Member Since: August 8, 2017 Answers: 2 Last Update: August 9, 2017 Visitors: 295
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i have had heaps of struggles with my boyfriend he dumped me today people are telling me to go after him... i think hes a loyal idiot i have no clue weather or not to fight for our relationship. im 13 and a girl :) (link)
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So- I'm a teenager too. And take it from me- I suggest you don't date him.
It may seem all cool to have a boyfriend, but having a boyfriend isn't about popularity and feeling more mature. It's about truly loving and caring for someone.
From he way you describe him- you guys seem like it'd be best to stay friends.
Besides, most guys at this age are only after two thing when it comes to girls-
1. Saying they are cool because they have a boyfriend
2. Sexual Interactions- I think you get what I mean.
I hope you understand what to do after getting advice from all these different people. Hope I helped! :D
Best Wishes,
Aiyana
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I still think about him occasionally, wonder how he's doing, wish he was with me, etc. we have mutual friends and sometimes I hear about him. I look at his social media pages. What's wrong with me? Am I not over him? Why do I still miss him? (link)
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Now I'm not you- but I don't think you're in love with him.
It's natural to think of people you used to know or care about. It can be hard to let go at times. I've had experiences like this with old friends.I find it best to just let go and go on. It's fine he may wander into your thoughts once in awhile. But if you dwell on it- then you'll be thinking about him ALL the time and it'll feel like torture. So trust me- don't think too much on it.
If you really do want to re-connect with him- then give it a try! I don't know if things ended badly for your relationship or not, or if the relationship was toxic, but if it wasn't then I don't see any harm in just saying hi and catching up. In fact- I have a friend now who recently broke up with her boyfriend of a year. But they are still friends :)
I hoped I helped you somehow- and I hope you figure out what's best for you :)
Best Wishes,
Aiyana
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