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umm.. Im a 13 year old girl and i wiegh 135 and i do alot of sports and i dont know what to do (link)
muscle weighs more than fat


is anybody here from BUDDYPIC? Ok well I am and I try to upload this one pic so many times but it just won't work. It always says, THIS PIC IS TOO SMALL, I don't understand. If you are familier with BuddyPic or you can fix my picture, could you PLEASE drop one in my box - sshelbyy Thanks! (link)
im in buddypic and yeah i had that prob try making it bigger i have a program on my comp that makes it bigger or try gettin a new photo


im a 15 year old guy. since i was 7 i wanted a serious relationship where id meet a girl in high school and marry her. now im in high school. i met a girl. and id love to marry her. but she doesnt like to think about commiting. i dont know what to do about. how to approach it. i wanna know if it can work between us, i wanna know if she could love me like i love her, eventally to the point where id be with her forever... (link)
wow you sound so sweet just give her sometime.. it'll help trust me


hey im a 13/f/8th grade..i think my teenage life if guna suck! my mom wont let me get a cell till im 17..i cant go shopping or go to the movies without a parent with us (and and my friend) till im in tenth grade..i cant get my eye brows waxed till who knows when..i cant get contacts till im like 17 (i want them really bad cause guys say i look really hot without glasses..but if i dont wear them i cant see anything!) im not allowed to bring a guy friend over..im not allowed to hang around with my friendds to much (only once or twice a week)..i have to clean the house even if no one is coming over..and im only alowed to stay on the computer for an hour (even though i dont listen to that) . im not allowed to get new school closthes..i have to keep the clothes i have for 2 or 3 years (and we are not poor)i have NO FUN! no matter what i try to do..and please dont say sit down and talk to ur mom (my dad would let me do these things..its up to my mom)because i get yelled at for mentioning those things..WHAT CAN I DO TO HAVE A N O R M A L teenage life????? (link)
well... i know that my parents didn't start giving in untill this year.. but they were never as protective as urs... just explain to them why u want all these things.. they should understand.. but since you say that they don't try proving to them that ur more independent and everything believe me that should work.. hope it helped


sum guy led me on and i liked him for 2 yrs but hes a big ass flirt n he changed a lot i cant talk to him i love him um how do i get over him? PLEASE HELP ME ILL JUST GIVE OUT 5S ILL DO WHATEVER IM IN SERIOUS PAIN I SERIOUSLY CONSIDER CUTTING MYSELF BUT IM TOO SCARED SO IK I WONT PLEASEEEEEE HELP


thanx (link)
I had this happen to me once.. All you have to do is try to forget about it.. i know it will be EXTREMELY hard but its the best thing.. maybe get your eyes set on someone else.. you never know it could help


My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
ask him are u sure u know this for sure? u don't want to do anything drastic.. i mean just ask it can't hurt more than crying for 3 days...


Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
**RR**
rate fives to who ever helps mee! (link)
I use to be in something like this.. but one day she came up to me and was like this whole thing is gay and i want to be friends so i told her she could not do anything she did to me be4 or give me bad attitude or else we would go back to enemies.. and now were really good friends.. u should try it


before my ex-bf asked me out my class was on a felid trip. we went ot a resturant and my n' my ex-bf sat next to each other. by the end of our lunch we were holdin hands n' sittin really close. but that was even before he asked me out. then after he dumped me it was like none of that ever happened and he never liked me. it makes me sad bcuz now that we are broken up we dont talk at all...we talked so much before...so what do i do? (link)
he doesn't sound worth it.. any guy who uses u should feel the pain it causes.. the best thing would be to get over it and just u know rub it in his face that ur fine with out him Confidence is key.. hope it helps


what is the normal/ideal weight for a girl that is 5'8 and is 14 years old? (link)
its like between 130-150 it is a wide range


i'm 17 and never kissed anyone, how pathetic is that? the thing is, it's not like i'm ugly or anything because i know many people who have liked me or would've kissed me, but i don't want to make things weird between my guy friends by doing anything with them and the other guys who have liked me are not exactly top rate...another thing is that i never even tell people who i like cuz i don't want to be embarrassed...i don't know what i'm waiting for - someone who i feel comfortable with?? the perfect person who doesn't exist? i'm not the kind of person who would do things just to make myself appear cooler but as i get older it just gets more embarrassing to say i've never kissed anyone (link)
you should be proud i would be.. theres no reason to be embarrassed.. So what you've never been kissed i would think thats pretty cool that your not just ganna give stuff like that away just to act cool or whatever..


okay so the usa cup is goin on in mn and since im a mayjor fan of socca im down tehre like everyday and the cup is a mayjor spot to find some really hottie hot hot guys there. and im really horny so i wanna meet some hotties but i don't knoe how to catch their attention or how to start a convo with them so will you please gimme some tips? asap cuz the usa cup is almost over
please
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i found the funniest way to meet a new guy go up to him and just use a cheesey pick up line and just laugh it off with them.. it helps get u more comfortable i figured


ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!! (link)
talk to ur x boyfriend about it just be like i know ur not mine anymore but i still have feeling for u and seeing u with my bestfriend just crushes me i know she likes u and i want her to be happy and i want u to be happy but i can't help feeling this way about the whole thing.. hope it all works out


well i have/had this friend we grew apart and i noticed now that she had been lieing to me about certain things but i just forget about them since im not her close friend anymore. and with my previous b/f, whenever she would find out something about MY relationship with MY b/f @ tha time she told EVERYONE and it wasnt n e of her business. sumtymes i miss her then other tymes i just hate her and wish she would leave me alone. she talks to my boyfriend a lot because her soon-to-be boyfriend is my boyfriend's friend. everytime my boyfriend and her start talking i feel really pissed and i dont know that to do. i mean he can be her friend its just that i always get a bad feeling considering she was my bestfriend and now she thinks she can "flirt" with my boyfriend that i have now that and she did with my pervious boyfriend. i dont know what to do. (link)
talk to her about it its not right for u to do that at all flirting with another girls guy is just wrong those i can say alot of girls do it mostly out of smite to the other girl.. just tell her how u feel about it it all should end up fine hope it helps


okay so i was at this socca turny and i met this boy he really wasnt soo cute but he was really really sweet and he spoke spanish so i really didn't have much to say to him but he was all putting his arm around me and all his freinds thought that i was like his gf but really i wasn't and then when he had to leave he was all like can i get a kiss so i was just gonna peck him on the cheek but when i went in he like turnd his face and went for my lips and then he like all pulled me closer and all and then he opend his mouth to french me and all and i wanted to make out with some one but not really him so for a second i was into it and then a sec later i pushed him away and now my friend is all making fun of me cuz i made out with some guy i didn;t even like! and i think that she is totally right! i mean i just met him and all and now i can't stop thinking about it! and i totally regret it! idk wut to do. he prolly thinks im his gf now so if i c him he'll prolly wanna talk to me and kiss me again when really i don't wanna talk to him again.
please help (link)
it was a quick thing.. it ment nothing to you.. but to him who knows will you really ever meet the kid again?? and if u don't like it don't let it happen if u don't wanna talk to him then don't people can't make you do anything u don't want to do.. even if they pull u tight to them.. and your friend are being kinda lame talking about it tell them just not to remind u of it they should stop.. hope it helps


when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate! (link)
ask them about them self get to know them it will help


I'm addicted to taking pictures of myself, i have lyke over 400 recent pics. All of my friends lyke always say that I'm lyke conceited or that I'm in love with myself, but I honestly think their just jealous!...what should i lyke do?!@#$^&!? (link)
People always say u have to love urself be4 u can get loved... so u love urself there NOTHING wrong with that..


Ok... theres a guy i dated and ... i broke up with him lik 2ce ~ only cause the first time was because i was scared to put my heart in sum1s hands again... but we got thru that and got back together... and the 2nd time was because everyone got in the way and i was really confused about everything and so i jus ended it cause i didnt kno what was going on... i finnaly realized i shouldnt let people get n the way... and that i really trusted this guy... and i kinda want him back... we both admitted we still love each other... but he dont want to get back with me yet... he said why would he wanna jump into it cause hes scared id break up with him again... and i dont kno how to prove that i wouldnt... i dont really know where me and him stand... we still talk all the time... last night we talked about some of our good times and he was lik i dont lik to think about it cause then it makes me want it ... and im lik well whats wrong with wanting something... and hes all idk... so im so confused should i wait for him?... should i just give up and say its over... cause me and him had something ive never had before... he was different from all the other guys... he gave me this feeling... idk... this advice girl needs some advice... wanna lend a helpin thought?... (link)
make sure he knows that you want to make things work out between you two.. you might want to give it all some time and just tell him how you feel about everything then let him think about it all.. hope it helps


Help some one i really fancie my paper boy and hes sooo cute but the problem is im really shy and dont want to talk to him,Can anyone thing of another way to let him no i fancey him?
thank you roxie
ps ill rate you if you help
pps PLEASE HELP (link)
if u really don't want to talk to him.. write him a letter it may help he would know how u felt and u wouldn't have to talk to him.. but sooner or later ur ganna have to talk to him.. hope it works out


my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
tell anyone! not talking about it does worst


well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx (link)
trust is a hard thing once its gone it takes a long time to get it back if the other person is willing.. but this one guy should havent had all ur trust.. Your parents have ur trust too.. so you still have trust in people but just not enough.. Make sure u know all about this guy and u can even tell him that u have hard time trusting so he will know that... hope it helps




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