i am 14 and a girl and there is this guy i really like he is 15 and i met him because of my best friend made me,she is 14, and when i first met him i didn't like him but now i really do.But the thing is that he had a thing for my friend and i think he still dose but my friend has a boyfriend and he knows that,i don't think he knows i like him but my friend will sometimes flirt with him, she dosen't know i like or that she is flirting. that bugs me should i tell him that i like him and tell my friend that i like him . i don't know what i should do??
u should defffinlty tell your friend you like him. 1. cuz she already has a boyfriend and 2. because you dont liek the "flirting" thats going on =]
and after you shouldnt tellt he guy right away that you like him leave him clues. flirt a little. you know let things go its natural way. dont go to him let him come to you that way he will have time to forget your friend and move on to you =] hope i helped
xox Y&B xox
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I think Im over him but Im not sure... Somedays I can't stop thinking about him.. Somedays I don't think about him.. How do I knw If I am REALLY over him??
well it depends on how long you 2 went out because i myself have had your experience so your not over him and again on the amount of time u 2 go out and how he treated is all up 2 you but i know that for a facta fter a break that and a relationship that was really good you wont be over him but yes as time goes by you will foret about him and you to might become really good friends after that hope i helped =]
~ babiieee x0x0 ~
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so me and my boyfriend are going to have sex i know it. but i'm afraid it will be awkward because we have the cute loving kissy type of relationship. i usually never have boyfriends and i'm pretty sexual so this is different for me. i like him a lot...
so my question is how can i make it not awkward during sex?
It honestly cant be akward because once you get going you dont really stop..and it shouldnt be akward beacuse if you already have that cute lovey relationship ..trust me it wont be akward ...just let it go all smoothly and take it step by step! IT WASNT AKWARD for anyonei would no beacuse i had sex to the first time and i was like all oh my god what if this that...it all just goes down in its place once you start =) lol
hope i helped
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15/f okay so on friday (10/17) ill be going out w/ my bf for like a month. we havent kissed or anthing yet i mean we hug but we dont like hold hands or anything like that yet, evne though i realllyyy want to. i guess you can say that were not really the type of ppl that will go around making out w/ eachother in the middle of the hallway. i just dont know what to do. he tells my friends that he is too nervous to make a move or anything but like i dont want him to feel like that i want him to be comfortable w/ me. should i say something, should i wait it out a little bit? i mean we havent hung out yet because ive been grounded and hes been going away for the weekends. i like him so much. and another thing im worried about is that he only likes me because he thinks im hot. pleaseee hellp!
Ok Sweety a MONTH! and NO KISSING yea..ok well thats gotta change his defftnly not gonna make the first move for that its wayyyy to late for that! so ou need to do something the next time you to hang out, like for exapmle get really close to him, touch his hand, smile, flirt alot, get close to his face, touch his face, play around stuff like that! so try it it should work
next thing about that he likes only because your hott...that cant be true you know why he hasnt kissed you yet and its one month so sweety this guys defftnly isnt in just for the game =)
~Y&B~
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I just want to know..
Is it wrong or mean to not tell my friends about me having sex?
I've never been the girl that tells her friends EVERYTHING..mostly because i just feel like its MY business. My friends are very very judgemental and they'll talk about it with other people. They have HUGE mouths. So yes, i don't want them talking about my personal business with eachother. I wish i could tell them and they would just say "Okay." and not talk about it. But..even if i begged them to do that..its just not going to happen. I really love them to death but..telling them things is not something i'm comfortable with. So, really, is it wrong that i don't tell them???
nope dont stress over it ,....sometimes even ur best friends are asswholes lol..trust me i know i have them to! and sharing your business w. hem is your own choice..and ofourse its uncomfrotable when people disucss your life no one likes that. Think of it this way if theres any1 one else that you can think of trusting with your personla stuff then you should talk to them...most perferable a guy friend like a very good guy friend..there always listen and understand you wayy more then your girlfriends will =) hope i helped
~Y&B~
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there are some upperclassmen guys (i'm a sophmore girl) that i think are really attractive and nice and would like to get to know better, but i dont know how. they have the same free period as i do, but i cant just like randomly go up to them and say hi and sound like a freak. what should i do?
