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Hello thank you for responding to my question I am the person who asked about how to tell if my teacher was flirting with me or not and thank you for what you said I do understand what you mean, I do not flirt with him and I would not act on it. It's just him making sexual comments and showering me with compliments and always trying to be around me and talk to me and I never see the teacher be like that around other people. Everyone I know says he flirts with me but I wasn't really sure honestly. I wouldn't ever do anything though because I wouldn't want to ruin anything for him, even though I am very attracted to him which is difficult. :( thank you for the advice
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Hi there! You're welcome. Just reading through your post. Some of what you are saying re. other people noticing and comments which are unmistakably sexual in nature would suggest you possibly would not have to 'do too much' (as you might say) for the situation to get a little bit out of hand? Add in the fact that you find him attractive and I appreciate it is difficult for you. It's easy to dismiss things like this as a 'crush'. All in your mind, and even 'wishful thinking' or fantasy. But that really is not giving you any credit or attempting to hear out the actual facts. These feelings of 'connection' are a bit mysterious, and can make other acquaintances/relationships (which don't seem to have it) seem a little bit dull and hard work by comparison? I think I can get a good idea of a lot of what you are feeling and thinking here. You clearly are thinking about the action/consequence nature of things, showing you have a mature mind and attitude. Which is great. And you can probably see how such things do indeed happen? So, keep things light and fun. A little harmless flirting, out in the open is not too sinister. Enjoy being admired by a guy, and indeed by a guy who you are quite happy to be admired by. Sounds like something you might have to get used to. Heart-breaker!!
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