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I am 5'2 I have long blond hair. I'm tan and I love the beach. I work at abercrombie and fitch in savannah georgia. I love to help people with their problems. So if you need advice just ask me!
I AM A BIG PARTY GIRL..... I love guys...well i should say my boyfriend. we have been together for six years now. and everything that comes along with that....anywho...If y'all have msn add me....I love my sports to death. I love hangin around with my friends when i have time and I love going to school. I know its weird but i dont have to do much work so its all good.

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Well I met this guy we'll call him "S" and i started talking to him online about a week or so ago i met him through a friend of mine and i recently hung out with him about 5 days ago and I'm really into him but i feel like its too quick and i don't want to tell him and scare him off... i've been through some tough times with guys and i don't want to screw things up i don't know what to do and sometimes i feel i can't keep up conversation with him what do i do to get him to maybe look into me as maybe more than a friend i broke up with one of his friends about a month and a half ago too which is also weird i mean when we hung out it was obvoius we wer flirting a lot but i want a guy that won't use me for just ass i feel stupid what should i do? it seems i always find myself getting hurt

You should tell him that u have a crush on him...since thats not that serious....let nature take its course....If he was flirting with u he obviously is crushing on u too. Good Luck!!!

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ok this is gonna sound sort of weird but lately i feel like i cant control anything really i cant control my heart or the way i look or the way i feel or any of that but i can control how much i eat im 5'6 going into 8 grade and i weigh 102 pounds and i just want to weigh 98 idk why but 2 me thats how i feel i should look so i just stopped eating basicially i mean its 2 and i havent had anything to eat today ill probally eat a little bit but not alot and i always feel like im getting fatter and stuff i just dont want to look like me anymore... i hate the way i look but idk why i feel like this i have the best boyfriend i could ever ask for great friends great family i guess i just feel like i have to be perfect for everyone and i think thats how everyone wants me to look so thats what im going to do i guess should i weigh less than 98? how much weight should i loose?

First of all you need to eat. You don't loose wait when u dont eat most of the time you stay the same size or you gain weight. You family wants you to be healthy and I think you look perfect to be the size you are and your age. I know i prolly didnt help but good luck

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How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please!

Keep yourself busy. You will eventually stop thinkin about him all together.

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well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names Zoé but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help??

oh gosh girl. You should not have started braist feeding her in the first place so yes you should stop. Im sorry that its hard but you are gonna have to put your baby first. Dont drop out of school or anything. You should make the father pay child support and he should have to take the baby every weekend or during the weekend however u decide to work that out. If he doesnt want to then u need to take him to court. Just talk to him and to your parents. Good luck

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Over the summer I was a counselor at a camp with my friends. This other guy I know also was a counselor. He goes to my school and I started liking him. Turns out he likes me to (he told my friend). He says he doesn't want me to know (too late!) and he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people out is stupid to him. His last two girlfriends were both extremely popular and deemed the 'hotties'. I'm just worried he doesn't want to go out with me because I am not popular. Now I'm not a geek, I'm pretty high up there...but not as high as his ex-girlfriends. Any advice would help.

If he likes you it shouldnt matter if your really popular or not so pretty. He should like you for who you are and if he doesnt want to be with you because you not so popular then its his lose not yours and you can do much better than him. Good Luck!!

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This is more of an opinion question than an advice thing, but I figured I'd ask anyway...never hurts, right?
If a guy asks you to marry him in the future, but doesn't give you a ring, does it count?
Lol I'm just curious to see what you guys think.

Of course it counts...A ring is just a ring it doesnt say how much you love someone and how much you want to be with them. Its just something for other ppl to know that you are in love with this man and that you do want to be with him for the rest of your life.

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When i use tampons and i go to take them out, there is skin or something that i have to move over in order for me to be able to succeed in removing the tampon. Is this normal or should i get it checked out?

That's was nasty......I would go get that checked out

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hey i just found out that this guy i like who is my 2nd best friend had the thought of asking me out just to make me happy it was in the past where he thought of the idea but i just found out today that he would do that why would he consider going out with someone he dont like just to make them happy wouldnt he be unhappy himself becuase he would of been going out with someone he didnt care for in that way should i be upset about he would just go out with me to make me happy and not go out with me becuase he accually cares for me like i care for him

I think I would be a little upset. But he did have good intentions. I wouldn't be so hard on him about it.

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is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?!

Yes...Just make sure ur not on a heavy period.

