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My boyfriend and I love each other to death, but we're drifting apart..
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you were meant for me- jewel
i cant seem to stop getting hurt by this boy. we dated for 2 years and i was in love. the first time he broke up with me it hurt so bad. he did it about 3 times and always came back to me. the last time he broke up with me i tried to make it work for a month and then gave up and tried to move on. about 3 months later he started talking to me again. of course throughout the time we didnt talk i still always thought of him and i still had a ton of feelings for him, i just was trying to get over him and it was working. but when we started talking again he had already gone off to college which is only about an hour from where i live. anyways for about 2 weeks we just texted and stuff until he finally asked me to come down. i said i didnt know if it was a good idea and he told me how he still had feelings and that he thinks he might still love me. so that weekend i went down tehre and it was amazing. he was soo nice, it was the good him the him that i missed, the him that loved me. when i got home that night i texted him and he didnt respond. the next day we didnt talk at all. it was strange because before he would text me everyday. so the day after i called him and he didnt sound like he wanted to talk? when we hung up i just started bawling because ive been through his whole i love you i miss you and then i dont like you thing tooooo many times. and i had this horrible feeling that he was going to let me down again even though he had said it wasnt going to be liek that anymore. but the next day he actually ended up texting me. just saying whats up, but i knew he was thinking about me. but i brought up going down there again adn he said "idk" like wtf does he mean idk? just before he was telilng me he still loved me he still misses me and now he doesnt know if he wants me to see him again?! at that moment i knew he was going to try to play those mind games with me again and my heart just cant take anymore from him..... yesterday i got on facebook and his status said he was coming home 2morrow. it just sunk down my stomach. like are you serious? you're coming down and he didnt even say anything to me? especially when i asked about comeing down ther again sometime.. i just cant do it anymore. i have so many feelings for him but i just feel like.... i deserve better?! what do you guys think?! i actually just like 20 minutse ago deleted him from a friend on facebook, and about 5 minutes later he called me. i didnt answer.. i think i need to just let it go?
you deserve so much better. i know your feelings are strong, but would you rather find a guy who loves you and will stay in love with you and treat you right? or stay with a guy who plays mind games with you and seems like he only uses you when he's lonley. girl, you can do better. and you will! let go. dont talk to him, text him, nothing. he's not worth it.
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I asked this boy out named james and I really like him alot and every thing and when I asked him he said that he's trying to get with this other girl.I don't know who she is or anything james is a freshman he says she's in the 8th grade anyway here's the problem before i asked james out all i talked about was him i could tell my friends were getting annoyed with me but i still couldn't stop talking about him my best friend says iam obbessed with the boy but now if i just see his face i want to burst into tears i won't eat and iam normally a big eater so when i don't eat my friends know that there's something wrong with me.I didn 't even talk all that much today all i did was think and daydream about james and when i think about him i start crying my eyes out what's going on and what can i do about it please help iam sick of crying over this boy.
no offense. but thats kind of lameee.
i mean, its just one boy
theres probably A LOT of other boys who would love to get with you. you dont have to act weird around him. just smile and wave and stuff. i mean dont talk to him every second of the day. but just be like "hi james :]" getting rejected isnt as bad as you think it is. you have a lot more rejections in the future than this. so just move on.
Okay so what are some things that girls can call guys. Like guys can call us sweetie and babe and stuff but im not sure what were suppose to call them. (please dont say honey i hate that) ohh and is it okay for a girl to call a guy babe?
well, i call my boyfriend darlin.
i know thats kind of lame but i always have and it just kinda stuck. yes, it's alright for a girl to call a guy babe.
I am 15 and a girl and of course I like this guy. Lets call him Bob. Bob is so sweet to me and the other day I was having a bad day and he just let me hug him and hug him and then we walked to this room we both had tutoring in with his arm around my waist and mine around his. I could swear that he likes me.
And once we fake went out (LOOONG STORY) and I want to ask him out and be like "Remember when we fake went out? well I was thinking we could do that again, but without the fake." Or to just ask him to dinner or something but not SUPER obvious. Something like "Do you play pool? I found this great little place where we could go that has the best food."
I dont know but I really like him and I love being his friend and he's my best guy friend but I just want something more.
