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Depression and anxiety
I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about
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Dear Friend,
I am sorry for your troubles. But where there is life, there is hope. You will find happiness and someone to love you and be supportive. And you will look back on the three relationships that did not work out, and you'll be glad that they didn't. I didn't get married for the first time until I was 31. I was no kid, but I was still very naive.
I am in my 60's now. I have been married 3 times. Divorced twice. I am finally happy. I have been married this time for 10 years. The other marriages did not last that long. Do I wish the first 2 did not happen? Yes, except I do have my two sons who are a great source of joy and pride. ANd it is not too late for you. The best way to forget an old love is to find a new love. And you will. There are billions of people in the world. You only need to find one. And I have always thought that is is best to meet someone while doing something you are interested in, and if that person is interested in the same thing, that you have that in common, you have that to talk about and build a friendship and eventually a relationship. I know its hard and it hurts. I have suffered, emotionally. And blamed myself. But once the dust settled, and I thought about it....my first two husbands set out to fool me, to control me and to keep me in the dark while they could and did do whatever they wanted. But I persevered. You are OK. Don't think of having 3 failures behind you. Think of it as 3 close calls that could have ended badly. You dodged a bullet.
I don't' know what your situation is with Covid. If you can get out or not. There is not a lot of advice I can give you, since I don't know a lot about you. But if you care to write again and tell me something about your life. I will be happy to give you more advice about meeting someone. I'd like to help. Take care. Michele L.
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