My guy friend said, I love you and smiled like bit nervous smile, he's never said that before but as I was helping him with his few homeworks plus I always help him if I have time, he goes on says, I love you because you're a genuine girl. But when he said that he sounded like he's been actually wanting to say that for a while. I just said, thankyou. We both looked at each other. Guys should I ask him, did he really mean that or just testing my reaction? Being mates for a long time I think we do have a chemistry. Please help! Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Friday July 28 2017, 6:40 pm: Guys don't confess love easily. Friends/mates of oppostie sex usually don't share that info for fear of losing their friend if the friend doesn't feel the same way. People say things all the time that they don't truly mean. Some men feel love but are the quiet silent type and won't say so.
SO how can it be proved that he is telling the truth? A man will back up what he says by his actions. I understand that this may be just the beginning and you're not in a couple relationship yet but I will add in here a list of things to look for that signal a guy loves you which may come in handy for the near future for you. If you feel chemistry, it sure sounds like he wants to date you and be your boyfriend. He's already said enough to get a reaction out of you and he is waiting for some sign back from you that you want to give dating a try. If you don't feel love yet, thats okay. You have at least interest. I wouldn't call it testing you. He was merely putting out the bait, to see if you would bite. So its your turn, if you are interested enough to at least give it a try, then ask him if he'd want to try being more than friends and see how it goes. I am sure he'll jump at the chance. good luck [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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