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my bf is not giving me any attention i want to leave him but be able to do
[ ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Politely break it off. Focus on doing what you love, take a relationship Vaca and focus on hobbies, passions, bucket lift stuff or volunteer work is always good. This would be a good way to meet someone with similar interests that would probably dig your company a little bit more. this isn't about any kind of shoving it in this guy's face or anyting about happiness and a healthy relationship either way you'll be doing what you want to do and you'll be free ]
First off, Raise your standards whether you decide to leave your boyfriend or not.
Secondly, set boundaries. Do not make the same mistakes twice. Do not accept flowers on the first date, do not meet at your place or his place. Do not go out with a guy unless he opens the door for you, has goals, and is respectful of your time.
Best of Luck,
MisterAdvice101 ]
Normally if there are issues like this and a couple can't talk honest and fair to each other and work it out on their own, then it is best to have a third person, not an unknown as myself on an advice column but someone who is a profession counselor and can listen to both and help them work towards a solution. However this seems to only apply to married couples because of the investment they put into the relationship, the commitment. With dating, often there isn'tk such commutment. So I will tell you to talk it outk with him and if nothing improves then you may have to leave him and find someone better. You may also need to make some changes, find out what bugs him too. ]
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