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Asshole "friend" claiming I'm a hoe
I'm a 14 year old female. I go to a summer camp which is all about the performing arts. We put on musicals/plays for the town. We are doing Les Miserables currently. I auditioned for the role of Fantine, as did my "friend." I got the part and she didn't. She got really upset, claimimg that if I was actually her friend I would not audition for the part she wanted. A bit of background info for the next thing she says: three boys our age act as the casting directors. They were obviously flirting with me after I was done with my audition. So she's claiming that I gave the three of them blowjobs and that's the only reason why I got the part. That's so fucking offensive to me because I worked so hard to get that role, I practiced for hours on end. Whenever I audition I do dress extra nice but I still but so much time and energy into this, I don't deserve to be called a hoe. Not to sound mean, but I am more attractive than this "friend" and most the girls at the camp which will give me a leg up, certaintly, but I get parts because I'm great at it.
She's now trying to spread the rumor and generally being obnoxious. How should I resolve this?
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If this is a summer camp friend I would be a Duck and just let role off my back. Your real friends will know better. You can't reason with a narcissistic person so it is best just to ignore her.
Let this be a life lesson; there are friends and there are FRIENDS. Friends are people that are friends as long as you help them get what they want or where they want to go. Then their are FRIENDS who want nothing from you but your friendship and will be there to support you when you need support, pick you up and dust you off when you fall down. These are true FRIENDS.
It is unfortunate but as you go through life you will find both types of friends. You start to see the two in High school and it continues into college and the work place. Learn to recognize the true friend from the friend that wants you only for what you can do for them. If you can do that life will be far less complicated.
As they say in the Theater, Break a leg.
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