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okay well i moved to Arizona a month ago, and I was 130 pounds when i moved here, I got depressed and sick and I lost enough weight to get down to 115 in just 3 months...just a week ago I was 113, and now im 105..I eat like a PIG and i dont excersize at ALL...is there something wrong with me? Is this normal??

I rate 5's

Im sure you're fine! But if you yourself are worried about it, ask a doctor. If you eat like a pig and don't excersise at all and you still lose weight..then maybe you should see a doctor! (or ask your mom and/or dad what they think

hope this helps :)

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Okay well, im 13, and my mom and I are pretty close (kinda) I meen I tell her a little about my boyfriend here and there. But I really want to become closer with her, like be able to tell her anything that happens in my teenage life. Im scared what she will say? If she will listen and help me out, or not? What Should I Say?

--Amber--

Just ask your mom to hang out with you more often...like go see a movie with her..and shopping and different stuff like that. Or over springbreak, ask her if you guys can take a vacation somewhere. After hanging out..you guys will gradually become closer. And im sure your mom would LOVE to become closer to you..(most moms do)..with me not knowing your mom i have no clue..but im pretty sure shes not gonna shut you out and refuse to be close.. just tell her you want to be!
Hope this helps! :)

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hey !! my name's arielle and im 13 from jersey !! i have a serious problem !! ok well theres this band [not famous] and the guys in it are like 15 and 16.. and i haev a crush on one of the guys in the band.. and hes 16. the band is in pa and im in nj but we live like 6 hours apart. im gunna go to their shows tho but im worried that when i go and i meet the guy in the band i have a crush on that hes gunna think im a kid cause hes like 16 and im only 13. i feel that like hes gunna look at me as like reeeeal young and not like me in *that way*. what should i do?

If he likes you, it shouldn't matter about age! But tell him you have a crush on him, see what happens. If he doesn't like you in *that way* then forget about him! there are probably many boys that are better for you! :) Hope this helps!

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I am pretty actively involved in musical theater and have an audition coming up soon! For my audition, I need 2 sing a song, but the problem is, I am having trouble finding a good song 4 my voice. Does any1 have any song suggestions for an alto girl? (Broadway or Disney songs are preferred most by the directors, but I'm willing 4 other suggestions 2!) Thanks all!!

Umm... Colors of the wind is a good disney song and its good for an alto!! Thats really all i can think of for now, if that doesn't work, drop one in the inbox and i'll give you more once i think of them! :)

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I hate basketball. well i don't hate it i just dont like it very much. Everyonr says I should play even our school's coach but i don't know. im 5'7 so they say ill be a good rebounder or defender??? but i cant shot! i miss everything! should i play?

You shouldn't play it if you don't like it! Don't let people pressure you into things you don't like doing or that you don't want to do. But if you want to play, then you should go for it! Hope this helps!!

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okay, my ex bf had sex with this girl like 3 yrs younger than him about 6 months ago, she gave it up to him really easily, they werent even going out or nething..then he asked her out like 2 months later..but then he broke up with her after like acouple weeks..now i hear that they are back together as "fuck buddies"..do u think he really likes her, or is just using her?

What do you think? "fuckbuddies" should pretty much explain it, Hes using her!!

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ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared

You should DEFINATELY tell a grown up! he probably does that to many other girls that are too scared to tell anyone, so tell someone!! Its not like its your fault, so you shouldn't be scared to tell anyone. Hope this Helps and im really sorry this has happend to you!

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what kind of aim were you talking about with the log manager? how can i get it? and does it cost money? xoxo ME

well Im not sure if it costs now, you usually have to get it when it first comes out for it to be free, but its dead aim, and go to www.aim.com and search for it! Hope This helps!

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Hi ! i was just wondering how to get your hair straighter with a straightener .. and how much CHI straighteners cost.

I was also wondering how to get your hair in cute small equal waves with out the frizz .. kinda like the way Jennifer Aniston wears hers.

and i can't get it professionally done .. so dont tell me to do that.