Please any advice at all is welcome. Thank you for reading this! I'm sorry it's kind of long.
yes do ittt !
that would be so cute the little non fake part.
aww, yes sweetie, make sure he doesnt say no :]
It was the night of my year 11 prom n i was a bit tipsy so i slow danced with a boy who has fancied me like mad for about two years. Then when it came to the end of the evening i said bye, went home and thought nothing of it. He then started textin me n sayin that he loved me n that he wished the dance didn't have to finish. But because i was "slightly tipsy" i got in on the act and started flirtin with him, so he then thought that i fancied him. Then the next time i saw him was at a mates party and ayou do at a party i was a bit drunk and he asked me to go out with him.And i said yes. For some unknown reason. This was three weeks ago and he constantly texts me sayin he loves me n he tells me to my face that he loves me but i just don't feel the same way about him. How can i tell him that i don't like him as a boyfriend but just as a mate, without making it sound too harsh? plz help!
just tell him that you like him as a friend, and when he asked you out you were drunk and you werent thinking.. you never meant to say any of that. thats what i would do !
ok heres the situation. your 15 yrs old. u never liked your dad, you hated him and you had this huge fite. and then he beats you wif a wooden stick until it broke. your mom was yelling at him and everything. and he hits your mom because she tries to stop him from hitting you. and then and then... a couple days later they act like nothings happened. yout mom doesnt want anyone else outside the family to kno this so she doesnt calls the police. you realli cant stand it that everyones living on fine and you get mad seeing your bruises. wat do you do?
considering thats child abuse.. you should call the police. just because he's your dad doesnt give him the right to hit you.. thats wrong, and it could get worse. he could get so mad he could try and kill you.. not just a couple of bruises. i mean what if your friends ask you how you got the brusies are you just gonna lie? no. you gotta tell someone. and you gotta show the police the bruises before they go away. i promise, you'll be better off. it could get worse. either the police, or your grandma.. or somebody in your family you really trust and you know can help you
OK so im only 14/f and im pretty skinny. I have stretch marks on my inner thighs. Nobody my age that i know has these.. is this even normal? and summer is coming up soon and its like oh there goes wearing a bikini, because its embarrasing. Is there anything cheap that i can get at a local store that will get these away. Its like when you have a baby its that bad but on my thighs. Its really embarrasing so i always wear shorts. Is there ANYTHING that will help??? Please i'll rate 5's!!!
okay, all girls will get stretch marks sometime in their life. like, if you get them on your buttocks, your but is getting bigger. your just getting a little bit bigger. no big deal. okay well if you want something that will kind of lighten them, coacoa butter works great! but theres a really good lotion called "Re-fine" by avon.. It works really well.
I'm f/16, and I was just wondering...The first time I've heard it hurts a lot. Depending on the person of course. For example I've never even wore a tampon, so will it hurt alot for me when I lose my virginity? How much will it hurt, and how much will the pain last for? Will you even feel at least a bit of pleasure anytime in the first time?
A tampon doesnt really hurt, considering the tampon is much, much smaller than a penis.
No, it wont hurt more than any other girl when you lose your virginity. The pain will last throughout the whole process.. and, you will feel pleasure thats what sex is! ;]
Ok. I am a 14 year old guy looking for a new hair style. I have my hair parted in the center then feathred back now. Anyone know a good looking hair style with information on how to style your hair to get it? I have brown hair if it helps.
personaly, i like shaggy hair
its kinda long but not too long..
but.. umm i guess its whatever you like
if you like it short, whatever.
if you have a girlfriend i dunno
ask her what she likes on you
hey
hey every one well my dad always hits me for no reasona sif imh is step daughter he always makes me cry and if i tell him not to he will hit i dont know what to do he makes me feel as if im not part of the family :(
honey, thats called child abuse. have you told your mom? and if not. tell someone. a teacher, a aunt anyone. you cant let your dad hit you. if you need to call the police than do so. child abuse leads on to other things. sexual abuse.. murder?
OK so my best guy friend, well all my girl friends say that he likes me, and they say I like him too, which is true. But im way too scared to tell him(for reasons .. i just cant) and i wish he would just tell me ! what should i dooo?
PS-im going with him to a semi formal dance this saturday.
just kind of like, ease into it.
give him hints.
dont come right out and tell him.
just be like "you've heard what they're saying right? about us liking eachother. then kind of grin and turn your head away" always works.
