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What's he saying....
Hello there,
A boy says,'see, you're my darling and I will do anything for you' with a smile after helping me out with a project and I told him nope, not everything with the hint of smile and we both laughed. We go to same university and became good mates. Today, he was asking me if I have a Facebook and I said, 'why do you wanna know?' so that he could add me, he said. Now, I'm aware that he has a girlfriend and he's aware that I have a boyfriend. What's going on in his mind or should I not be thinking too much out if it? Thank you.
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You are looking too much into things.
He may have made a flirty comment and you playfully shut it down. Some people are just flirty by nature and there is no hidden agenda.
He wants to be facebook friends with you. there is nothing wrong with that.
You both have significant others and unless you are in open relationships then nothing can happen. unless he starts making bolder moves, it sounds like total innocent behavior.
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Very interesting. Have gotten lots of questions all about the same situation on practically a daily basis. Wondering whats up. If you have written us before about this, I wonder why what we all answer has not helped and the question is reposted with a small detail different. So if thats the case for you dear, maybe you could trust enough to share what really is the issue here.
If I am wrong and this is your first time, I will say the same as I've said to others, until both of you are free, meaning single again, there is no chance of pursuing anything with each other. So both of you need to ask yourselves if you are happy with current dating partners. If not, break up and then see if you want to pursue a relationship together. It doesn't get any different than that. Since you are college age, you are old enough to know better than what you knew in High school. If his flirting is making you uncomfortable, ask him why he does it and let him know it makes you uncomfortable. If he is interested in pursuing you, he can't until he breaks up with his girlfriend. You have to be honest about how you feel about your bf and if its not working out, or all the feelings have changed, then it wasn't meant to be. Love is not an on again off again thing that changes as often as we flick a light switch. A real love will last a lifetime and weather ALL the storms that life throws their way. There's no problem with being FB friends. I still have some ex boyfriends as FB friends just as my husband has ex girlfriends, or his childhood buddies sisters as FB friends. THese are people we never see in person and do not have any heart ties to, they are now just friends. So if you are committed to your boyfriend as he is to his gf, you can still be FB friends, as long as it is just to keep tabs on each other, seeing what the other posts. But if he were to start writing things of a too personal nature regarding you, it could make trouble for him with gf. If that is ever the case, you warn him not to do that again or you will unfriend him. Easy peasy.
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