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Depression and anxiety
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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I can't agree more with what others have already told you but first and foremost - relationships fail. They are a 50/50 thing and most do fail before you find the right one. I have had so many relationship failures I have lost count and even now am single. Some relationships didn't hurt so much but others had hurt a lot - this is natural but the sooner you are able to face what has happened and begin to move forward the easier it will be for you.
The anxiety and depression is a serious health problem and I think you really should speak to your doctor about this. Once in a deep depression it can be very difficult to crawl back out of it. You are young, feeling like this was last shot at a family is nonsense. There is someone out there but sometimes sitting and waiting for them is not the answer nor is hiding yourself away in depression. You have to help them out by showing them you are there. :)
I think firstly you should speak to the friends you do have (I only have 2 close friends - not many at all but I rather have quality over quantity), speaking to them will help. There are also the people here you can speak to who responded to you, I don't think any will mind. And you should see a doctor to see about your depression and anxiety because these things will hold you back from moving forward with your life. I don't know who this guy was but that chapter of your life has ended, you can't change what has happened but you now have a whole new chapter to write and look forward to. And don't let this shake your confidence. All too often people assume it was something they did when in fact it was just the other person who has no clue what they are doing.
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