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i want to know if i should have sex?
i am a 13 year old girl and i ahve been fingered many of times but not given HJ or BJ but i want to know and i want to have sex but i dont know what to do? could you give me some advice x
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I agree with adviceman 13 is too young to be having sexual relationships (or really at 13 all you can really have is a sexual situationship) I definitely think you should wait. Take time to educate yourself on all the things you need to know about sex before partaking in sextracaricular activities. (I sound like my mother but it's so true) enjoy your childhood while you can. It's ok to be curios and learn about sex. But do it in a safe way research online teen sex information. Just be careful what you type and how you type. Ask an adult you trust for more information on sex, pregnanct, STD's and HIV. Please when you do have sex use proper protection. Sex can be fun for a minute but that minute isn't worth spending the rest of your childhood waking up every 3 hours to a screaming baby with a smelly diaper.
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Your not going to like my answer and that's okay. YOUR 13 THAT IS WAY TO YOUNG TO BE HAVING SEX OR EVEN TO BE ALLOWING BOYS TO BE FINGERING YOU. If you continue down this road your going to get a reputation at school as being easy a reputation you don't want. Yes you will be popular but for all the wrong reasons.
I understand the peer pressure young people are under these days especially young girls to have boyfriends. If having a boy friend means having sex with them or allowing them access to places on your body they should not be touching then it is not a loving relationship.
Young boys do not know the difference between love and lust they believe them to be synonymous, they are not. When a boy says, "if you love me you will have sex with me." He doesn't love you he is horny and he lusts for you
High school relations ships are rarely meaningful relationships. You will have many of high school relationships with boys. It will be in college before you may meet the man you will love for a life time. I'm not telling you to wait until you are married, I am telling you that at 13 you are not ready for sex and you are too young for sex. TO wait a few years before deciding to have sex and then try to find a young man that will make it meaningful.
If you have sexual tension try masturbation.
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