To make it straigthen better, use a REALLY small amount of gel, and rub it into your hands and put in your hair, but make sure you don't have a lot, then straighten it. The straightener I have cost about 100 $ if that helps any, but most don't cost nearly as much as that!

To get the frizz to go away, use a frizz free surum

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I've seen people talking about AIM Conversation Logs where you can read conversations you've had over AIM...If that makes sense...

How do you do that?

you have to have a certain kind of aim, if you have this you should be able to go to 'my aim' on your buddylist and it will say 'log manager' and click on that... All of your conversations will show up. Hope this helps..

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im soooo bored, do you know any sites i can go to to keep me occupied? not BORED.COM cause ive already been there. thanks alot

www.funnyjunk.com
www.jokefunny.com

or just go to jesterx17's advice column, hes quite funny

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okay well im 13 years old and all of my firends have made out with a boy.. I never have... its really weird... my best friend since forever and I WERE the only ones who hadnt made out with a guy untill she went out with this kid joe... so now im the only one who hasnt... and everytime im going out with someone and the subject comes up i get really nervous... idk im just really scared to show affection... like I will hug my boyfriend without a problem but when it comes to holding hands and kissing im scared... i have been kissed but never made out... i know what to do but at the same time i dont please help me!

Kati

If you're not ready to make out, its not that big of a deal. Not everyone makes out at age 13, so its fine. You don't have to do everything your friends do either, so do it when YOU are ready, not when your friends are ready. Hope this Helps!

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is it possable to get pregnant before you get your first period?

Nope!

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I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?

You were wrong with staying with him the first time, but you're not wrong for being his friend.

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okay my boyfriend told me this shocking news a few days ago that he stills loves me but he is in love with his elementery school crush. I usually give advice but this time i don't know what to do. he asked me if we could have a break from each other and i said okay. we talk every single day and he says he loves me still but the only reason he let me go for now was because "his past was hurting his future" which means his crush was hurting our realationship. he wanted to know if i would take him back and i am still thinking about it what should i do...?

If he still has a crush on someone, maybe you should wait and see what happens with them, i dunno about you, but i wouldn't want to go out with someone that likes another girl. But, if you really love and trust him, then take him back! Hope this Helps!

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thyz iz a dumb ? but how do u keep frum gettin shaver burnz on ur legz?

use shave gel.. and shave carefully.. and NEVER EVER shave without anything on your legs. Hope this helps... xoxo-megan

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my friend moved out of town and i talked to her friend (boy)and hes really nice and he sent me a picture and hes really hott!!! hehe is it a bad idea to go out with him? cuz he likes me and i like him!
((hopeless))

If you like him and he likes you, then no its not a bad idea. Just make sure your friend doesn't have feelings for him, and make sure she won't get mad. Hope This Helps!

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i have this white stuff in my underwear.. what is it?! kthnxbye

...taste it.. find out yourself..

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my friends were all at a party.. and they started talking smack about some ppl they didnt like... these happend to be my friends.. so i just sat there and didnt say anything.. later i went and told my friends what others were saying .. and now some ppl are mad at me.... i meean shouldnt they be careful about who there talking crap about... well i apoligized and told um sorry.. but there still mad... plus get this.. last time someone was talking shti at a party it was about me.. and im glad someone told me... so waht do i do...? signed tell the truth?

~*a*M*y*~

You did the right thing by not taking part in it, and by telling them. Who cares if they get mad at you, they shouldn't be the ones mad, they were the ones who were being jerks!! And you didn't need to apologize, you were looking out for your friends and thats the right thing to do. Hope this helps!! :) xoxo-me

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Well I've had a crush on my friend's brother for a while now. I'm pretty sure he's into me too, but he's older and I don't want to make things weird. Should I tell him how I feel or just wait until I'm older?

It doesn't matter if you wait until your older, or if you do it now, cuz he's still gonna be older than you. Tell him how you feel, you'll never know if he likes you, unless you tell him how you feel! :) Hope i helped, if you need anything else, drop one in the inbox!

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