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Hi there dragonflylymagic, I've asked this question with topic called has he started to have feelings for me and I'm absolutely grateful for your answer but I gotta ask you again as we both are in college. Something there, I couldn't understand about my boy mate when he said, I miss you, it's weird, you're beautiful just like that choc bar as he bought us one each. Also, "he said, don't deny you don't like me." now, why would he say, don't deny, you don't like me and I miss you and it's weird? Why is it weird. He's got a girl and I got a boy in my life. Something tells me he's definitely likes me coz I like him too. I'm so afraid to ask. He also said, you're the first person I have similar things compatible with added you do understand me, don't you (mentioned my name), I replied, I do. Called me cute. OK, could I kindly have a short and straight feedback please? Thanks a million dragonflylymagic! You're a genius lady ever.
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Sounds like he is very into you. Its one thing to say he's attracted to your looks by saying you're cute and you're beautiful, but it's even better that he is looking at the whole package, who you are inside when he said 'you're the first person I have similar things compatible with'
I am guessing he is waiting for you to give him some clue that you like him and would welcome going from friends to sweethearts and dating. So he asked in a way if you really understood him. You said yes. But I am guessing that wasn't a good enough clue. Maybe something in your body language said otherwise, that perhaps you didn't totally understand.
So its quite simple, you say to him that you'd like to invite him to go out on a real date with you, not hanging as friends but going out as bf/gf. There is nothing more convincing to a guy when a female says or does something that shows without a doubt that she is into him and that is asking him out, and actions like grabbing his hand to hold and making the first move to also kiss him if you wish. If you think guys like to be the leaders in the arena of dating and would be put off by it, then hear this, the guys who really count, the good ones actually like it when a girl is forward and bold like that. Males are attracted to a female with self confidence and doing what I said is a part of what will make him see you as self confident, no matter you may not quite feel that way. i don't think you can go wrong here. And P.S. if he's anything like my second husband, he is likely waiting for you to make the first move towards him as something more than friends. The guys looking for a girl to fall in love with will not want to push her before she is ready to actually date...or more later. If you feel you're still too chicken to ask him out, then write him a note asking him out and maybe decorate with smileys and hearts. Sometimes when you can't speak the words, the written ones can work just as good.
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