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Is it safe to masturbate this way?
I (16 year old male) tend to masturbate in my pyjamas, rather than naked. However, I recently googled about whether other people do it this way, and I came across people that do, but they tend to put their hand down their pants and do it. I just feel the bit with the erection there, and move it until I ejaculate into the pants (I’m very squeamish so don’t really like the idea of touching my bare genitals)
I wipe the semen out of my pyjamas and wash my hands when I’m done, but I’m not 100% sure whether it’s safe to masturbate this way.
I think my mom is slightly concerned about the amount I ask for clean pyjamas though. Do you think she is aware of all this masturbation though? If not, how do I tell her?
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There's nothing dirty or wrong with your genitals and they are quite clean provided you practice proper hygene and bathe the area in the tub or shower. You have to get over fear of touching them. Nothing bad will happen for doing so. After all the poster below me is right you need to for urination and are no doubt touching your penis then. How is it any different when not? It's the same thing as touching them for urinating. It's Normal and okay and definetly shouldn't freak you out any.
Not everyone masturbates the same way. You have found what works for you and that's fine. What one person likes another may not.
Most parents of teens and children in general pretty much suspect their kids are doing this with frequency as it's normal at any age and pretty much universal during puberty with either sex. They just may not have spoken to you about it.
As far as the PJs issue goes it sounds not only messy but you constantly are having to wash them. You may want to use wet wipes or kleenex to clean up ejaculate rather than constantly soil your clothing. Everything you are doing is safe and normal so you shouldn't worry about it.
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I don't believe there is an unsafe way to masturbate. Since Masturbation is getting to orgasm using your own hands, what ever is comfortable for your hand and works will do the trick. However, since you are male and squeamish about touching your bare genitals, it has me wondering what the heck you do when needing to pee. Most males hold their penis to aim it at the urinal or into the toilet. Without some guidance, the stream of pee would be hitting walls, floors, the rest of the toilet, anywhere but the water in the bowl. Oh, I know, maybe the idea of putting on rubber gloves to touch your penis when you need to pee will work for you. I suppose you could do the same in bed, no pajama's, just wear gloves. But really, I hope you outgrow this bit about being uncomfortable to touch your self because once an adult, I don't see how sex will be very successful if you don't want to touch it nor let anyone else touch it. Perhaps youi've heard somewhere or parents have said that touching yourself is dirty.
The answer to that is No, it is not dirty. And Mom won't connect the amount of pajamas you wear with being dirty because of masturbation. She may just think you have a odd phobia of not wearing the same thing twice. Semen will dry on cloth and as far as hubby and I can tell, there is no odor the next day, no wet or sticky spots and the only thing one could tell is that is a towel was used, the nap of the towel may feel harsher rather than softer where cum has dried. Can't even see any signs of it. Have you ever thought of not wearing pajama's in the first place? Just because Mom or Dad wear them doesn't mean you have to. Yes, as a kid, I wore flannal nightgowns and hated how they got twisted around my legs. When I got married at 20, I stopped wearing anything to bed because when you have a partner/mate, and there is desire for each other, the best thing in the world is being under the sheets, naked and cuddling skin to skin. If your dieas and feelings continue to be as you stated by time you are into your twenties, you may want to see a therapist or at least a sex therapist to get over the fear of touching yourself. For now, its a new experience so I understand the strangenss of it but as I said, if you're still feeling the same years from now, its not normal and you should do something to get past it.
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