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Wtf… could this mean?
So I’m going to be a sophomore in high school this fall, and I recently had another weird dream. The dream was basically the aftermath of having sex with a classmate that I’m not even romantically or sexually attracted to. I’ve had my share of dreams involving boys liking me that I don’t like or doing a sexual thing(never anything truly sexual just a butt smack) and want to know what the dream means in case it occurs again.
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Usually a dream is not a message of something that is going to happen, it can be. But more likely it is acting out your emotions, and our emotions are fed by our thoughts or what we have experienced in life. So if I see a sad movie, I might dream about something totally different than the movie but also makes me feel sad. If I read about a hero, I might dream about a hero. I have found from experience that when I had the same exact dream over and over in life, with nothing at all different in it, then it was the dream trying to tell me something. And I did figure it out. NOt at first, because it couldn't be understood until I changed some of what I believed in, spiritually.
So for you, I can't say what the message is, but if I were having your dreams, I most likely would think that deep down I have a concern about never being able to find the kind of guy that I am attracted to as a friend and lover in the form of a bf or husband. You have seen the way males act at your age and you probably don't like most of what you see. Don't worry. Some of them, the good ones will eventually grow up but you have to be patient. It will take at least until their mid twenties til later for boys to grow mature in their brain. THis is an issue for all kids and teens. The frontal lobe of the brain is not yet mature so any decision making, including what is the best kind of traits to have and to look for in a bf/gf, is something very difficult for a teen to do. So knowing this, I can easily say that for me, it would be a concern, being able to find anyone at all. Some date in HS but this is not a time to really get a serious rewarding, fulfilling relationship that women a decade or two older than you might have. Young males are no where near even thinking those thoughts as I've learned in my life. I also know how much sex really is on the minds of teen males. Males pretty much have their horniness meter going at full blast all the time, 24/7. Females don't usually feel the need for sex while they are gardening, reading a book, grocery shopping, babysitting or caring for an infant, riding their bike, while eating dinner, etc. Any situation, any thing you do during the day, imagime having that sexual itch going during all of it. Its no wonder that young males are more into lusting and experiencing sex without the love. Love is too much work and they just aren't interested that way. I've been on this column so many years I've forgotten how many, but its over six and in that time only heard from 3 girls writing in about having found a teen boy who treats them well consistently, is a good friend but also romantic. Thats only 3 over the span of lets say 6 years. There may be more that weren't written about. So its possible but not very likely. SO during HS and even sometimes college, you will have males who still want just the sex, but not the love while females want both with the male they are attracted to. The fact you aren't seeing enough of males who would fit the profile of what you like, is very disconcerning to you. It hits you at a subconscious mind level. And it is your subconscious mind that is responsible for your dreams. Thats why when awake if you don't see a connection, you must ask your inner self, what kinds of things are of concern to it, and this is the most likely answer I see. The reason behind it may differ for you though. But you will eventually figure it out if you keep thinking about it.
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