Sophmore year for me was the best! and easy!..sweety you need to show some interest such as a little gelnce now and then, mabbi some looking (but make sure he catches you looking) once in a while..when he knows something is up give a smile lol..after that not much just keep doing that..sooner or later hell have to talk to you GIVE SOME HINTS trust if your as attractive as u say you'll have no problem doing that =)
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15/f.
ive made out with like 7 guys since my first kiss right before i turned 14. and each time my best friend hadnt been watching and most times she wasnt with me when it happened. but one time, her and her bf and i went to the movies and they brought a guy for me and she wanted us to hook up so bad and she was trying to make me kiss him but i felt weird with her there right next to me cause i know she would be watching. i wasnt nervous about kissing the guy. i know i shouldnt care that she watches but i do. like she was so into me hooking up with guy(oh she wasnt like staring the whole time either, they would glance over for a little then go back) how can i get over this "fear" of having people watch me when i makeout with a guy?
Well u know i did that alot to...that feeling of oh my god what if someone sees me..and yea sometimes that fear doesnt go away...and honestly i still have it, you really cant do much xcept learn that know body cares..after all they might even wish they could have a lucky guy relationship like you do. Once you start making out in public the fears just goes away the more you do it..and dont b afraid iff every1 else dont give a crap about it why should you? lol its not bad just try it ..and keep doing it sooner or later it will deffntly go away!
~RESPOND BACK ID LOVE TO HEAR MORE~
*Y&B*
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well i think i like this boy buti'm not sure because i talk about him a lot with my friends and my parents say i can't date him but i really want to. i went out with him once already and i actully kissed him but the thing is we are not together and he tries to protect me to much like if i talk to another boy he gets mad or if it's my offit. but i thgink he likes me.what should i do?
you can do 2 things in this situation
1; you can secretly date him and not tell anybody...and just if your parents ask you were you going say your going out with your fiedn(name) ..lol so they wont think anything.. or...
2: tel you pareants and friends the truth and sya that you really like himand explaint o him what about him you like and everything so upt o you really =)
xoxo Y.b good Luck!
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so ive liked this guy for a very long time and i started liking him bc he started giving me hints that he liked me...so we started becoming friends and close enough that we text each other about once a week or so. now i thought he was going to ask me and soon and then the most popular girl in my grade is in our math class and she has no friends so she sits up front next to the class nerd.anyways i sit next to the guy i like and diagnal (or however u spell it) from him is of course that girl and she has only done little flirty things like write her name all over his binder. so today at the end math class when we were handing in our papers she walks up to him and puts her hands around him as if she was slow dancing and i couldnt handle watching it but he didnt do anything back but have the biggest smile on his face. he didnt put his hands on herthank god. put when the bell rang she put her arm around him and walked all the way down the hall like that and he did the same thing just smile...so anyways what should i do because i cant watch her do this any longer..on day was hard enough and i wanna text him saying something like..ohh what happened with you after math class today but idk what to do..plz help..thx in advance :)
haha young love...( dont owrry im young to) lol but that really cute your jeloius and its normal since oyu like himalot if seems ..hehe so just chil out and heres what you shoudl do:
1. you can fire with fire and do the same thing back to him and make him like you more..and oyu have his number so yea umm TXT him!! hhaa his your man not hers ..you saw him first wow...
2.you can just tlak to him about it and ask him out ( dont no mgiht be helping a little)
3. wait and see what happens ( but carefull with this one you wait to short might not be good eougn wait to long might be late ...
so i sugject you try what ever you want ..
xoxo y.b good Luck! any othe rquestions dont hesisitae to ask =)
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i feel really bad. today my boyfriend came over and we were making out and he started kinda fingering me over my pants..i didnt let him go in them..but hes never done it before and it HURT! at first he was gentle then he started like jamming them and his nails were hurting me and i was like whoa stop be gentle and he stopped and then a few mins later he started doing it again and i didnt wanna hurt his feelings and be like IT HURTS! because that would make him feel REALLLY REALLY guilty because he cares about me alot. i'm crazy about him but now my crotch is really sore its like the right inside part of the lip is hurting so bad and i dont know what to do or how to tell him next time. also, i feel that things are happening too fast. im waiting to have sex, thats not the problem, its just htat i planned for all this to happen way later on and i know he loves me for who i am thats not the problem i just wanna start spending more time actually talking to each other and cuddling rather than always ending up doing this. (not that i dont like it but you know) sorry this is kinda 2 questiosn in one but any help is needed.
well answeres is hat your gonna get hehe,,,,i know how you feel exatly have the same problem only doest hurt..it just it moving to fast for me...what you need ot do ..and the only thing to do is to tell him about it..dont sya liek yea wel i hateds your figerign me hha say can we spaend the day just watchign movies and dont bring up anythignsexua l and if he starts just say im not in the mood right now..or just pull awya before he doesn aything and just say lets watch the movie and right after cuddle up right next to him andmake feel not bad but happy....and jst watch the movie if his a smart boy hell et the fact that you just wanna see ht emovie or just hang out beaucse its not always should you guys be sexualy active..any othe r qesutions dont hesistate to ask =)
xox y.B good Luck!
