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Telling my friends
I just want to know..
Is it wrong or mean to not tell my friends about me having sex?
I've never been the girl that tells her friends EVERYTHING..mostly because i just feel like its MY business. My friends are very very judgemental and they'll talk about it with other people. They have HUGE mouths. So yes, i don't want them talking about my personal business with eachother. I wish i could tell them and they would just say "Okay." and not talk about it. But..even if i begged them to do that..its just not going to happen. I really love them to death but..telling them things is not something i'm comfortable with. So, really, is it wrong that i don't tell them???
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Of course not, even though they are your best friends, if they will tell everyone, you probably shouldn't say anything, unless your comfortable with it. I have a bunch of best friends, but my true best friend, honestly i wouldnt tell him, at least not right away. i love him but i think it would just be weird. So if you don't want to, then its not weird that you don't tell them. Unless you have a problem and need someone to talk to. Sex is personal. You have a right to tell or not tell people stuff... If you ever need more advice, message me.
xoxChels
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As you said, its your business, not theirs.
It is perfectly within your rights and privileges to not tell people you can't trust to take information with maturity the things you do.
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nope dont stress over it ,....sometimes even ur best friends are asswholes lol..trust me i know i have them to! and sharing your business w. hem is your own choice..and ofourse its uncomfrotable when people disucss your life no one likes that. Think of it this way if theres any1 one else that you can think of trusting with your personla stuff then you should talk to them...most perferable a guy friend like a very good guy friend..there always listen and understand you wayy more then your girlfriends will =) hope i helped
~Y&B~
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No, it's not wrong of you to keep personal things to yourself. I'm like you, in that I usually keep personal things to myself, too. Sometimes we just don't WANT to share every single detail of our lives, even with our closest friends. Some things are just meant to be shared with ourselves and nobody else.
Bottom Line:
If you want to keep something private, then keep it to yourself. Especially if you think your friends have "huge mouths" and might tell people that you wouldn't normally tell these things to. It's nothing to feel bad about.
-Laura (16-f)
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