What happened? Did he lose his erection because he wasn't attracted to me.
Question Posted Thursday January 5 2017, 3:10 pm
So me and my boyfriend were in the middle of having sex and he lost his erection. He was disappointed in himself well that's what he said. He said to give him a minute and he came back hard and fucked me raw. Which is weird since we always do it with a condom. Did he lose his erection because he wasn't attracted to me.
The physical reasons are long but at the top of the list is fatigue, tension and anxiety along with reaction to medications such as blood pressure meds or over the counter meds.
Another cause would be if he is trying to prolong intercourse. Most of us at one time or another will find ourselves building to climax very early long before we want to or our partner is ready, call it a form of premature ejaculation. To prevent this or stop it from happening we all have different methods we try. This sometime works better than we planned and the old noodle goes limp.
From what you have written he regained his erection and you had a great time. From this I would say the problem was on the penile side and not the vaginal side of the action. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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