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E-mail: dixiencoco@hotmail.com
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Location: american born and raised.
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Um I have a really personal love life question and id rather not post it on public internet, so I was wondering if a couple of people could volunteer to answer it? (ill send you a question to your inbox)

thanks (link)
i just wanted to say two things:
you're anonymous, no one knows who you are.
and if your so scared not to post it on the internet - if these people answer it its going to go on their column anyways, so it is posted to the public.

but i'm willing to answer.
as long as it doesn't revolve around sex.
if you want you can email me at: dixiencoco@hotmail.com

[:


Is there any kind of way I can charge my iPod (classic) without using my computer? Preferably not a lot of money. And something that charges it quick. Because I travel a lot, and don't have a laptop, so I need something that I can charge my iPod on while I travel. Any help is great. And please no "no, you have to use a computer". Because that's not what I'm looking for. (link)
well, i just looked up 'ipod classic charger' on google and came up with this:

handhelditems.com has a car charger for 7.99

and you might wanna check out igo.com

radioshack usually has all this stuff, so you might wanna compare prices or something.
just call your local store and ask if they have it in stock.

hope i helped. [:


I was just wondering, how come most of the stuff that's on clearance on the hollister website usually can't be found in the store? like sometimes i'll go out to buy something on clearance from hollister that i saw on the site isn't there. (link)
it might be because their discontinuing that item, which is why its on clearance.
[i'm sure you've seen stores going out of business sell all their stuff up to 70% off]
so if they don't make any more of that item, you can't really stock up the stores.


does anybody have any tips on how to become at peace with yourself and accept yourself? i know its not something someone can just tell you how to do but any piece of advice would help. thanks in advance. (link)
well, basically be positive.
focus on the positive.
for personality you can pick a role model and choose characteristics that you would like to improve and work on it.
for looks and stuff, focus on the positive and enhance it by wearing thing that show it off or makeup that intensifies it.
you asked a really general question, so that's really all i can say.


15/f i'm inexperienced at dating guys or even getting asked out and 2 days ago, this guy professed his love to me online and said that he wants me to go out with him. and he kept on flattering me and i was like whoahh, you know? too much attention.

i don't like him. he's sweet but just not my type.

i didn't know what to answer him when he asked me out, so I said i'll think about it. and now he's assuming that i meant that its a maybe. that he has every right to hug me or do stuff.
its not a maybe. its a no.
i just dont want to break his heart. he told me the last girl who rejected him broke his heart. and he gave me all this bs about how im the right one, and how he can't live without me.

and i'm like : you're kidding right?
he wasn't.
i'm really confused. how do i go about getting 'rid' of him in a nice way? i'm so new to this..

and i'm beginning to think maybe i led him on :/ (link)
wow, you've just perfectly described my situation.
just tell him how you feel.
yeah, the last girl that rejected him broke his heart - but obviously he doesn't feel that bad 'cause he's already moved on to you.
life's all about living it, can you really do that if you go out with him and hold back all the time 'cause you don't wanna break his heart?
what about you? its okay to be a little selfish every now and then.
as far as doing this in a nice way? just say something like, "you've told me how you feel and i think its only fair that you know i don't feel the same. you're very sweet and all, so i'm sure there are plenty of other girls that would be willing to go out with you." and if he gives you more bs about there is no other girl than you, or no other girl will even give him a second look be like, "then you haven't looked hard enough."
and whatever you do don't say, "you're just not my type," just trust me.
and i think you know better, but don't do the cliche "its not you, its me" thing.
hope i helped.


i have...
broke my foot
broke my toe
broke my right arm
broke my left arm
hyperextended my right knee and pulled the ligaments
got tendonitis in both my knees
sprained my left arm (shoulder , elbow and wrist)
and now i have a herniated disk in my back

besides the broken foot and toe all the rest happened within the last 2 years!

