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I have a supernatural feeling about my crush...
Okay, let's start slow. We're both bi guys.
I first saw him at a train, I knew it was him, cause he was exactly my dream dude. Done with that.
I then met him at a competition. I was already a competitor, and he tried to get in a week after. He lost but he decided to stick around and help us prepare, so that's where we kinda got close.
After the competition, we kinda blew apart, that's when I started growing actual feelings for him. I told my friend I had a crush on him and my friend, stupidly, told him as a joke.
We then met and he called me, and then greeted. So I greeted back. end.
We then met again at the train and greeted. end.
We then met AGAIN at a random place in the city. end.
By this time, he practically knew that I liked him, and I'm not sure if he's avoiding me, but we just don't greet anymore, and tbh, I avoided him because I'm embarrassed.
Now this is where I get weirded out.
I see him almost everyday. Our school has three gigantic buildings, far from each other, but we kept seeing each other, at the hall, at the street. We're on different courses so it's not possible for us to have the same sched.
I dont remember a day when I didnt see him, even when there's no school, I just see him at a grocery or something.
Okay, you may think I'm crazy for this, but I find this supernatural. The odds of me being in the same place with him is just over the top. Why him? At that place? At that time?
And also, whenever we meet, I find him staring at me, then averting his eyes fast. It's really weird...
Is there some explanation to this? I'd accept supernatural answers! Like, the universe playing with us or something.
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I would have to agree that it is not the average experience. To keep running into a person no matter what, of course its reasonable to believe there are other forces at work here. Whether it is just fate, or certain souls were meant to find each other in this lifetime as friends or a mate, time will eventually tell. Of course, keep in mind that we were all given feel will and even though God or even our own souls had a goal or wish for particular experiences in the next incarnation, those things we forget once born into a life so its hard to ever really know. Sometimes you just have to ask God or your angels to show you what if anything you need to do.
God doesnt play with us to amuse himself. He is a loving supportive Father who wants to see each of us continue to grow to become more like him and acknowledge and treat ALL other humans as our siblings in a very large family. Thats all there is to it, why we are alive on this earth. But for each of us, if we were meant to experience something in particular, then one way or the other, it will eventually happen if player number 1 or 2 weren't willing to go along with it or chickened out, then eventually maybe the next person will end up a part of your life.
Keep in mind also that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Its not just a cute saying but there is lots of truth to it that I have experienced in my life, the reasons, the seasons and the lifetime people.
The fact that he averts his eyes when he sees you now means to me that a person is confused or embarassed and doesn't know what to say. Usually they know what their truth is but are afraid of saying so to another. If his truth is that he is bi but not interested in you that way, then he may be afraid, not wanting to hurt you. Its the same for hetero or gay people. When one person believes someone may be in their life for romantic reasons only or fall in love but the other doesn't, that person who is afraid will just avoid contact for lack of knowing what to do or being too chicken to face you and just talk.
You may also be hoping fervently to find a guy who is bi like yourself to be in relationship with. This does not automatically mean that every bi guy who mysteriously keeps coming into your path is there only for that reason. What if he is having a hard time dealing with being bi but got the guts to finally tell a girlfriend or mate and she broke up with him? He may be needing some caring and support in a rough time in his life that does not include romance from another man.
He may also have gotten the wrong impression when you began to avoid him. You might try to write him a note to hand him next time you bump into him. You don't want to scare him by mentioning you dreamed of him Some people do have supernatural gifts that pop up from time to time. I do too and your dream may have been a message to him that a person like this would come into your life soon. YOur friend telling him how you felt rather than you could be the problem. Some people make stuff up as a prank of their buddy to embarrass him. I have never taken someone else word for it if I was told someone liked me. I always said, if that's true, then tell him to come talk to me, I won't bite. Most often people are afraid to bring up certain conversation topics because they don't want to assume anything and are afraid of being wrong. In some ways, they are not comfortable with meeting new people, have some social anxiety, are more like hobbits who are too easily out of their comfort zone and so people avoid each other rather than going to the person and having a good talk. Whatever you need to know, you will find out from him if or when he is ready to tell you. However, without a blossoming friendship where he can learn to trust you with his feelings and be able to share anything without being hurt, nothing may ever happen. Both of you would need to get past feeling vulnerable or afraid to be wrong and just go for talking to see if perhaps he just needs a friend or all you were meant to do is encourage him. I have heard stories of people who were deciding to kill themselves cus they felt no body cared about them and one day a stranger comes into their path and says an encouraging word to them and never sees them again but the distraught person realizes GOd send that person to show that He cares and there are others who will too and they end up deciding to not commit suicide. It could even be something like that with him. You can't know and neither can i for sure. But if you are willing to be of service to whomever comes across your path, then the answers will come to you in time I believe or at least as in some events in my life, clarity and understanding come after the fact, in hind sight as they say.
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