Hey, its about to be spring and all and then bathing suit season...i can't wait but i have this big problem! i have these massive stretch marks underneeth my butt... there are a bunch of them and i have had them for about 2 years? well i dont know how long...but they are driving me insane! i want them gone..i have been doing all sorts of excercises for my butt..still havent goone away though...unfortunatly. my butt is pretty much all muscle since i am into sports dance tennis soccer..im very active i even go to the gym sometimes..but they still havent gone...i just need help to try to get ride of these... does anyone know a way? or maybe an exercise i could do to get rid of them quick? id really appreciate it if you helped me out...im pretty sure other girls have this problem also!
yes, girls have this problem.
coacoa butter works REALLY well.
so i've been dating this guy and he really likes me. he talks about wanting a really serious relationship as in wanting it to result in something for the future. hes 18 so i can understand why but the problem is im 16. i was in a year relationship all of my freshmen year and i enjoyed this year by being single. i really like single as a matter of fact i prefer being single but i really like this guy. he really likes me too and i dont want to break his heart and i dont want to lose him. but i feel like im not as happy as i used to be cause i cant party as much as i used to i cant talk to all the guys i used to hang out with all the girls i used to or anything like that. i really dont want to waste two more high school years by being in a relationhip when i should be having fun. what do i do? should i break it off or give it time to see how things go? what would you do?
just think, could you see yourself with this guy in the next.. year? or can you see yourself having fun like you want to be doing?
My mom is making me get braces soon and i think i have a choice of colors. What color would you pick and why?
Thanks
i would pick green because its my favorite color.. or teal because its closest to green.
ok,so,here is the deal,im going to the movies with my friends,there bfs,and this kid i like.my friends know him but i've never seen him in person,only talked on aim.im afraid he wont like (pretty wise)but i've seen a picture of him,and hes realllyyy cute.Im not confident around guys really,but i already know how to solve that. What i need to know is what should i wear for make up? (i have beige-yellow skin,brown eyes,black,long eyelashes and black eyebrowns,brown hair,pink-rosy lips.I look really itlian)I need something that makes me look soo awesome!! I have an ok complextion,some pimples.Would it be smart to go to the spa the day befor for a facial (to get rid of black heads) Thanks a bunch!!
sure! a spa would be PERFECT. okay, black eyeliner only on the bottom. your eyelashes make up for the top. what are you wearing? reply back, and ill tell you more.
Okay so im 15/f and ive got stretch marks on my upper thighs and hips and also on my bum and i wanted to know if there is anything i can get to fade them? i no i cant make them dissappear forever but i just want to make them less visable
can any one help? also im from the UK ENGLAND
vitamin e lotion.
or coco butter
15/f For the past 9 years i have been constantly bullied and since september 05 i have been homeschooled. the bullying was to much for me to handle it was literally every one! and no im not over reacting. if it was a few people i would of been able to deal with it but it was groups of people from each year in my school.
And i would sit in my classes with every one chanting names at me, dont get me wrong i often fired back with comments about there bad points but i felt so mean, im not the sort of person to bully or be nasty!
I was born with cleft lip and pallette and of course i had operations to correct it but i have a few scars and so on.
I used to get comments like.. fish lips, bulldog, lipricorn, half moon and so on and i still get them every now and again when i go out.
but now i have no friends what so ever except for the people i speak to online as all the friends i did have have now turned against me and joined in with the bullying!! YEH GREAT MATES RIGHT?? erm no.
The thing is i feel so ugly, i know im not ugly ugly but im not exactly pretty either and its getting me down! what can i do to give myself the confidence boost i need?
people out there are so mean.
im sure you are BEAUTIFUL.
anyway, confidence can come in all different things. makeup for one. but you dont need to wear makeup to be beautiful. beauty comes from WITHIN.
If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything?
God is the creator of all things.
God is not a human he is a spirit.
yes, i know its very confusing. but you're just gonna have to go along with it. he created himself.
you're thinking too hard. give up and go ask your church leader. nobody created him because there was no one before him and so on and so on. he is a SPIRIT. HES ALWAYS BEEN THERE. geez..
I am 17 year old boy. My height is 5.8. I am worried about my penis size. My penis size is only 4 inch. When I see it is in normal condition it looks very small like penis of a child. I guess it is not genetic problem because my 15 year old brother has 5 inches and my father has also good length (I don’t know the exact size but it looks big & thick). This situation resulted inferiority complex in me. Once my bro saw me (un-erected) and said oh! You have tiny thing. I just laughed and said it is not hard. Things like that put me on back seat. Is there any authentic method to increase the length. What is the normal size of a man. Till what age the length may be increased.
I would say that the normal size of a 17 year old boy is... about 5 or 6 inches. It's not that big. It will get bigger. Dont worry, it will. Try penis pumps. They are around 17 maybe 20 dollars. IF you REALLY want to do that. It might not work. But then it could work. And to answer your question about what age the length may be increased, I would say around your twenties.