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Wondering about boyfriend’s saying!
Hello,
Can someone explain this when my boyfriend of month said to me, “you had a contrast in your body language that drove me mad and I liked you from day one.” What’s he saying? Is that the good thing he’s saying?? Thank you for the answers!
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Not everyone knows about or has studied up on what different types of body language mean but it is a very reliable way to know something about another person as far as whether they are interested in you or not. All people also look one way when trying to remember something or look the opposite way when lieing. It's almost like an instinct and we don't even realize we're doing it. Whether he really understands body language or not, he saw something that he liked. There's always the chance that a person used the wrong term or work to describe what they mean to convey to another. So I would not even want to guess what he actually meant by it, however as you've already been told, it was a good thing since he's liked you since day 1.
If you want the details, you'll have to ask. Some guys don't give details much or at all until asked. They simply get to the point. Drives me crazy with my husband. I have to ask him on the average once a day to explain in detail why or something he said and he's always willing to. ITs not weird and wont' be taken wrong at all even if you ask now after the fact. The act of you just asking for more information shows a guy you really were listening to him and that you care enough to ask and it will make him feel good to explain to you. So ask. You could say, hey the other day when you said, " such and such--apply whatever you need details on", I didn't ask what you meant. I know its a good thing but I'd like to know and understand exactly what this contrast you saw in my body language was. its that simple dear. Get used to asking cus I am grandma age and I have yet to come across a male who will anticipate my wanting more detail and tell me things in detail instead of a 'to the point phrase' only.
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Well since he said it made him like you from day one, I'd take it as a good thing.
I would ask him to go more into detail about what he meant when he said you had a contrast in your body language. It was clearly something he liked so I'd just ask him.
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