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okay well i'm sexually active, but still a virgin. so theres this one little bump right above my clit, but not on it, and it like hurts when I push on it. I was wondering if its anything I should worry about?
yea you should worry about it ..its sound weird but im sure nothing that bad..but you deffintly take notice and ask about it .dont no what it is but ists not good.,,.just get it checked out
any toher questions dont hesistate to ask
xox Y?B good Luck!
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i know this is kinda a weird question but what does sex feel like? for a girl? once you get past the pain part-i mean the good part lol. and no im not planning on having sex just wondering what makes it so great. thanks :)
well the thing that makes sex the bets part is the feeling you get..this might sound gross but when the penis enters it feels relly good like ou feel pleasure liek the sensation you get when you toch it yourself altho its the pleasure of someone els eoding it....you feel orgasmic..adn its just the way the guy touches you and inserts it in and out ..cant realy explainil you eel it ..but its just liek what i said ..hoepe i helped =)
any other questions dont hesitate to ask =)
xoxo y.b good Luck!
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Can two kids: one boy and one girl go to the movies as freinds anymore??! Not according to my parents, they said one thing leads to another and i even assured them we were just friends.Trust me on this one, i would never ever think of my friend ted as anything more then a friend. Were like best freinds! But i dont think he will understand. My parents think im too young to be ging to the movues with boys alone. they said maybe a group of friends might work.
im just so confused ive tried everything. please help me
well first how old r u? you should really specify..and im guess 13..14 lol ok well why dont you ask a friend to go wih you just aone friend.and tell your mom a friend is going and even have her call her mom or somehting adn say my child is going i dont no..go with one friend or bring liek (if you have a sis) if you want to go that badly the only way is to bring someone =)
xoxo Y?B GOOD LCUK!
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16/f
Hey,
To begin with, I have an alright school, its not the school its more the people in it. I'm not a negative person, but I have no friends in my school. You either have to be a prep to fit in, a sports person to fit, etc. You basically have to be a certain "thing" to fit into any group. I don't fit in here. So I plan to, at the end of this school year to move away. The only thing then is that if I move, what if I don't make any friends? I'm not REAlly worried, but I'm just thinking 'what if it's no better away from here?' everyone always says "there's more out there"... What do you think?
There is mroe out there ..and i know this what eveyrone would say.."doont worry youll make friends" lol and there right beacuse you will ..its just impossible to have no friends at all you have too have somebody..and at you new shcool your gonna fiind somebody just be yourself ...and somebudy will son be your friend..think about it if your talkitive just be like hey my name is w.e...or say soehting liek canib row a pnsila dn at the end of callss be like yes thanx or osmehting im w.e/....lol good luck!
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I have this friend who says that he likes me and he wants our relationship to move forward. He's a good guy and I do like him, but I am in a complicated long-distance relationship. We decided to try to have an open relationship, but I know he hasn't been with any other female because he's not like that. He's a one woman's guy and I respect that a lot and me... I want to be with just him. I should've known this distance thing would eventually catch up to me. Now, I'm stuck trying to figure if I should just tell this friend "I can't", "no" or if I should give it a try. We really like each other, but somehow I still feel like I'd be cheating eventhough I was told it was alright. I just don't know what to do.
18/f
Mabby you should tell our partener about it that he will know and you wont feel as guilty...and if he said it ok then its ok your not cheating...just tell him about it and tell him that he can make him no that he can as well go out and have a realtionship..but it might be hard when he gets back to you to try to stop your relationship with the other man so you must think about this carefully.....any other questions?? dont hesitate to ask...good luck!
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sigh, ok sorry if this is long...
alright so you know how once you get something you want, things change? let me be specific. Here is what you need to know:
I'm 17
I got out of a long relationship a year ago.
Since then, I haven't been with another guy
I was sick of being in a relationship basically.
It was great for a year but then i wanted to get out there again, on a certain level.
I just wanted to have fun, nothing serious.
Now, i had this guy friend for two years and he would always flirt with me, even when I had a boyfriend. I liked him, he was fun and cute and very chill, however i could never picture us together as more than friends, even though i found him attractive. OK also at the time my best friend had a HUGE crush on him so...
But that was last year. Since then i broke up with my boyfriend and my best friend not only got over him but she also moved three hours away. So when i started feeling like i wanted to have fun, i thought of him as the perfect candidate. I talk to my best friend still and when i told her she told me to watch out because he might really like me and want a relationship. I just let things go their natural way and he ended up coming over my house one day to watch a movie, but we hooked up instead. The thing is before he asked i told him the truth- i dont want anythings serious. He said yeah me either so it was ok.
