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Super confused about a guy
I've like the guy I like for a year. At first, I wouldn't let myself get a crush on him because he's popular and i already know other girls who like him. We were paired with eachother in science and we started talking. We had deep conversastions and he told me some things that he hadn't told anyone else before. Then, we had a different seating arrangement and I would catch him staring at me. I then decided it's okay to have a crush on him. A couple months before now, he would still stare at me but he was dating another girl. I was confused because if he was dating someone wouldn't he like her more than me? They broke up like two weeks later tho. Now, I've noticed him staring at me longer. Before it used to be glances but now it's like 5 seconds or more. I really want to tell him I like him but I don't know how. I was thinking of putting a note in his locker but his friends would probably find out and I'm not saying they will but they could make fun of me (his friends are idiots) Someone help plz
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In this situation it is important to strike while the iron is hot. Do not waste any time.
He is being to nervous to make the first move, so you need to.
pick and activity that would would like to do with him. make sure it is one you would like to do with your friends even if he says no. A movie, bowling, eat at a new restaurant, ice skating, going to the beach, playing freeze tag, whatever.
pretend you are brave, move quick to intercept him after class and tell him you where interests in [insert activity here] and would he want to join you?
after he says yes exchange numbers and choose and time/day. afterwards be happy and bouncy.
do it all fast like removing and band-aid you will feel much better when it is over.
If his idiot friend find out let them. YOU are in charge.
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Hey!
Guy's are literally so confusing, especially when it comes to love, and relationships. If you want to tell him you like him I think you should pull him aside, into a more private area and just tell him straight up that you like him. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me if you use a note that can things can sometimes end up getting awkward between the two of you. I mean that's really all I can tell you.
Defiantly talk to your friends/close friend about what to do too, because they know you way better than random strangers.
Anyways I hope this sort of helps! Best wishes!
-Swimmer133
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