Question Posted Wednesday October 10 2018, 8:02 pm
15 year old girl...lately, I've been having these bizzare sexual dreams. And it isn't just plain old sex-I once had a dream where literally everyone everywhere I went was fighting to eat me out, and another one where I was being paid by two girls to have threesomes with them in the bathroom, or even one that involved me riding a barrel attached to a rope hanging from the ceiling that made me aroused.
I don't know what these dreams mean nor do I know how to stop them, they just make me feel weird. Is this normal?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Dragonflymagic answered Friday October 12 2018, 7:43 pm: I also agree this is most likely hormonal. You may or may not have a boyfriend, may not do anything like masturbating to take care of these feelings you have. I should also mention libido. Libido is is a person's overall sexual drive or desire for activity. The desire can be different in people, with some naturally having a great drive and desire for sexual activity more often and that's normal for them. Others may not feel this desire as often as others. I have seen this vary in people from those wanting sex a couples times a day, once a day, a couple times per week or once every other week or even less, way less. And it is all normal. The thing to keep in mind for way in your future is to make sure you do not marry somewhere who's libido is way different than yours. When you dream, your subconscious is in control and running your dreams. So your subconscious mind is playing scenes that it knows will give you the strongest sexual enjoyment. Our minds, even when awake, are important to enjoying sex. When awake, there are certain things that a person will find more arousing when they focus their thought life on those things, no matter how bizzare they are or that in real life, you wouldn't want to do them. This is also a normal part of sex life and once older and you have a committed partner, you and he will both have fun using thoughts like this to make things more exciting. Enjoy it all, whether asleep or awake. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Friday October 12 2018, 8:08 am: It's normal to have these dreams. THe dream itself is meaningless. THe cause of these dreams are hormonal associated with puberty. Boys have these dreams as well and usually end up with them ejaculating in there slee THe guys call them wet dreams. If you haven't had a climax in your sleep you will at some point.
As I said the dreams themselves are meaning less. They don't mean this is the type of sex life you want or will have as an adult. They are simply hormonal stimulation. If you do orgasm relax and enjoy the feeling. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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