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I know STDs are obviously diseases and spread through sex. I was wondering if you have sex on your period if you're more prone to getting an STD of some sort? Because obviously there's blood involved and it's coming from you and they say a lot of diseases are bloodborne. I'm not going to have sex on my period though. I'm just curious about it because it makes a lot of sense to me that it would be more dangerous or whatever. (link)
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A lot of STIs are not just spread through blood, but through any bodily fluids. This includes sperm, vaginal discharge, and saliva. This is why it is possible to have STIs infect not only your genitals, but also your mouth, eyes, etc.
That being said, being on your period does not increase nor decrease your chance of getting an STI. Having open sores, cuts, etc and having unprotected sex however, DOES. It is important to know the sexual history of your partner before you get into any type of sexual situation with them. Be safe :D
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I'm thinking that I have one, but I'm not certain. There's an uncomfortable slight burning, mainly just unfomfortable feeling in my vajj. It's itchy sometimes, and burns when I piss.
I am sexually active, I was thinking it might be an allergic reaction to latex, but I'm not sure.
Go on, advicenators, do what you do. (link)
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It sounds more like a Urinary Tract Infection. You will need to see a doctor to get on antibiotics. If you wait too long, it is possible the infection will spread to your kidneys (speaking from personal experience).
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whats that rap song called that goes like "why dont i pour another shot of tequillaa" called?? its not called tequilla, its been driving me crazy (link)
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It could be "La Cantina" by Lil' Rob
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okay.
im confused
when you shave your vagina do you shave like the undernath to? like the bottom part?
and the top?
or just the top.
and do you shave bottom to top? or top to bottom?
im confusedd! (link)
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If you shave the top the idea is to shave the bottom as well. Start shaving from bottom to top, and then do it the other way. This helps because not all hair grows in the same direction so this will catch the odd hairs. Make sure to use a lot of shaving cream to avoid red bumps afterwards. :)
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Everyday I put on makeup, but as soon as it gets like towards the middle of the day, I check myself in the mirror and everything is like already off! What are some good foundations, mascara, eyeliners, and others (like concealers, or..? idk. blush, etc) that stay on all day and look gorgeous on you guys?? Thank You in advance!!! (link)
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Well I will break down my makeup routine just for some insight lol
First I put on clinique moisturizer and follow it with Clinique foundation. Their foundation goes on really well and doesn't look caked on. I follow that with Clinique pressed powder. It gets rid of shine and has extra coverage. (make sure to apply foundation and powder to your eyelids as well because it helps your eye shadow to not crease during the day)
For my eyes I use bare essentuals eyeshadow because it stays on ALL day and is really easy on the eyes. I also use their brand of blush.
For eyeliner I use smashbox cream eye liner. The cream goes on real easy and actually stays on all day and night for me. It is easier to put on than a pencil because it doesn't hurt, and it doesn't drip like liquid eyeliner can. I highly recommend it!
I use Maybelline's Volume Express Turbo Boost mascara. It really helps your eyelashes look fuller.
For lipstick I use Clinique because I love their variety of shades, but sometimes I use Mac as well :)
Hope I helped some! These products worked well for me and I hope they do the same for you!
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i took plan b last month, and my period was earlier than it usually is, and it was shorter too. is there any way that it might have messed with my next period? like will it be later....? or what? (link)
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What you have experienced this month with your period is normal after having taken Plan B. There really is no way to tell if it will mess with your next period because since it was such a big shot of hormones at one time, no one can say how long it will take to run through your system. It shouldn't be anything too drastic though if there is any kind of difference.
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does anyone know any good brands of makeup and makeup brushes besides mac? thanksss (link)
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I really love Bare Essentials and Smashbox. They are great for both makeup AND brushes!
(Smashbox has an amazing line of cream eyeliners that stay on all day, really good stuff and bare essentials makeup is all natural so it doesn't irritate your skin)
:)
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I know this is probably a dumd question, but why are clitorises hollow? like, theres a hole. whats it for? nothing comes out. im just wondering what its there for. thanks! (link)
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Well, when the clitoris is not being stimulated, it sits in between two folds of skin called the "Clitoral hood" which protects the sensitive clitoral gland. One it is stimulated during masturbation, sex, etc, the clitoris fills with blood (similar to how an erection of a penis works) and the clitoris "usually" pops out from the hood.
Women with larger hoods can often masturbate by working the hood to and fro over the clitoral glans. Women with more compact structures tend to rub the clitoral glans and hood together as one item. Sometimes the glans clitoris is too sensitive to be rubbed with the hood fully pulled back.
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Ive got awful stretch marks on my stomach, there are lots of them and they are really red, They are caused by my weight and size but i really need to do something about them they look horrible and are so embarassing. I have palmers coca butter strech mark cream but it doesnt seem to work, is there anything better that you can recommend. Im from England so if it is a product you are recommending please dont say ones that are only available in America.
Apart from using products is their anything else i can do to make them fade??
Thankyou for any help
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Well, sorry to tell you but creams really won't work. They may help them fade, but i hope you know that they will never go away, this is because a stretch mark is a tear in the deeper layers of your skin, actually of the collagen in your skin. You may try other creams with Cocoa butter, those are the only ones to my knowledge that will help them fade more.
