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I still think about ex-boyfriend years later. what's wrong with me?
I still think about him occasionally, wonder how he's doing, wish he was with me, etc. we have mutual friends and sometimes I hear about him. I look at his social media pages. What's wrong with me? Am I not over him? Why do I still miss him?
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Now I'm not you- but I don't think you're in love with him.
It's natural to think of people you used to know or care about. It can be hard to let go at times. I've had experiences like this with old friends.I find it best to just let go and go on. It's fine he may wander into your thoughts once in awhile. But if you dwell on it- then you'll be thinking about him ALL the time and it'll feel like torture. So trust me- don't think too much on it.
If you really do want to re-connect with him- then give it a try! I don't know if things ended badly for your relationship or not, or if the relationship was toxic, but if it wasn't then I don't see any harm in just saying hi and catching up. In fact- I have a friend now who recently broke up with her boyfriend of a year. But they are still friends :)
I hoped I helped you somehow- and I hope you figure out what's best for you :)
Best Wishes,
Aiyana
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