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should i make a move
Hi so this story might sound a little weird and i am really not here for judgement. i just want help i am 15 btw. So my sister recently got in a relationship (shes 25) and i stay with her a lot, her boyfriend lives with her and his sister stays with them too so often times we are all there together and i have gotten to be close to his sister. Shes 15 too. We talk hang out and a lot of times my sister and her boyfriend will go out to dinner and stuff and leave us there, so one night while we were sitting there i was laying on her lap and i don't really know what happened but i ended up rubbing her... sexually. I looked up at her to see how she was feeling and she had her head cocked back moaning so yeah, we didn't kiss or anything it was just the rubbing. She started to run her hand down my side (cause i was laying sideways on her lap ) and i squeezed her boobs and all and yeah but then i noticed she was getting more and more aroused and obviously i was too, she was soaking wet so i tried to make the next move and put my hand in but she kind of stopped me, me being me not knowing what to do next i kinda just stopped everything and laid down a little bit farther away and ended up falling asleep worrying it might be awkward the next day, so then the next day i woke up and saw her and she kinda acted like nothing happened which i was happy about cause u know i didnt want it to be awkward and we haven't talked about it since. Our relationship has been pretty much normal with flirty comments here and there but i kinda wanna explore that side with her. I am straight but i am bi curious and i wanna see what it would be like. She is kinda confusing me because i get these hints and like she seems like it but i dont know . I know i probably shouldnt but i want to make a move and kiss her or something but i dont know how she will react and i dont want it to turn into something where i kiss her and she goes and tells her brother and he tells my sister and then my whole family knows and her whole family knows and i cant stay over there with them anymore. But like i really want something to happen with us, She has a nice butt, a great chest and she is so beautiful. Sometimes we talk outside of when were over there but not much
Overall Question(s): should i make a move? should i just talk to her? should i flirt more and see where it goes. I dont know what should i do
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Talk to her. It might seem something embarrassing to bring up the subject of in case she is not into it but you need to realize that there are many girls your age whose hormones have them horny and they don't want to take the chance of getting pregnant by a boy. And they may not truly find they only get turned -on by girls in which case they would be lesbians. Many straight girls your age who want to experiment with sex do so with other straight females and they go on later to having healthy relationships with guys. It's actually a good thing if you consider you learning what it takes to get yourself or another person off. You will already know by time you are older and fall in love with a man and can tell him what you like. If you explain to her that this is not because you or her might be gay but as a safe alternative to experience sex and enjoy it, she may not feel so awkward or embarrassed or feel its wrong. It's still up to her whether she wants to do it or not. Based on the little she experienced and liked, I am sure if you both look at it this way, it may be easier to make the shift and start doing this.
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I agree with Samjoohns that you talk to her and see how she feels. In every relationship from business to sexual the better the communications the better the relationship.
I would start the conversation with; Sally do you remember when I was laying on your lap and we had a bit of an intimate moment? Sexually I am straight but I'm bi-curious and if you enjoyed what happened between us I would like to explore my bi-side with you or words to that effect.
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The best way out is to discuss a situation.
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