is something wrong with me because i cant take this anymore. im very active with sports and it seems like im getting hurt everyother week.
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you should make your bones stronger [especially since you broke most of them] but taking calcium supplements [and others] and doing bone-strenghtening exercises.
i only know this 'cause i'm in this new thing called hope, its a combination of health and pe.
you said you were active?
do you mean in school or out of school?
just ask your coach or a registered physical therapist about bone-strengthening exercises.


does anyone know any like chipmunked songs..
if you know what i mean???? like the apologize remix song... or the song on this page

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=4850568

pleeeeeeeease and thank youuuuu.

a list of songs would be greatlyy appreciatedd!
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i think what you mean is just songs that are fast forwarded.
i think you can do it on the computer, but off the top of my head i can't remember how.
i guess you could type in, "song title fastforwarded" and see what comes up.


ok i have celleaour 1 does it cost money to go on the internet (link)
yes it costs, unless you have the unlimited internet access plan.
when i go on the internet they charge me by the byte or gigabyte, or something - not by the minute.


http://a82.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/6/l_4fc7270b9e29a2a0cdb1aee01c040541.jpg (link)
first of all does it really matter what people think?
second of all this isn't exactly an advice question.
so on a scale of one to ten, i give you a seven.


hey; there are these 2 songs that i want to know the names of
they're both in the supermac18 video "the song movie" on youtube.
the first one goes
"i wanted to be like you
i wanted everything
so i tried to
to be like you
but i got swept away"
and the second one goes
"do you know what its like
when its so wrong but it feels so right
nothing in this world can stop us tonight
i can do it she can do it so much better?"
or something like that.
if anyonne knows what either are called it would be greatly appreciated! ((: (link)
you should've looked it up on google, but this time i did it for you.

the first song is "all you wanted" by michelle branch.

and i can't find the second one.


What are some tips that i can get to help me quit cramping when i run.. I will only be runnin for a minute or so and it hurts... help me plz~!? (link)
first of all warm up.
second of all drink a lot of water right before you start running.
and practice, practice, practice.
the more you run [within reason] the more time it takes for you to start hurting. [but i can't remember if that's for fatigue or cramps.]
but afterwards cool down, rest, and if you have a charlie's horse - use a heating pad on the area.


i really miss my friends yet i dont go to the same school as them. i'll probably be able to transfer there soon tho and they really want me to. it'll be great.
one of my best friends whos a year older used to be so close to me in middle school, like i love that girl so much. but now one of my other friends whos my age goes to school with her and since i dont go there they became really close. i was happy that they became friends because a year back they had problems. but now it seems like she wont like me as much or something. maybe im just really insecure and since i feel so alone sometimes i think i really am alone. but i never get jealous. not until now. i just really want to be there with them all again. i miss them so much.

my mom gets it but i dont know if my dad will let me transfer. (link)
i don't know exactly what your question is, but i'll try and answer anyways.
all you have to do is schedule a weekly routine with the both of them so you can hang out.
for example, my friend and i grew apart during middle school. there's an ice rink in my area that has a teen night on fridays, so we went there a couple of times together. and now we ALWAYS go.
we've become much closer too.


Hi,

The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.

So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.

The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.

Thanks (link)
you sound like your in your twenties and up, but i'll answer this from my point of view.
i'm fourteen.
when guys at my school wear sleeveless shirts, or plain t-shirts, i find it kind of hott.
because a lot of them have muscle and you can see all of it all the more better when they wear those kinds of shirts.
as for shorts, sometimes its cool because again with the muscles.
but otherwise, not any more than long pants.
and at the beach, where all the men are of scant dress most of my friends before physically attracted in the blink of an eye as long as they have muscle and aren't wearing super-tight speedos.
so, in conclusion, i guess any man can get away with anything as long as he has the muscle in the area he is exposing.
hope i helped.


