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Sorry, a little long, the other day, he was helping me with the lesson and he's such a decent boy. Known him for a quite a while now and we got to know each other. Meanwhile, he asked me if I was hungry and went for a burger afterwards. Told him I might be moving near my parents but we can stay in contact if you wish, he said I will always stay in contact with you. So you're leaving me, i shall miss you he said, I told him come on you're a decent human being and we're friends, that moment I don't know but while we're still eating, he says you're making me love you, you know, I like you but now you're making me love you. I just smiled saying nothing. So, why would he use love word? I do have a tiny crush on him. What do you think because you guys are smart people? Want to ask him badly but just get scared. Cheers
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Based on this information I would say he has romantic feelings for you. If you are moving away soon I would not recommend starting a new relationship. If it turns out you won't be moving ask him out on a date. Make sure to use the word "date" so he knows it is not a friend thing.
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I wish that when guys say something the girl doesn't understand that they'd ask right on the spot for clarification. All you can do now is mention that you've been thinking about what he said the other day, mention the words he used and tell him you are still puzzling over it. If you have a couple different possiblities that it might mean, let him know what you are thinking. Unless you share the thoughts you are thinking when they say something, you are never going to understand.
Just the words alone sound promising, it means the guy is processing his feelings and as he discovered more about you, like what he sees even more but hearing you might move and he won't see you anymore or as easily is what got him to realize that perhaps he likes you a whole lot more than even he realized. Often, a person doesnt know if they love someone until it too late and they've lost them. Also, when hearing they may be separated distance wise, or lets say one is being asked out by a third party, the other will realize, hey, if I don't speak up now, I might lose them to this other person. Since he is the one who brought up the word 'love', I see no reason why it should be awkward to bring up what he said the other day. You could ask for clarification on what he meant by love. Then give him two choices. One is: "Is it love like a favorite icecream flavor or your favorite football team kind of love, loving just specific things, or are you talking about the kind of love as in falling in love with everything about a person.
See, the two loves are quite different. One is more self indulgent, picking and choosing the things they like about you, but can they also embrace your differences and encourage you to follow and use your talents, which one does if they are in love. In love means they embrace not just aspects about you but you as a whole and putting your happiness and contentedness above their own and finding they enjoy your company so much that it doesn't change after the years roll by and a couple in love want to spend even more time together because it makes life so much more fun having them with you. This is what you need to find out, what kind of love he is talking about. He may not be at the falling in love stage yet, but the timing of you saying you might move is what got this comment from him, so if I were you, I'd rather ask for clarification.
Why did you smile and say nothing? If you like him enough to wish to date him to see if he turns out to be the kind of man you want at your side rest of life, then dating would be the next step, dating as a way to investigate more about the person and see if what you feel for them strengthens vs dating for an already committed couple. A smile only means that a person is friendly ahd approachable but doesn't convery to him what you thought of what he said. He may still not have a clue and rightly so. Tossing out one phrase that could have different meanings but sounds like a hint to how they feel, can go either way. If you can imagine yourself a decade from now dating or married to another man and still wondering if anything could have sparked between you two, then you owe it to yourself to find out now or forever will you wonder for the rest of your life.
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