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okay..i have a friend and she wont let me hang around any of the other friends i have made this year or she gets mad and thinks im ignoring her! i really like her and i dont like it when she is mad! but i also like the new friends i have made! i dont JUST want to hang around her! how do i get her to understand that i want to be her friend and the others friend too?!

Tell her that you don't like the fact that she gets mad when you hang around your other friends. Explain to her that she is not your only friend and you dont want to always be just hanging around with her. Tell her that you would like if she got to know the other ppl too.

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does anyone know a HOMEMADE way to make a hair remover?? [preferably eyebrows] -i rate if its a answer that works-

You can use twizzers or you can buy the wax and do it yourself. Good luck

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I recently got my tongue pierced. I love it, but the thing is, my church and friends don't approve of it. How do I deal with those opposed to the piercing?

Well I personally wouldn't worry about what they think. It was your choice and it's your body. You can also buy a filler to put in there. That's what I did untill my mom said it was ok for me to have one. Hope I helped

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I haven't had my first kiss yet. Everyone makes a big deal about it, but whatever. I know that it will suck because I don't know what the hell i'd do with my lips or anything, but uhhh, like what would I say after were done if I was horrible and he knew it? I know i'd be embarassed and I dont know what I would say?

Don't worry about what other ppl think. Its your choice when you have your first kiss. And they should not say anything about it. Don't be embarassed. Everyone sucks their first time. We cant really tell ya what to say but continue talkin about what you were already talking about.
Hope I helped

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ok when people have sex ....does the guy all have to insert it... or does it just "go in" when they lay on top of each other...is it lyk a magnet effect...or something?

You always have to insert it. Sometimes if its the first time you may have to help the guy. He might not be able to get it in or find the whole. If ya need me drop one in my inbox.

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iight theres this guy that i meet saterday! he is awesome! i mean i can be my complete self around him! and me and him both have a thing fro each other...and i mean i do like him and he is going to ask me out the next time we see each other...but i'm jst scared that it's going to be awhile before we see each other! and i kind of don't want to wait!?? but then i do cuz i don't want to rush things!? wat should i do?

Well personally I don't think a guy should ask you out over the phone or on the computer. I think that he should be face to face with you to ask you out. Tell him how you feel and come up with something together. Hope I helped. Good Luck

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this guy that i was friends with for a long time was having a bad day and when we were in art class i asked him what was wrong. and he was like back the *uck off and leave me alone. i was like jesus okay i was just asking i didn't mean to get you upset. that day we were making these clay things and there is this tool that has a very sharp edge on it and he held it up to my throat and he said if you don't get away from me i'll stab you with this. the look in his eyes was absolutly terrifying. that night on AIM i had asked him what was wrong and he was acting really funny. his typing had changed. he was making alot of errors and not correcting himself like he normally would. he threatened to blow up my school and then he threatened to kill me and himself. i got scared and i told my dad about it and the next day my dad called the school and my principal, my guidance counselor, and the schools D.A.R.E. officer sat down with the two of us and we were talking and he kept saying that he was joking about everything that he had said to me that night. We aren't friends anymore and i do not want to start a new school year knowing that he hates me. what should i do? should i try talking to him? or should i leave him alone? he was my best friend for a while and i miss having him as my friend

I would have been so fuckin scared. I dont think that you should try to talk to him or anything untill u see that he has changed and gotten over that. Let him come and talk to you.

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OKay guys! On the first day I have narrowed it down to two diffrent choices:

1. blue jeans, a halter top w/ a cute shirt (the kind that have the buttons at the top that u leave undone (i know complicated to explain), black flip-flops, and a pink and black purse and pink and black back-pack!

2. blue jeans, a dark pink and blue shirt (the polo kind) with pink flip flops and a pink and a pink and black purse and pink flip flops!!

3. other.

okay please choose one!!!!! :D Keep in mind I am starting a new school and I'm confused about the style!! Thanks guys!

I think that you should go with the second one. They both sound really really cute though

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i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him

I had the same exact problem. I didnt kiss my boyfriend untill we had been together for a month. I thought it was weird also, but it's not. It very normal. Just get to know him better so u will feel more comfortable.

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I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx

wow! you have a bad problem. There is no easy way to dump a guy. Just tell him that you really just want to be friends and that maybe later yall could possibly get back together. I know i prolly didnt help much.

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ok does n e 1 no how 2 add pictures and things like that in your abvice column? (is it even possible)! :)

Go to ur profile and scroll down untill u see a box that says browse. You can put one of ur pics on there or u can go to the box right above it and a pic from the internet. Hope I helped.

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