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Hello everyone,I am 17 years and i have never had any sexual activity until recently my boyfriend has been fingering me and he said that since he didnt feel any obstruction,that i am not a virgin anymore and he is very offended because he feels that I lied to him of being a virgin,pls how do I assure myself dat I am.
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A possible reason he felt nothing could've been that masturbation has caused the obstruction to break. If you have masturbated.
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Short answer; you are still a virgin until a male penis penetrates your vagina even for a second. If this has not happened to you then you are still a virgin.
Do you use Tampons? Are you athletic at all? Do you go horseback riding or bike riding? These are all activities that can dislodge the membrane without there being sexual intercourse.
Now the membrane may be intact and his fingers may just be sliding through the hole in the membrane that allows you menstrual flow to exit. This hole varies in size and there can be more than one. If he isn't the first boy to finger you and you don't use Tampons then the first boy to finger you may have dislodged the membrane.
Fact is by today’s definition of virgin, if a boy’s penis has not penetrated your vagina for even a second then you are a virgin. Gone are the days of the membrane having to be intact and blood on the sheets on the Wedding night. Today’s female is far too active for that fragile membrane to remain intact until first intercourse.
Just a note here. The average age for first intercourse for females is now age 17.2 years and men is 16.9 years.
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