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About his sexual attentions
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for six months now and when we normally have sex he doesn't cum anywhere near my vagina but this time he did. He pulled out and came in the general area. What makes him want to do that?
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I will assume from what you have written you are not using condoms which I will address after I answer your question.
What your boyfriend is doing is known as the pullout method of birth control. Many feel that if the male pulls out of the vagina prior to ejaculation the female will not become pregnant. This is a fallacy for while making love the male emits a small amount of semen which acts as lubricant. Most call this precum. In this emission are more than enough semen to make a female pregnant provided all other factors are present.
In order to get pregnant an egg must be in the fallopian tube and viable. This happens sometime between the 7th and 21st day of a woman's menstrual cycle. If using the rhythm method of birth control this is the time of the month a woman should reframe from having sex. The egg is viable for three day. Sperm is viable for three days. Having sex for three days before or after the egg is released by the ovary is when a woman is most likely to get pregnant.
Condom usage: Even if you are on birth control medication it is important you use a condom while having as condoms not only increase the level of protection on birth control. They are also good at preventing transference of many of the STDS and the HIV/AIDS virus.
Until you are in a truly long term relationship, six months does not qualify, and been tested for viruses and STDS. Each time you have sex you are having sex with all the partners that came before you. While your partner may be clean he may be a carrier of an STD or Virus which is why testing is important.
I hope I have answered your question. I strongly recommend you use condoms until you are both tested and you are sure he you are the only one he is having sex with. HE will complain that condoms cause loss of felling. Stand your ground for it’s your life and your reproductive system at risk.
When I was younger the girls had a saying, "No rubber no lover." "This was before birth control med though it is still a good saying today.
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