is there any way to find out the playlist for the american eagle outfitter stores because i was there today and there was a song on that i LOVED but i cant remember the name now! (link)
i heard this one song play in one of the preppy stores, though i can't remember which one.
i didn't see it posted on the other person's answer.
aly & aj: potential breakup song.


i seem to be stressing alot lately. so much that its making me physically sick. any good ideas for getting rid of stress? thanks =) (link)
exercise.
it works, and releases endorphins that make you happy or something.
for example, i hate running.
but afterwards i feel proud of myself that i didn't die or something and on top of the world, like i could conquer anything.
and then i do all my homework. [:
hope i helped.


ok, I have a b/f. He treats me pretty good and stuff but he get so mad about most the stuff i do and acts like he never does it, although he does. we argue alot and truthfully he's not exactly the cutest guy ever. But this guy that went to my school last year and i liked him and he liked me but we never got together, started back at our school. we talk alot now and he really likes me and he's cute and sweet and funny and can always make me smile some way and i'm starting to really like him. all of my freinds think i should leave my b/f for him but i kinda dont want to but i'm scared that if i don't something will happen and i will never get another chance to be with him. HELP PLEASE!!! (link)
let's ask the obvious here.
he's a hypocrite.
if you do break up ask yourself if you would actually WANT another chance with him.

if the answer is no, break up with him and go with the other guy.

if the answer is yes, just take a 'break' and see if it works out. either to just stop seeing each other for a while, or date other people casually. do you understand that?

i'm with your friends on this one. i would totally go for the other guy.


why do boys hate it when girls cry? (link)
the same reason i don't like it when girls cry [i'm a girl].
1. they don't know how to act. its awkward.
2. they don't understand and don't want to comfort you in case you lash out ['cause girls are emotional and have mood swings].
3. they want to comfort you, but don't want to imply that they like you [if they do, or don't].
4. they don't like to see you sad, they love your smile.


this year, i may undertake the project of designing and getting the basketball student section shirts. i need a phrase or a witty saying to go on the shirts.

we're the timberwolves.
my school is SVHS. [spring valley hs]
our colors are navy, light blue, and white or silver.

i was thinking of either black or navy blue tye-die shirts, and white writing on them. our coach's name is "morrison", so i was thinking of putting something like "morrison's maniacs" on one side of the shirt, and a saying on whatever side that doesn't go on.

any help is appreciated (: (link)
i recommend NOT doing tye-dye anything. unless at your school that's a cool thing to do. [i don't see anyone wearing tye-dye at my school, and i wouldn't be caught dead with it.]

maybe a solid light blue t-shirt with metallic silver words and on the collar, edge of sleeves, and bottom rim of the shirt [do you know what i'm talking about?].

"morrison's maniacs" is creative. and i'm not a very creative person so i'll give you a few half-baked ideas:

"HEAR US ROAR!" or "RAWR." on the front, "GO TIMBERWOLVES!" on the back.

"TIMBERWOLVES BRING IT." on the front, "BE AFRAID, BE VERY AFRAID." on the back.

i hope i helped. [:


ok the problem i wrote before bout a picture abd all..well at the rec. department tonight he came.. and i think he knows i know..so what do i do...cause it looks like he is made at me..and when i left i huged a guy in front of him and said nothing..so please help....and basketball season is starting and im cheering and he is playin so mabey we could talk then?? (link)
um, well i don't know your problem. [you should give a link or something]
but from what you have here i'd just say to act normal.
if your cheering and he's playing you might not have a chance to talk to him, but maybe before and after the games.
if he gives you a chance, 'cause you said that you thought he might be mad.
i have no idea was you want to talk to him about, but i suspect it might be an awkward subject, so just be casual and break the ice.
don't forget to wish him luck for the games. [:


i need a quote for drinkin w the girlss ! thankss ;] haha. anything w college is ok too bc were in collegee ~ thankss ♥ (link)
here's the only one off the top of my head:
"act single, see double, drink triple."




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