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hey !! my name's arielle and im 13 from jersey !! i have a serious problem !! ok well theres this band [not famous] and the guys in it are like 15 and 16.. and i haev a crush on one of the guys in the band.. and hes 16. the band is in pa and im in nj but we live like 6 hours apart. im gunna go to their shows tho but im worried that when i go and i meet the guy in the band i have a crush on that hes gunna think im a kid cause hes like 16 and im only 13. i feel that like hes gunna look at me as like reeeeal young and not like me in *that way*. what should i do?
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wouldnt you like a relationship thats close at hand? a guy to cuddle with and talk to in person that doesnt live so far away? and hes in a band.. alot of girls are probably gunna want to be with him just for that reason. in my view i dont think you should get involved. older guys seem to want to take advantage of the younger girls. and if he thinks your young thats cuz you are. 16 and 13 and 6 hour distance isnt the best way to go. find someone better around your area.. or wait and play it single
<3 good luck
Brandi
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Hey, it can happen. My guy is 16, and I'm 13, so it's not impossible.
~Laura~
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So uhm, you've neveR met these people in peRson, I'm gatheRing?? Have you talked to them on the phone?? If not, you *Really* ought to. Also, you Really shouldn't woRRie about them thinking you'Re a "kid", because you should have alReady pRoven to them that you'Re not.... that makes me wondeR how well you know them... If you insist you know them well, then I'm shoRe they alReady have a foRmed opinion on that issue. No woRRies - you'll be fine. Hope I helped!!
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1st, I live in PA. Where in? second guys like younger girls. But don't let him take advantage of you. He's not gonna see you as a girl with taffy and a hoolahoop. He'll probably see you as a crazed fan, unless they're a VERY underground band. If they aren't go for guys who aren't famous. People who you know, that means no more colin farrell.
One more thing be yourself. If you have to be overly mature you're being someone your not. If he doesn't like you, well come find me I live in PA and single (just kidding). There's plenty of fish in the sea.
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Well 13 is young, im 16 about to turn 17 and i think 14 and younger women are really immature even though they think they arent. when i was 14 i went out with a gurl that was 12, 2 yrs younger, she was so immature even though she was about to turn 13, in order for her to get my attention she threw ice cubes at my face, and her sister said thats some sort of way of saying that she likes me, just forget about this guy u like and wait till ur older, u have ur whole life ahead of u.
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Well i was basically in the same situation you are in..i didn't think that he would call me a kid, but he did. Okay me n my friend are both 15 n we went driving with 18-19 year olds n i never met the 19 year old..he talked wit his buddy n told me that i was a kid n looked like one..he was totally hot n everything...later on when we got to talk n stuff...he thought i was cool n thought of me in that way...well just tell him that you are 14 if you want too but not if you dont like telling a fib n then just if he tells you are a kid then just be like you gotta get to know me before you judge me.
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If he likes you, it shouldn't matter about age! But tell him you have a crush on him, see what happens. If he doesn't like you in *that way* then forget about him! there are probably many boys that are better for you! :) Hope this helps! <3 xoxo
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1- he may do that...but to tell u sumthin..my sister's friends call me a *kid* and im 14 and they're 18...so yeah..and even my sis' bf's friends do the same thing and they are 2 years older then my sis..so lets just call them *jackasses* lol
2- you cant make him like you in *that way*...so there really isnt anything you could do about it..and you dont know but mayb he has a girlfriend and doesnt want to open the 411 to the public or mayb he has his eye or sum1..u dk- hoped I helped
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He might feel that way..cuz a lot of guys want girls their age or one year younger..but hopefully he wont. If he doesnt see you for you..then it isnt worth it.Dont do anything but be yourself! :)
-melissa-
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