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How long did you wait before it spread? Because I think I've had this for maybe at least 3-5 days and im freaking out.. (link)
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I waited that long. Mainly because I was afraid to tell my mom. The kidney infection showed up after i was already treated for the UTI. You really should see a doctor soon.
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Is it true that If your on birth control your body reacts like its pregnant?
I heard that somewhere and I just want verification.
Sometimes After sex i get these weird feelings...and i was wondering if its that.
thanks alot! (link)
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Birth control "tricks" your body into thinking it is pregnant. The high levels of hormones (mostly estrogen) in the pills make your body think this and because of this, you do not release an egg. So, because there is no egg being released because of the constant levels of hormones, there is no egg to become impregnated.Then, when you are on the sugar pills, your body "reacts" as if it is having a miscarriage, and you bleed, but it isnt a "real" period because no egg was there.
This is why some common side effects of the pills are the same as pregnancy: nausea, headaches, mood swings etc. It is possible what you feel is because of the pill, but if these feelings last past 3 months you should see your doctor.
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Ok well, I recently had sex and I got my period the next day. But ever since I got my period, my vagina has been hurting REALLY bad (inside of it). And it burns when I pee. I'm REALLY scared! Anyone have an idea of what it might be? (link)
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I am 98% sure you have a Urinary Tract Infection. You need to see a doctor right away before i spreads. I had one, with the same symptoms you are describing, and it spread to my kidneys becaues I waited too long and had a VERY painful kidney infection that caused me to go the ER. You will receive antibiotics and it will clear up in about a week.
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does anyone know the song playing in the commercials for showing when it comes on?
it's some girls singing. (link)
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I believe it is Janet Jackson's new song "Feedback"
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15F
All of my friends have either thought about or had sex...and i don't know what choice to make.....cause most of my friends are having sex and i don't wanna b one out of the bunch that doesnt have sex....so please help me before i make a wrong descision.. (link)
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DO NOT just do something because everyone else is doing it. Please think about it in your perspective. Do YOU want to do it? Are you okay with the possible consequences? Pregnancy, STIs, STDs, UTIs, etc. For now, I say don't. It isn't worth it. Sex isn't all it's cracked up to be, trust me :)
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I smoke marijuana and cigarettes, and I'm about to get on birth control.
I know that smoking on birth control is bad, and it increases risks of heart attack, I'm 16 years old btw. I was just wondering does it change the effectiveness of birth control. Like will it not work as well if I smoke while I'm on it. (link)
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Smoking just increases your chances of getting blood clots, which can and has caused people to have strokes, even at young ages. be careful though because blood clots on birth control are common as it is.
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How old should you be to start going down on boys?
When I was 12, I had a friend with benefits. We did everything, besides have clothes off sex. But, after we did that. I regretted it big time, and i havent done anything like that for 2 years. But now, i love my boyfriend and he wants to, you know do some stuff.
so, did you think I should?
14/f (link)
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12? You are still a child. 14 is just as ridiculous. I believe AT LEAST 18, so you are mature enough to deal with real issues that may come up where you DONT need your parents to fix it.
Whenever I read stories of kids this young is makes me so sad and I am only 20. I don't understand where kids get off thinking this is okay and that guys will like them. Please preserve your innocence. Don't try to grow up too fast, there is enough time for that later. Please.
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what does "gitchi gitchi ya ya da da" mean? (link)
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I am pretty sure it's just ad-libbing and it doesn't really mean anything.
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im a freshman in highschool
turning 15
im about 5'
[yes im short]
but i have really small boobs
i know its normal to have small boobs
especially if your a small person
but im only a 32A
and it bothers me that i cant even fit into a 34A
my other friends:
one is about 5' 2' or so
and she wears a B or C
also, i have a friend who is almost the same exact height as me
but she wears a B
it just bothers me :/
what should i do? (link)
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Well, first of all you probably don't fit into a 34A because you are skinny. The number has nothing to do with how big your breasts are, the number corresponds to the band going around your body. So if you are bigger, you have a higher number like 38 or 40, if you are skinny, you have a smaller number, anywhere from 32-36. The cup letter corresponds to how far your breasts stick out, (aka how big they are).
The thing is, is that you really can't do anything about it. Your body may just be growing slow and they may have a growth spurt later. Or, they may not. Every one is a little different, it basically has to do with genetics. You were programmed to have different sizes and shapes of everything on your body, including your breasts. Women of the same height and weight can have different sized breasts. Of course you can do something about that later if you want, but that is a whole different topic.
In the mean time, you can try either a push up bra, or a padded bra, which gives you a bit of an increase in size. It's nothing drastic though, but it's something.
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i usually shave my pubic hair every so often but it hurts when i shave it.
then when it starts to grow back it gets itchy.
does nair work?
[15/f] (link)
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Nair works, but you are advised NOT to use it on the pubic area.
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everytime i get out of the shower my hair is really tangled and is hard to brush what can i do (link)
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I would suggest using a leave-in conditioner that you put on right when you get out of the shower, you can also try a de-tangling spray that you use while you hair is wet, and it makes it much easier to brush your hair.
Or, when you put conditioner in your hair when you are in the shower, use a comb and comb the conditioner through your hair. That may help.
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