It was the night of my year 11 prom n i was a bit tipsy so i slow danced with a boy who has fancied me like mad for about two years. Then when it came to the end of the evening i said bye, went home and thought nothing of it. He then started textin me n sayin that he loved me n that he wished the dance didn't have to finish. But because i was "slightly tipsy" i got in on the act and started flirtin with him, so he then thought that i fancied him. Then the next time i saw him was at a mates party and ayou do at a party i was a bit drunk and he asked me to go out with him.And i said yes. For some unknown reason. This was three weeks ago and he constantly texts me sayin he loves me n he tells me to my face that he loves me but i just don't feel the same way about him. How can i tell him that i don't like him as a boyfriend but just as a mate, without making it sound too harsh? plz help!
LoveNJstyle answered Sunday June 25 2006, 8:25 pm: oh goshhhh! just tell him that you want to just be friends and then like invite him to hang out so he doesnt think it's just a stupid excuse. maybe you shouldn't drink before seeing people like him in public places... save it for when you are with friends and people you really like. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
LETSGO answered Sunday June 25 2006, 5:32 pm: just tell him that you like him as a friend, and when he asked you out you were drunk and you werent thinking.. you never meant to say any of that. thats what i would do ! [ LETSGO's advice column | Ask LETSGO A Question ]
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