate me if you want but its the cold hard truth
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I dont know your mom but chances are that she isnt going to take this very easily. Especially because your only 15. Maybe just say that you feel like you have an irregular period and if she takes you to the gynocologist, then let the dr. know, but that you dont want your mom to know. See how that goes. But if you can tell your mom & you think she will be cool with it, then just tell her. =) Good luck.
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Just break it to her. Make sure you do it in a place that is comfortable and private. Don't do it in a resturant or in the middle of a huge family dinner or anything.
Expect her to be upset. You are only fifteen, and you are still her child, living in her house and by her rules. If you stay calm and talk reasonably she will be probably be more open to the idea of you having sex and will help you get the protection you need.
Good luck.
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