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My little sister started selling feet pics online using my ID
Hi there I am a 26 year old woman and I have a younger sister who is 17 year old. She is a very nice obedient girl but one day when I entered her room I saw she was making video of her feet. She was very embarassed and when I enquired I got to know she was selling her feet content on some site. When I inquired I found that she used my ID proof to create her account. What should I do?
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Your sister is one year shy of being an adult. While posting feet photos may not sound so bad, there is a reason she was restricted by age, this is considered adult content for men who are sexually excited by womens feet, and of course, there are many other things that fall into that realm, such as child pornography,nude photos of various body parts. The part of the brain needed for making good decisions is not yet fully developed in teens and seems to be taking even longer in recent years as far as I have personally seen by the very bad decision making. So at this point, she still needs healthy input and counsel from adults she trusts. Hopefully, that is your parents. I have 3 daughters and if one was doing something sketchy like this, I would want her sister to tell me so that I could have a talk with her. You know your parents best. How would they react? If its yelling, freaking, yelling no and taking away her computer, that won't help or teach her anything. In that case, it may fall to an aunt, grandma she is close to, or a teacher or someone older that not only you trust their judgement but she welcomes their opinion as well.
This should not be swept under the rug as insignificant, and seen as a bad decision to use your id. Yes, using your id was wrong. Since she is 'selling' pic's, that would make a person wonder if she is needing or wanting money. Has she tried holding a job or does she even want to? If it's not about money but her version of getting much needed attention (in a very harmful way) then this heart to heart talk is even more important. If you are very close with her, yes it may help to have you talk, but as an older person myself, I would still feel that someone who has lived on this planet longer and seen more and experienced more in life, may be the more important people for her to hear from. So you may want to start off with asking for your id to be removed from the site and telling her she needs to let someone, a trusted adult, talk to her about this. My recommendation is an older adult who is very chill but has strong healthy morals, is very caring and gentle as well. Your parents should hear about this but stay involved and monitor their reaction. If they lose it and freak out and yell, that won't help. At that point, if I were you, I would find the adult you trust who is willing to help, explain the situation to them and have them have that talk with your sis as well. Otherwise, you don't want a criminally minded person she sends photos to, to trick her into meeting them in person wearing sexy shoes, all so they can do whatever they planned with her, and yes it could in the years to come, end up being someone who rapes, or worse, kills her. The guilt you would feel if you did nothing would be overwhelming to you. You should tell her your plan, and carry it out, whether she wants you to or not, because she will be unable to imagine as you can what could possibly happen. Take a deep breath, I know this isn't easy, but it has to be done. Think of it as intervention that must take place.
Blessings to you,
Dragonfly
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