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E-mail: jane_254@hotmail.com
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Location: Valdosta, Georgia
Age: 16
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Member Since: July 11, 2004
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Last Update: February 25, 2005
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Hello Jane,
Im 13 and I have never had sex but my period is late ...im getting worried wat do u think is wrong? :] (link)
*Nothing is wrong, so SMILE :)! Your period is irregular which means it will take a year or two to flow naturally and make its appearance on time.*


im 16 and my penis is not that big and a few months back when my girlfriend saw my penis she laughed about it and it was quite embarrassing we broke up so does size matter to girls will i be able to have a realtionship? (link)
*When you're in a nice relationship size should not matter. That was pretty rude for her to laugh about it in front of you. Don't worry a lot of guys have small penises and she'll feel like a dumbass after she sees some more. Don't worry about it, she's not worth worrying about your size. You'll be able to still have relationships, size does not ALWAYS matter!*


hey! ok im 14/f. i have this guy friend, who ive been friends w/ since like 6th grade (we r in 9th now) and hes in one of my classes. we hang out on the weekends sometimes w/ a group of friends, and we talk more and more now. sometimes he'll call me like babe and stuff, but he does it in a joking way... i think. he always talks to me in class, and sometimes he'll put his arm around me, and stuff like that. hes a really sweet kid, and he tells me stuff, like who he likes and things like that. recently, he liked this girl, and told me he didnt think he liked her anymore cause he needed someone he could be himself around. do you think he mite like me? i dont kno if he does, and i am not sure if i like him or not, but i was just wondering how u can tell if a guy likes u, and if u think this guy likes me. thanks so much, ill rate! (link)
*Wow, he is very open to you. I think he is hinting around that he likes you I mean the arm around you, and even telling about the girl he can be himself around...you're the one! Start flirting with him back, call him babe, do something to show you are interested! :]*


my friends are drinking and taking drugs! i have tried to avoid them because i am uncomfortable being around them. My friend just called and told me that one of my friends just had drugs while she was driving her attitude and mood is changing and it's not a good change! my other friend i'm not mad at him but i think he thinks i am!! What should i do? (link)
*Well, I think you should have a conversation with them about their drug usage. Tell your friends how it makes you feel and be sure to tell them the dangers of their actions. Driving while on drugs is definetly not good! Just let your friend know how much they mean to you and stuff. If they don't listen you might want to tell an adult..*


Ok, me and my boyfriend had sex only twice this month, both times we used a condom and I'm not on the pill or anything. The condoms didnt break, rip or tear. But however, my period tomorrow will be a week late. I don't know if I'm just over reacting because we did have sex and I haven't gotten it yet. But theres no way poissible right if the condom didnt break for me to be pregnant is there? What should I do just siot around and wait for my period to come?
Thank you all sooo much (link)
*Defintley take a pregnancy test. And do it soon so you will find out.*


Does anyone know of any good blush that stays on all day without having to reapply it all the time? Or does anyone know how to get regular blush to stay on all day? Like putting lotion on ur face first or something? (link)
*I know this sounds weird, but tinted lipgloss works better than blush. It stays on A LOT longer!*


i have this HUGE dance coming up on friday and i have this really big zit and its really red!! does anyone know a way to get rid of it by tonight because i dont want people at school to see it and my mom won't lemme buy cover up!

signed,
sad zit face sorry for the lameness (link)
*Put ice on your zit for about 5 mins. It won't be swollen anymore. Just cover it up with makeup and you'll be good to go! :]*


ok well las nyte me n mi friend went to rok n bowl to meet sum guys that we kno frm bowling.. we were at rok n bowl..n then wen we were leavin..mi grandfather who waz pikin us up wasnt there..he left..so we went home with the two guys n snuk in there house n spent da nyte..i swear i didnt do nething wit ne of those guys becuz i have a boifriend n i love him!...but today i wasnt home so mi mom kalled the cops n evrything..danny(mi boifriend)found out bout me spendin anyte at there house..n he doesnt believe that i didnt cheat on him...i told him i didnt ni owuld nevr cheat on him..i love him..i tried kallin him alll las nyte so i could go home w/ him but he didnt answer hiz fone..he said that i fuked our realationship up.n hes glad that im grounded becuz he doesnt want to c me cuz i hurt him..omg i wish i waz dead..i dont kno wat to do...
I DIDNT CHEAT ON HIM..I NEVR WOULD!!! (link)
*Ouch..but you did spend the night at those guys houses, if my b/f did that, I'd suspect he cheated too. So see things from his point of you and just go to his house and try and talk to him. You know trust is a big part of a relationship and if he can't trust what you're saying then there never was a relationship.*


hi my name iz samantha..can u make me a salute n send it to my email..sbchick89@yahoo.com
thanx
xoxo..sam
n mi aim screen name iz ii love you 616x (link)
*Okay :]*


Does anyone know any really good books about like teenage situations but is like a fictional story. (like the Gossip Girl series). I love that series and would love to read other books just like that! I'll rate. Thanks for your help. (link)
*Gossip Girls is the best. One book I really enjoyed was The Au Pair. It's about these 3 teenage 'hot nannys' who go to the Hamptons. I'm sure you'll love it!*


