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I'm having problems with pleasure. I give my boyfriend blowjobs all the time but when I ask him to go down on me he says no. We've done 69 but Im not really into that I'd rather take turns but he just won't no matter what. I honestly don't know what to do in this situation.
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IF he does 69 then the problem is not he does not like to do oral on you. Is this a correct assumption then I would make a stand.
Sex is a two way street. Both partners are entitled to their pleasure. If he is not willing to give you your pleasure then don't give him his pleasure.
What is it about 69 you don't like. Is it the position you are in? The 69 position can be done with you on top or bottom as well as side by side. You give him blowjobs so I don't think that's the problem.
Sex is a learned activity and a sexual relationship is like any other relationship. Any relationship will fail unless there is open communication and this extremely true in a sexual relationship.
You and your boyfriend need to sit down someplace and discuss your sex life. What you like and don't like why he won't do this or you won't do that. Most guys want anal from their partners if anal isn't your thing tell him and tell him why. Why he won't go down on you except in a 69 position he owes you and explanation.
At some point in your sexual relationship you will want to take it up a level. This is when you talk about fantasies and things you might want to try like going to a nude beach or topless beach.
I hope I've helped you.
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