What does it mean when a guy says he deserves you?
Question Posted Monday March 19 2018, 10:56 pm
Is this a good thing or a bad thing? I don’t know how to take that.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday March 20 2018, 2:12 pm: Well thats different. I've heard only the opposite all my life. When a person says "I don't deserve you." And by that, meaning that they know they aren't anywhere near the kind of person you need and want but they love you and choose you anyways.
If you are sure that is not what he was meaning to say, then I am afraid the best way to know exactly what he meant is to ask. Yes, a person can ask days, weeks or months after someone said something you don't understand. ANd no, it doesn't sound odd if you say, Hey, for some reason I was thinking about what you said (mention days or weeks ago) that you deserve me. I realize now that I didn't give it much thought and wondered what you meant by it." Otherwise, it's only your or my best guess. And going around telling someone or people that you 'deserve' someone or something sounded boastful, and thats not good [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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