I'm doing Varsity Cheerleading, and I was just wondering if anyone has any good ideas for hair styles besides the regular pony tail, or bun..for games, and for competitions..I'd like to do something really different for the games this year to draw more attention to myself..Maybe some cute new makeup ideas would be good too..thanks alot cuties* (link)
*French braids, pig tail buns, wear your hair down and put back the side peices...put your mind to the rest.*


I have always heard that if your wrapper of a Tootsie Roll Pop has the indian shooting a star you can send it in to get a free Tootsie Pop. Is this actually true, and if so who do you send it to? (link)
*Yes it's true, or it was when I was little, I'm not quite sure if they still do that. Highly doubt it.*


well its weird im 12 and my gf is 14 and she asks if i want to have sex wut should i say (link)
*Are you ready to have sex? If you are then I guess say yes, but if you're not DEFINETLY say no. By the way..12 is pretty young now.*


I want some good slogans like for Kerry to win so I can put it in my info.. Anybody got any good ones.. I only have this one so far:

Bush trying to lead america, is like a blind man trying to help deaf people. - Paul O'Niel..

Thanks! (link)
*OMG, will people stop bashing Bush it's getting so fucking old. But anywho I saw this one on the side of the road "Give Bush The Pink Slip" written white on pink.*


What are some ways to get over your ex? My ex is a jerk, but for some weird reason, I can't stop my feelings for him. I don't want to go back to him because all he does is hurt me. (link)
*Think of things you don't like about him, and whenever you think about him then think the hate things. If you know where he's going on the weekend, then don't do or go to it. Also, you just got to accept the fact that ya'll are broken up and it wasn't meant to be and that you'll find a BETTER guy than him!*


ok my friend thinks she may be pregnant because her stomach is really warm, and the smell of food makes her sick and shes ALWAYS hungry. She has had her period but shes still scared and she also told me she is taking a depression medication called lortex (i think) and she doesnt know if its because of that or if shes prgnant and shes too scared to ask her parents! Please help asap! Thanks! (link)
*You said she has had her period, therefore she is not pregnant.. if she was, she wouldn't have gotten her period. I think Lortex is making her gain weight and all that other stuff.*


Wow. First off I want to say that you are a great advice giver. I've been looking at your colum (or whatever you call it) and you've been doing great.

One of my guy friends at a different school told me that his friend really wanted to meet me and take me out on a date after a football game. So we emailed all week long & talked a little bit on the phone. He seemed excited to meet me. So on Friday, we met at his school's football game. For the first minute, everything was going great. I was cuddling under a blanket with him. He was acting really nice. Then all of a sudden, a bunch of girls came up to him and started flirting with Nathan (that's his name). He flirted back and he didn't pay as much attention to me. Other girls tried to steal the blanket from me, but Nathan didn't let them. That was nice of him, but he still continued to flirt with them. When he said he was going to get something to eat, some girls screamed, "I'll go with you!" Then the girls followed him. A little later, I decided to go see what he was up to. Not only were the same girls flirting with him, but others were, too. Nathan payed some attention to me, but not very much. I waited for several minutes for him to shut up to the girls, but he didn't. So what did I do? I left the game COMPLETELY, without saying a word to him or anybody. After I left, I felt bad, so I called Nathan. I told him I would be back at the game. When I went back to the football game, it was almost over. I called Nathan again to tell him I was at the game, but this time a girl answered and said, "He's somewhere else." I looked all over for him, and asked other people if they saw him, but they didn't. So much for the date he was going to take me on after the game. I waited for Nathan to call me, but he never did. This morning, I sent Nathan an email, telling him why I left the game, but I haven't heard from him. Who's the jerk, me or him? What should I do now?

And another thing: While this was going on at the football game, I saw my ex boyfriend who goes to Nathan's school. He was flirting with some girl. I got INCREDIBLY jealous that my ex was flirting with a girl, but I didn't care as much that Nathan was. Why does it seem like I'm TOTALLY over my ex, but I get so jealous when I see him with other girls.
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*Aww thanks! =] Anyhoo, this Nathan guy is a jerk. I think he was talking to those girls to show off he's a 'hot guy at the school' and impress you, but he got a little too carried away with it along with his ego. Honestly, if ya'll ever dated and some girl said hi to him, he'd probably do the same thing he did that night. Also, are you SURE you're totally over your ex? I think you might have a *small* thing for him still if you get jealous. If he's still into you, then you should go to him not Nathan b/c Nathan is an ass with a big ego and a INCREDIBLY bad date.*


hi does anyone know a good quote i could put in my profile about : me and these girls became friends and i wanna have a quote about how happy i am that we became friends then under it put there initials! please help! (link)
*God Gave Me Friends, So I Wouldn't Have To Laugh Alone*


Hi. Does anyone know of a good way to get a flat stomach? All my friends say I'm not fat, but I would like to get a flat stomach and lose some weight on my thighs, too. I heard about doing crunches every morning/night and running a mile a day. Does anyone have a certain way to get a flat stomach and skinnier thighs? Thanks! (link)
*Omg, the best way to get that is to do Pilates. It works your stomach and basically your legs. If you have a local YMCA, they have Pilates classes. So sign up for it.. but if they don't there is this Pilates video that you could get.*


ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do? (link)
*He doesn't love you. He's using you for sex. End the relationship.*




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