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I don't understand what he said!!
Hi, we've been mates for a few months and get on quite well with all the bantering and teasing and we always have a laugh. we're in our late 20's but today when we're having a joke he asked me if i had hit on him with a smile, I said no, instead I said, you're the one who's hitting on me most of the time and he smiled and said oh, but you like it, don't you? you like it when I'm hitting on you and smiled again, I said I don't know, what? do you want me to like it when you're flirting with me? and he just smiled and smiled, I felt my face so red and shy, then he told me, me, 'you're very unique and I'm very lucky to have met you and we're friends. he does compliments me when he sees me. I don't know. I do fancy him a bit but I don't know if he does? he keeps mentioning we're friends but does friends flirts and teases loads? I don't get it. he does asks lot of question, personal questions. he's got a girlfriend though and I have a boyfriend. does this make us bad people to feel like this? help me please, guys!! thank you!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
The fact that both of you are dating others means you need to get specific and ask some questions and get some answers and also decide at the same time whether you are happy with current boyfriend or not.
The true reason for dating is to get to know a person well enough to decide if this person is a keeper or whether you'd be settling for less by staying with them. If you want better, and your mate answers that tho he has a girlfriend that he would rather you be his girlfriend, then you let him know if you are interested. That would mean both of you breaking up with current boy/girl friends.
Until you ask hon, you won't know if he is flirting just for the sake of the fun of it, without being serious or whether he wishes you were his girlfriend.
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