Now the problem:
I started feeling like maybe it wasnt the smartest thing to do. He said he was single but i didnt really make sure he was. truth is i have no idea, he flirts with a lot of girls. then i started thinking he was a player and i was OK with that because after all, i just wanted to have fun too. I dont know, like i said, things change. I started doubting myself on whether it was ok... So now finally the questions:
1. Was it ok to do what we did?
2. Is it ok to keep doing it because id be up for it still. I like him but not enough to get involved so i thought it was perfect.
3. Should I tell my best friend (we kinda promised to tell each other everything but this...I dont know)
Anyone who can help me figure this out, I appreciate it!
Thanks! =]
Well sounds like a great deal of fun...haha well i guess it might have been ok to do what you guys did beacuse before anything you both agreed on what both of you wanted so yea it was ok...Mabby its not ok to continue doing it beacuse one of you might start to like each other alot and then not like the agreement and the fact that you both are fliritng with *other* people ...beacuse there might be fight about that later..on the other hand if your sure you wont like him and that your cool with what ever the whole filritn thing then sure continue as mcuh as you want..BUT make SURE you WONT fall for him =) and yes you should tell your best friend since you guys promissed and proomisses are promisses and plus theres a reason you call her your *best friend* so tell her ..i think she desreves to know and who knows mabby shell help you out even more...she is the one that porbably knows you pretty good =) ..so hope i helped ..=) any other questions dont hesitate to ask me
xoxo Y>B good LUck!
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Im so confused right now! So I like this guys at school but my friends make fun of him for some reason. And he doesnt like my friends. I think hes mad at me too because i say hi and he stares at me and walks away. and my mom hates him cause hes a trouble maker. He hates Iowa because he just moved here. I try to get his attention and it kinda works. What should i do so hell talk to me?
Well at first theres nothing confusing about this lol...yo could try to make your friends stop making fun of him and start being nice to him and saying hi to him in the hole ways so that mabby he hates IOWA because he doesnt have alot of friends...and i thik he likes you to only he doesnt know it yet.so first try covonsicing everyone of what kind of guy he is so that they can all stop and start being nice to him ,then thats when you com in everyday just say hi to him in the whole way ans in you have any classes wiht him in try to make some eye contact and and some flirty smilies ..sooon he bound to talk to you in some ways lol
xoxo Y>B good Luck!
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My bf and i are thinking about having sex both our first time were 16 im a bit nervous about that it will hurt a lot a friend of mine said it didnt hurt to much for her her bf has a small penis my boyfriends penis is about average size does it hurt that much could it depend on how big a guys penis is?
well yes it does depend on how big the guys penis is beasue the bigger the wider it will be for it to go in. So it wil of ourse heurt you more then it did to your friend..haha First times always hurt...so goof luck an dhave fun =)
xoxo Y>B
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haha lollll..
yeah my friends get pissed at me for this
and tlel me im gonna get rappped but..
through myspace .lol..
but like ive met him and stuff
so its all good haha
how bout youu?
well mines worse..haha not myspace but night club..this how it looked
grind...MAKE OUT..grnd...MAKE out and that happend for about 20 minutes and he asked for my number and we were planning to see each other and stuff but i dont some how when ever he says his gonna come over im like (scared ) haha..so i dont no ill just see what happens hehe....but dont you feel like when he says i love you its like he doesnt mean it ..but it sounds like he does but i tno he doesnt cuz i knew him for about a h week now.. now..
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thanks fo helping mee.
and yeah atleast someone understands how i feel.
hes so sweet and everything and like when im talking to him im all happy and when im not its like goddamnit haha
but i havent talked to him since like 330 and its almost 9 :[ and it sucks.
i wanted to ahngout with him today and hes like i cant and i think its cuase hes hanging out with his friends
and of course his friends are those girls..
so im all gya and worried cause idk if hes doing shit behind my back
but like i dont think he is casue he gets all concerned and yesterday when we were talking hes like youll never hurt me right and im like never ever and im like i hope you never hurt me and hes like never no matter what
and he told me before if i ever lie im gone cuase he hates liers and thats what makes me think hes being true to me and not doing other shit and sutff but idkkk.
i hate when i get like this haha
but yeah thanks for listeninggg :]
ugh..yea...tell me about me about he just txted me sayin if i mind if goes out tonight an dim like no ...and told him that im **busy** and not to txt till 11ish haha..so yea he tells me the same..he goes like yea u never gona hurt me and im liek no...and im liek never gonna hurt me he says no...god and its like we cant trust them Beacuse we dont see them.....i know it does suck ....so if you dont me asking...how did u guys meet??
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