Hi :) I know i said i hate him,i didnt mean it like that, im just really really mad at him bc of what he is doing to me but i still kinda like him and i know he wouldnt dare to say anything or do anything bad to other girls in class, he is always nice to them...on tuesday, on valentines day, we have valentines post at school(we can write messages to each other, then put it into the box and then during the day the message will be delivered to this person), i want to write him(through this post)to ask him why is he acting to me like that,to as him if its bc i connfessed to him about my feelings,..i really dont want to write him anything romantic, i just want to use this opportunity to ask him that bc im too scared to ask him in person(is it a good idea)...and about my friends...i cant tell if they consider me as their friend, i feel that some days they act to me really friendly, and some days i feel like they dont talk to me that much, ohh i dont know, or i would want to know how the boys really feel about me bc, they act to me differently then to other girls in class,they say things they wouldnt dare to say to other girls bc i have my twin brother in my class and boys are friends with them, boys take me as their friend“s sister, and HE was really different with me, he was the only guy in class acted really nice to me, its why im so devastated that he acts so bad to me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? rainhorse68 answered Tuesday February 14 2017, 10:59 am: Hi. You appear convinced that because you have a twin brother who shares your classes and circle of friends it is making them act differently towards you. Is having your twin on the scene all the time making you FEEL different? If it is they may picking-up on your feelings a bit? You might accidentally be kind of alienating YOURSELF a bit and they are just reading your feelings. They might be a little unsure of how friendly and approachable you are? It is just a thought. Could you in some way give out the message that you are a person in your own right, not just his twin sister? Regarding the guy you still like, you really must try to move on from him. You could write him a note saying you are sorry that you misread the situation and declared you love for him. But that you would still value him as a friend, so could we try to get over the awkwardness that seems to have arisen since you told him and be 'good friends' again? It may not work, as he might think that this episode is all long past, and not truly be aware that he is upsetting you at all? Make sure that your motive is not hoping to get some sort of reaction out of him, such that he will say he wants to be your boyfriend. If this is your actual motive you should really forget the idea. For whatever reason, he seems NOT to want a relationship like that with you and so you must respect his decision. And dismiss the idea that there is some fault in you (looks, attitude, personality....whatever) that has put him off, or that these (imagined!) faults mean that NO guys will be attracted to you. It's just him. Although you say he is friendly with 'all the other girls' he isn't actually dating any of the seriously, is he? Maybe he simply does not want a full-on relationship with any girl just at the moment? [ rainhorse68's advice column | Ask rainhorse68 A Question ]
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