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Dies he think of me more than a friend?
He wants to stay friends forever. Confessed if he hadn't had his fiance, if would have asked me out but we will stay friends ok he says. Now I'm thinking, does he want to stay friends because there's a chance of something happening in the future somewhere between us or is he just testing me? Known each other for a year and we get on well. Become good friends. Flirty or joking time to time. Please help! Thanks for the input.
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That's an odd one. I have no idea where he was going with his confession. Doesn't sound like what a normal person would do. He is engaged to be married and has the nerve to say he would have asked you out?! Wonder what his fiancee would think of him if she'd heard him say that to you. It doesn't matter that she wasn't around to hear. What does matter is his integrity as a man. He should be as loyal to whom he is planning to marry whether she is around or not. It sounds like he is trying to find out if you have ever had feelings other than just friends for him. I would venture to guess that maybe he even is hoping to see if he can get you to be the other woman he goes to for sex if you are interested in him that way. I could be horribly wrong. But for what reason is he marrying the other girl. He should break it off with her if he wants to be dating you or even anyone else. If he really wanted to be available for you and ask you out, he would not use the fact he is engaged as a reason he didn't ask you out. It sounds like this could be a situation where he was engaged before he met you as a friend. If he wasn't that sure that his fiancee is the one, then why the heck is he still with her? There is no one forcing him to marry someone he isn't sure of and thats the message he sends when he goes around saying he would have dated you. That is not helpful info to you. Maybe he is marrying her for a reason other than love. Maybe she has money. Maybe he isn't interested in her sexually or even love her. Sorry but I just can't think this guy is someone on the level.
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