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Physical attraction (Women answer)
Hi,
The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.
So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.
The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.
Thanks
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One of the most important aspects of sexual attraction is physical attraction. No matter how many times people tell you that “looks don't matter”, the mating rituals of human beings around the world suggest that looks do matter. The definition of a “good looking” person varies from culture to culture, however. The media also plays a big role in physical attraction between people often suggesting that one particular body type is more attractive than another, and so on. Like me for example i dont like guys if they have saggy pants on cause do we dont want to see ur crack we like guys it tight stuff so you get a glims of everything. so being atracted to your friend is not a crime. you should tell her she might have the save problems as you do my friend hoped this help
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this is completely my opinion but i think that the key to a sexy or physically attractive guy is a good pair of jeans. slightly tight around the butt but loose around the legs. sooo sexy. guys may think that girls dont look at their butts but guess what, we do. ok next thing is a slightly tight shirt. not gay tight like where you can practically see the veins through the shirt but just tight enough so you can see a guy's peck muscles. with girls/women, we like to see what you guys have without actually seeing it. like teasing us (tight jeans, shirt). understand? guys (from my opinion and point of view) are like "if you've got it then show it" so girls go out exposing absolutely everything. but no men in short shorts is not a turn on...at all. OH MAJOR THING, the cologne!! if you have a female friend then have her pick out cologne with you. i swear even ugly men can seem extremely attractive if a girl gets a wiff of some good cologne.<<thats a big deal. gotta smell good
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modelkate11
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you sound like your in your twenties and up, but i'll answer this from my point of view.
i'm fourteen.
when guys at my school wear sleeveless shirts, or plain t-shirts, i find it kind of hott.
because a lot of them have muscle and you can see all of it all the more better when they wear those kinds of shirts.
as for shorts, sometimes its cool because again with the muscles.
but otherwise, not any more than long pants.
and at the beach, where all the men are of scant dress most of my friends before physically attracted in the blink of an eye as long as they have muscle and aren't wearing super-tight speedos.
so, in conclusion, i guess any man can get away with anything as long as he has the muscle in the area he is exposing.
hope i helped.
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It really depends on the girl and what they are into. But the media has made us belive things such as men wearing releaving clothing it more so "gay" then "apealing" Now maybe wearing knee shorts and a fitting shirt might catch the eye of some girls depending on your body status. But for the most part, its really not a noticed feture.
Hope i could help. :]
(I'm just a fast typer, I realized I spelled alot of things wrong but i had to leave so I did not fix it, Thanks for the insult, when all I was trying to do is help.)
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